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Most people are waiting for confidence to show up before they take the leap… but the truth? Confidence doesn’t come before the fall — it comes after the recovery.

In this episode, I’m diving headfirst into why failure is not the enemy — hesitation is. If you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, playing it safe, or waiting for the “perfect time”… this is your wake-up call.

We’ll talk about:

• Why falling faster actually speeds up your growth
• How trying to avoid failure is keeping you stuck
• The difference between surviving and learning
• Real-life stories (mine included) of falling flat — and getting back up stronger
• Tangible steps to rewire how you think about setbacks

Because growth doesn’t live in perfection — it lives in motion. And if you want to become unstoppable, you’ve got to stop fearing the fall.

This one’s for the girl who’s tired of waiting and ready to start doing.

Let’s get uncomfortable. Let’s get better. And let’s fall a hell of a lot faster.

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This episode is not for the faint of heart... it’s for the woman who’s ready to stop pointing fingers and start taking the wheel.

Radical responsibility isn’t about blame. It’s about power. It's the uncomfortable truth that if your life feels out of alignment, you’re the only one who can fix it.

We’re diving deep into what it really means to take ownership - of your mindset, your habits, your results, and yes, even your excuses. I’ll walk you through the sneaky ways we all avoid responsibility, why it’s keeping you stuck, and the liberating shift that happens when you stop outsourcing your potential.

If you’re done playing small, done waiting for permission, and ready to lead yourself with intention — this episode will be the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.

Listen when you’re ready to stop talking about change and actually create it.

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This one’s a wake-up call for every people-pleaser, over-committer, and woman who’s ever put herself last.

In this episode, I’m diving deep into the life-changing power of saying NO — without guilt, without explanation, and without apologising for putting yourself first. Whether you’re trying to save money, focus on your health, build your business, or just protect your damn peace, the ability to say no is the game-changer you didn’t know you needed.

We’ll talk about why saying no feels so hard, the damage it’s doing when you don’t, and how to start using it as your ultimate confidence tool. I’ll walk you through actionable steps to strengthen your boundaries, shift your mindset, and stop leaking energy into things that don’t serve you.

This episode is blunt, real, and might just be the push you need to stop tolerating what’s been holding you back.

Your goals aren’t waiting for you to make everyone else comfortable — they’re waiting for you to choose you.

Let’s go.

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Ok guys, this episode is a wake-up call.

If you’ve been stuck in the trap of comparison, constantly feeling like you’re behind or not good enough because someone else seems further ahead - this one’s for you.

In true tough love fashion, I’m breaking down why your only real competition is you. Not the girl online with the perfect routine. Not your friend who’s hit a milestone you’re still working towards. Just the version of you from yesterday and whether you’re showing up to beat her today.

Inside this episode, we cover:

• Why comparison is killing your confidence
• How to use reflection as fuel (not fluff)
• The exact questions to ask when you feel stuck
• What it really means to grow — and how to track it without relying on external validation
• A 3-step challenge to help you take action this week

This is your reminder that your power lies in your progress - not perfection, not performance, and definitely not pretending you’re someone else.

It’s time to stop looking sideways. It’s time to beat the old you and become the version of yourself you keep dreaming about.

Let’s go.

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Ok, you’ve been downplaying your wins to keep other people comfortable and it’s killing your confidence.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the quiet shame so many women carry when it comes to celebrating themselves. You hit a goal, you finally feel proud… and then you shrink. You brush it off. You say it was “no big deal.”

Why? Because somewhere along the way, you were taught that shining too brightly makes you “too much.”

But here’s the truth:
Dimming your light doesn’t serve anyone, ESPECIALLY not you.

Inside this fire-filled episode, we talk about:

• Why you minimise your success (even when you’ve worked your ass off)
• The difference between arrogance and ownership
• How shrinking your wins is damaging your self-worth
• Practical ways to start owning your power without apology

This is your permission slip to stop playing small. To clap for yourself loudly. To own the magic you bring — without guilt, without shame, and without watering it down.

