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FAQs about Tough Love and Tecates:How many episodes does Tough Love and Tecates have?The podcast currently has 13 episodes available.
December 02, 2025Thankful For Detours, Family, And A Fresh StartWhat if the hardest year of your life turned into the most honest one? We open our hearts about gratitude that goes beyond highlight reels—thanking the baby boy on the way, the move that reshaped our family, and the painful detours that forced us to grow. It’s not a neat story. It’s tears, laughter, and the quiet relief of owning the truth when shortcuts stop working.We talk about accountability without self-erasure: how secrets weigh more than consequences, why confessing can feel like freedom, and how making amends re-centers your values. There’s a candid look at ending relationships that drain you, not out of spite but to protect peace. Faith anchors the conversation—surrendering timelines, trusting God’s pacing, and finding strength when everything looks like it’s falling apart. We also get real about the move that helped our kid discover baseball, brought new love, and still left us missing the son who stayed behind, a tension we hold with care.This is also a story of us becoming better listeners. Years ago we needed to agree to feel safe. Now we can sit with different views and still find each other. Starting this podcast pushed us through anxiety, taught us to show up even when we overthink, and gave us a ritual that’s as much mother-daughter time as it is a show. Expect warmth, vulnerability, and a few laughs about turkey comas and saying “like” too much—because growth can be tender and funny at the same time.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a hopeful nudge, and leave a review to help others find this space. Tell us: what detour are you quietly grateful for today?...more17minPlay
December 02, 2025From Employee To Entrepreneur: Building Confidence, Systems, And A Clear WhyWant to be your own boss without losing your footing? We unpack the real work behind entrepreneurship: a clear why, disciplined self-talk, and the daily habits that replace motivation with momentum. Along the way, we get honest about the roller coaster, the temptation to complain, and how your words shape your results more than you think.We break down the employee-to-entrepreneur shift and why accountability is the quiet superpower that keeps your calendar and cash flow alive. You’ll hear how to choose the right industry and company, lean on systems so you don’t rebuild the wheel, and use mentors to fast-track trust when you’re new or young. Instead of hoarding product knowledge, we advocate for practice over theory: talk to people, lead with education, and let service replace sales pressure. Confidence comes from clarity and repetition, not volume or hype.We also challenge myths about risk and security. A paycheck can feel safe until it isn’t, so we explore part-time pathways that protect your bills while you build skills. We touch on the Cashflow Quadrant to explain the difference between self-employed and business owner income, and we examine the money beliefs many of us absorbed growing up. If you’re stuck in fear, remember: action shrinks it. Start small, borrow authority from mentors, and bring value to every conversation. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s ready to grow, and leave a review to tell us what mindset shift you’re making today....more22minPlay
November 15, 2025Learn The Rule Of 72 And Stop Letting Interest Work Against YouMoney shouldn’t be a mystery only insiders understand. We sit down with educators Paulina Espinosa and Irvana Sandoval to translate complex ideas into simple moves you can use today, from the Rule of 72 to the hidden cost of parking cash at 1% while carrying cards at 28%. Their stories—leaving a university job and a salon chair for flexible, purpose-driven work—frame a bigger mission: turn financial literacy into a practical toolkit for families, students, and small business owners.We walk through crystal-clear examples that reveal how compounding can build wealth or compound pain. You’ll hear a side-by-side comparison of savings versus investing using a $10,000 case study, a straightforward guide to how much a 25-year-old might invest monthly to reach $1 million by 67, and why waiting until your 40s raises the bar. We also tackle credit card debt with honest talk about when consolidation helps, when it doesn’t, and how to choose a plan based on your actual numbers. No jargon, no shame—just math you can verify and steps you can repeat.One highlight is the “million dollar baby” strategy: small, early contributions that let time do the heavy lifting for your child’s future. Whether it’s a single lump sum left to grow or a few years of modest monthly deposits, the aim is a legacy built on simple habits, not big incomes. We also break money taboos at home, arguing that financial literacy is a human right and a conversation every family can start with plain language and shared goals. Ready to move from guessing to planning? Grab the ebooks, share this with a friend who needs a nudge, and book a one-on-one financial evaluation. If you value this kind of practical money talk, subscribe, leave a review, and tell us the one concept you wish you’d learned in school....more21minPlay
