What happens to the dreams we leave behind? In this episode, we unpack how aspirations evolve, why reinvention isn't failure, and how to honor the past versions of ourselves without being trapped by them. Rooted in East African proverbs and wrapped in our signature introspection, this one’s for anyone who’s ever felt like starting over was giving up. It’s not. It’s just a dream changing its name.

Not all betrayals come with a knife. Some wear your face.
This episode peels back the layers of self-sabotage, the quiet damage of doubt, and the heavy things we carry in the name of friendship. It’s about the words that wound, even when they come from those closest to us—and the deeper wound when we believe them.
A raw, reflective take on loyalty, resilience, and reclaiming your voice.

Not every silence is serene. In this episode, we explore the illusion of peace — the kind that asks you to shrink, to smile, to stay quiet. Through reflection and a hint of humor, we ask: what are we really calling peace? And what does it cost us?

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In this episode of Tossing the Coin, we explore the many masks we wear to survive, thrive, and belong in Nairobi. From polished LinkedIn selves to raw, quiet truths—we ask: who are we when no one’s watching? A candid, thoughtful look at identity, belonging, and the quiet courage of being real.

Listen, share, and tag someone who’s juggling versions too.

Everyone talks about confidence like it’s a badge you earn—but what if it’s just a side effect of showing up scared and doing it anyway?

In this episode of Tossing the Coin, we unpack the myth of confidence, why most of us are just winging it, and how the magic really begins after you take the first step. There’s fake-it-till-you-make-it, ancient wisdom, and shaky hands with loud voices.

If you’ve been waiting to feel ready—this one’s for you.

Hit play, and then hit send—share it with someone who needs a little push and a lot less pressure.

Friendships aren’t broken—they’re just... different. In this episode, we’re unpacking the myths, the mess, and the quiet beauty of friendships that don’t always fit the “forever” fantasy. From ghosted group chats to mutual vibes-only bonds, this one's for anyone who’s ever asked, “Are we still cool?”

Listen, laugh, and maybe feel a little less weird about drifting.

If it hits home, share it with a friend—or an ex-friend you still kinda root for.

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We’re flipping the script on procrastination. Is it laziness—or lowkey genius? Tune in as we explore how putting things off might actually be your brain’s sneaky way of working smarter. Spoiler: doing nothing might be doing something.

HELLO FOLKS!!

You're listening to Tossing the Coin—the podcast where uncertainty meets insight. I’m your host, Arfan Warsame.

Each week, we explore life’s messiness with a touch of humor, a bit of philosophy, and some real, unfiltered reflection.

From chasing success to just learning how to show up, this is a space for growth, perspective, and a little laughter along the way.

So, if you're figuring things out—or just need a nudge to keep going—you’re in the right place.

Let’s dive in, and see which way the coin lands today.