Because confidence doesn’t come from waiting for applause. It comes from giving it to yourself first.

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In this episode, we’re calling out the patterns that so many women are stuck in! Saying yes when they want to say no, bending over backwards to keep the peace, and constantly putting everyone else’s comfort above their own. Sound familiar?

You’re not a doormat, you’ve just been trained to be one.

We dive deep into:

• Why people-pleasing isn’t kindness - it’s self-abandonment
• How to spot the subtle ways you’re betraying yourself
• The hidden cost of never setting boundaries
• Why “being nice” is keeping you stuck, small, and resentful
• How to start choosing yourself without guilt

If you’re tired of shrinking yourself to make other people comfortable, this episode is your wake-up call. You don’t need to be louder. You don’t need to be mean. You just need to start respecting yourself enough to hold the damn line.

Because when you stop letting people walk all over you, you start walking in your power.

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You look confident… but do you feel it?

This episode is for the girl who’s showing up online, posting the Reels, hyping herself in stories — but behind the scenes, she’s cringing, second-guessing everything, and relying on praise to feel enough.

I’ve been her. And I’m calling her out — with love.

In this episode, we’re exposing performative confidence for what it is: survival mode in a sparkly dress. I’m diving into how to spot when you’re faking it, why it’s burning you out, and exactly how to start building real, grounded confidence that doesn’t need to be loud, perfect, or praised to exist.

Get ready for some tough love, tangible steps, and a reminder that true confidence isn’t a mask — it’s self-trust.

It’s time to stop pretending and start becoming.

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We're back with a BANG!

Let’s get brutally honest, you keep waiting for someone to come save you, clap for you, validate you… but the truth is? That someone has to be YOU.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it really means to start showing up for yourself. Not just when you feel motivated. Not just when it's easy. But every damn day - even when it’s hard, even when you doubt yourself, even when no one’s watching.

We’ll talk about:

• Why you keep abandoning your goals
• How self-trust is built (and broken)
• What it actually looks like to back yourself
• Tangible, no-fluff steps to stop ghosting your potential

This one’s for the women who feel stuck, overlooked, and low-key resentful but deep down, know it’s because they’re playing small. If you’re tired of half-arsing your growth and ready to take the wheel? This one’s for you.

Because no one is coming to save you. It’s time to start showing up like you would if everything you wanted was already yours.

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Let’s get one thing straight: your comfort zone is not your safe place - it’s your silent killer.  

In this unapologetically honest episode, I’m calling out the real reason so many women feel stuck, unmotivated, and disconnected from their power… they’re too damn comfortable. Whether you’re already in network marketing or still watching from the sidelines, this one’s for you.  

We’re diving into:
- Why your comfort zone is draining your confidence dry  
- The brain science behind why discomfort = growth  
- Tangible steps to break out of your own way (and why they work)  
- The exact mindset shift that took me from playing small to showing up loud  

If you’re tired of “waiting for the right time” and secretly scared you’ll never reach your potential, this episode is your wake-up call. 

Tag your team. Share with your fence-sitting bestie. And remember: Confidence doesn’t come before action. It comes from it.  

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If you’re tired of reacting to life, sabotaging your progress, and getting caught in emotional chaos — this episode is for you.  

In today’s raw and unfiltered solo, I’m diving deep into the power of emotional intelligence and how mastering it will change everything — your mindset, your relationships, your business, your goals, your entire life.  

We’ll cover:  

• Why emotional intelligence is the most underrated superpower  
• The difference between reacting and responding (and how it changes your outcomes)  
• Real-life examples of emotional self-awareness  
• How to regulate your nervous system and reclaim control  
• Tangible tools to grow your EQ and stop spiraling when life hits hard  

This isn’t surface-level advice. This is the kind of episode that will shift you if you let it.  

Listen with your heart open. Let’s evolve together.

Rate, review & share if this episode hits home.  

Tag me on socials @lucychartay and let’s talk about what landed for you most.  

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