November 08, 2025Choosing Honesty Over Ego In Love And FamilyEver catch yourself arguing about nothing and wonder what you’re really fighting for? We open up about the messy, brave work of choosing vulnerability over ego and how that choice reshaped both a twenty-five-year partnership and a newer, healthy relationship on the brink of parenthood. From tiny flare-ups that mask bigger wounds to the quiet courage of saying “I need space,” we unpack how accountability, boundaries, and clear asks can transform love from fragile to resilient.We get honest about the habits that sneak in from past relationships—testing, poking, expecting old chaos—and how naming them out loud breaks the loop. You’ll hear how we distinguish a helpful boundary from a shutdown, why taking a solo day can save a week, and how to ask for help without feeling like you’ve failed. We also talk about offering advice only when it’s wanted, protecting your energy without punishing your partner, and raising kids while breaking the patterns you grew up with. Along the way, faith and reflection ground the hard choices so tenderness can return.If you’re craving calmer conversations, deeper trust, and fewer mixed signals, this is a roadmap you can use today. Learn how to say the true thing kindly, repair faster after missteps, and create a home where needs are spoken plainly and handled with care. Subscribe for more real talk on relationships, share this with someone who needs the nudge, and leave a review to tell us the boundary you’re setting this week....more16minPlay
November 01, 2025Purpose Lives Where Your Skills Meet Someone’s NeedEver feel like you’ve outgrown a role but can’t see the bridge to what’s next? We take you inside the messy, hopeful, and practical work of choosing a career that actually fits—one that pays the bills, serves real people, and leaves you proud of how you spend your time.We start with a candid look at hitting a ceiling in an office role and pivoting into real estate, not just for commissions but to guide first-time buyers who’ve been told homeownership isn’t for them. We break down common fears around mortgages, why leases are commitments too, and how assistance and foreclosure-prevention programs can protect families. Real service means teaching the process, removing shame, and opening doors to stability and equity.Then we shift to a different calling: esthetics. After trying hair and nails, skin care felt like home—a space to calm nervous systems, restore confidence, and offer rest. The vision expands into access: a studio plus mobile services for clients who can’t travel, from new moms to people with mobility limits. It’s a simple model with outsized impact, built on listening and meeting people where they are.We also challenge timelines and comparison. Trades like electrical, HVAC, and framing need people now, with paid training and certifications that skip heavy debt. Reinvention at any age is real, and gratitude, faith, and honest reflection help you find center after risk and setback. Parenting adult children adds nuance: the hardest love sometimes is letting go of your plan so they can follow what truly calls them.Walk away with clear takeaways: choose work where your skills meet someone’s need; explore trade pathways and funding; design for access, not just aesthetics; and stop measuring your pace against someone else’s highlight reel. If this conversation lights a spark, follow the show, share it with a friend who’s at a crossroads, and leave a review with the path you’re considering next....more18minPlay
October 25, 2025Authenticity Makes Relationships LastWhen the vibe is off, do you push through or protect your peace? We open up about the subtle ways relationships tell the truth long before we admit it, and how to listen to that signal without slipping into drama. From family and friendships to long-term love, we share the simple filters we use to decide what stays: does it bring joy, support our livelihood, or create real rest?You’ll hear how growing up changes social circles and why that’s okay. We talk about moving from people pleasing to self respect, giving others the same courtesy we want, and dropping the habit of keeping score over texts and RSVPs. Authenticity sits at the center: relationships crack when we perform instead of show up as our true selves. We unpack what long-lasting love looks like when both partners are allowed to be real, messy, and still kind.Communication gets practical here. One of us needs time to cool off before talking; the other wants to solve it now. We walk through negotiating those styles, addressing conflict directly, and ending the gossip chain with one disarming question: “Why did they feel comfortable saying that to you?” We also cover how to read effort, accept that people understand you only to their capacity, and let go without turning every change into a fallout. No villains, no vendettas—just boundaries, clarity, and peace from a distance when needed.If you’re craving easy relationships, stronger boundaries, and honest conversations, this one’s for you. Listen, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review to help more people find the show....more19minPlay
October 16, 2025Keys Over RatesThink owning a home is out of reach because rates are high or you don’t have 20% down? Let’s flip that script with real numbers, clear steps, and the kind of market context that actually helps you move. We break down the true cost of renting versus buying, how much cash you really need, and why today’s buyer-friendly landscape can put you in control—rate buydowns, seller-paid closing costs, and room to negotiate included.We start with the essentials: what lenders look for, how to position your credit, and the exact documents that speed up approvals. You’ll learn why a 640+ score opens better programs, how debt-to-income shapes your price range, and why shopping two to three lenders can save thousands over the life of your loan. We dive into FHA’s 3.5% down path, state and county assistance, and the myth-busting truth that many first-time buyers bring around $1,000 to get started while using structured support for the rest.From there, we zoom out to timing and leverage. More inventory shifts power to buyers, which means fewer bidding wars and more concessions. Waiting for rates to drop might feel safe, but it can push you into a seller’s market where cash-heavy offers win. The smarter move? Secure the right home now if the numbers work, then refinance later if rates improve. You’re buying the house and renting the rate.We also talk freedom and security: fixed payments that don’t jump at renewal, the ability to improve what you own, and the long-term wealth effect of equity growth. Plus, a peek into turning a primary home into a rental or short-term rental—how equity can fund life changes and why investor math varies city to city. Whether you’re nineteen with a clean credit file or starting later with a focused plan, the path is the same: know your numbers, use market leverage, and move when it makes sense.Ready to see what you actually qualify for and build a plan, even if you’re a year out? Hit follow, share this with someone who’s renting, and leave a quick review with your biggest homebuying question—we’ll answer it on a future show....more15minPlay
