ORIGINALLY AIRED IN 2020:

Listen, this episode of The Being Human podcast has one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned, and it’s the third of the top 4 things I’m walking away from in 2020 because of how damaging it can be.

Do you realize how much time and energy we spend trying to convince or force something to work? 

We want people to respond a certain way, see us, and understand our perspective, yet we tend to spend an enormous amount of our energy trying to make them see us or give us the love we desire so much… and it’s time to stop.

It’s amazing how light I’ve felt since making the decision to stop begging for love and attention, and it may have taken me a long time, but it created a massive shift in my energy when I realized it. I have so much extra space, time, energy, and myself to share with the right people now that I’ve done this and I hope that by listening to this episodes you can feel the same.

Let’s get started. 

Resources and Links from the Show: 

• Listen to Part 1 of this 4-Part Series
• Listen to Part 2 of this 4-Part Series

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Key moments to tune in for:

• [5:22] The soul-crushing personal experience of begging for love and attention
• [10:11] Shifting the mindset to self-love and how begging for love and attention negatively affects your life
• [14:48] The steps toward valuing and validating yourself

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Vasavi Kumar leads the coaching industry with 10 years of experience and has helped thousands of women overcome major life obstacles to create new heights of success. Her work is known internationally from speaking engagements in India and across the USA. Vasavi is recognized for getting to the bottom of the intersection of self and business roadblocks and her methods teach clients how to master the art of getting what you want, by mastering their mind.

Vasavi holds dual Masters degrees in Special Education from Hofstra University and Social Work from Columbia University. She’s the host of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast and Former Co-Host of Studio 512, a lifestyle and entertainment morning show in Austin, TX. She's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, FOX, VH1, and was a regular on NBC’s Kansas City Live as the “Keepin’ It Real Guru.” She believes that when you cultivate a solid relationship with yourself, you can be, do, and create anything you want.

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