October 11, 2025Leverage, Not Lifestyle: Rethinking Credit as a ToolCredit isn’t a mystery box—it’s a system you can learn and use to your advantage. We dig into the exact steps to establish a reliable credit profile from zero, the traps that keep people stuck in high-interest debt, and the everyday habits that move your score toward 700+ without stress. From secured cards that graduate fast to the statement-timing trick that protects your utilization, we share the playbook we actually use at home.We start with the simplest on-ramp: a $500 secured card from your bank, Discover, or Capital One. Then we layer in strategies that build history and stability, like adding a responsible authorized user (yes, even for teens) and aiming for three well-managed cards over time. You’ll learn why car rental counters still insist on a true credit card, how to pick rewards that match your real spending, and how to avoid the silent score-killer of inactivity. Most important, we outline a rhythm that works: predictable charges like gas, payments before the statement closes, and small reported balances that show healthy use.We also talk about mindset. Credit is leverage, not extra money. Treat points as a rebate for planned spending, not a reason to splurge. Pay off travel before you travel so your vacation stays a vacation. And if you’ve already paid down balances, cleaned up errors, and your score still won’t budge, we share vetted resources that have helped our clients—and us—remove roadblocks the right way. Subscribe, share this with someone starting their credit journey, and leave a review with your biggest credit question so we can tackle it next....more12minPlay
October 04, 2025Becoming Mom: Fear, Support, and Breaking Old CyclesA toast without Tecates and a reveal that changes everything—we’re expecting, and we’re talking honestly about what that means for our lives, our show, and our family. From first-time mom jitters to the rush of hearing a tiny heartbeat, we trace the messy, beautiful arc from fear to fierce devotion and share how we’re rewriting old rules along the way.We open up about two very different pregnancies: one marked by instability and nonstop nausea, the other planned and flooded with early joy. That contrast sparks deeper questions: How do you break cycles of “my way or the highway”? What does it look like to parent by listening instead of control? We share the simple prompt that changed our conversations—“Do you want to vent, or want advice?”—and how it turned conflict into clarity. There’s laughter over baby names, tenderness around medical scares that looked like colic but weren’t, and real talk about the weight loss, insecurity, and intrusive opinions that can make new motherhood feel isolating.If you’re stepping into parenthood or healing your relationship with your own parents, this is a grounded, nonjudgmental guide. We dig into mom guilt, why asking for help is a strength, and how self-care isn’t indulgent—it’s a parenting skill. We talk co-regulation, nervous system resets, practical coping (sleep when the baby sleeps; put the baby down safely when you’re spent), and the courage to build a family culture that fits your values, not the internet’s expectations. No comparisons, no shoulds—just compassion, boundaries, and a little bit of baby fever.Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a calmer take on new motherhood, and leave a review with the one belief about parenting you’re letting go of this year. We’re listening....more20minPlay
September 27, 2025Home Is Where We Create It: Building Sanctuaries Wherever Life Takes UsHave you ever noticed how the stories we tell ourselves shape our reality? Sometimes the biggest barrier to our happiness isn't external circumstances but the narratives we've created about what's possible.In this heartfelt mother-daughter conversation, we dive deep into our August wins while exploring the transformative power of shifting perspectives. Trini shares how moving out of her mother's home created a necessary shift in responsibility—what was once optional became essential, forcing growth and maturity. The vulnerability in admitting "I wasn't at my best" opens a beautiful dialogue about forgiveness and forward momentum.One of the most powerful moments comes when discussing the shift from viewing work as a burden to seeing it as an opportunity. "The lies you tell yourself are the ones that hurt the most," becomes a touchstone for understanding how our internal dialogue creates our external reality. This mindset transformation has allowed both women to stop making excuses and start embracing possibilities.The conversation expands beyond personal achievements to explore what it means to create sanctuary wherever you go. From establishing a real estate community built on collaboration rather than competition to negotiating time in a beloved former home, there's wisdom in recognizing that home isn't just a physical space but an energy we cultivate. Perhaps most valuable is the discussion around becoming "savage" about protecting your peace—evaluating every interaction through the lens of whether it contributes to your wellbeing.Ready to shift your perspective and find greater peace? Listen now and join us in celebrating wins both big and small while discovering how changing your mindset can transform your entire life experience....more18minPlay
FAQs about Tough Love and Tecates:How many episodes does Tough Love and Tecates have?The podcast currently has 13 episodes available.