This week on Toxic Behavior, we're diving into the whole Uncle Bob fueled chaos that is.....men living double lives. From serial cheaters with secret families to the theory that some of them might just be gay and deeply repressed — we’re not holding back. We also ask the real question: why are the red flags always hotter? Is emotional damage just part of the appeal?

If you ever found out your man had a double life or caught hime doing nefarious things, this one is for you ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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This week on Toxic Behavior, we kick things off by once again getting exposing just how competitive we are… to the point where it could actually end us. Then Carly accidentally tells her bookkeeper she’s an escort (???), and we spiral from there.

In true chaotic form, we wrap up with a deep dive on energy, aura, and attraction — aka, why some people just glow when they walk into a room. We talk about how your energy shifts your outcomes and how being in the right vibe magnetizes the life (and people) you actually want.

If you've ever spiraled about why some people just command attention when they walk into a room - this one is for you ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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We’re back after a couple weeks off—Carly was in crisis mode with a dog on the brink of death, but we all lived to tell the tale. This week, we’re easing back in with some hot takes: why are felons and broke men so hot? Plus, we break down that Vogue article about how having a boyfriend is now considered embarrassing—and yeah, we agree.

We wrap the episode with a wildly unhinged topic... even for us.

If you've ever defended a man with a rap sheet or rolled your eyes at that one girl who made her entire personality her boyfriend, this one’s for you. ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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This week on Toxic Behavior, we’re talking about unproblematic men — but first, let’s unpack the voices in our heads. Alycia’s are spiritual. Carly’s are just… untreated.

Then we talk about the least problematic men in Hollywood and ask the real questions: How do you spot an unproblematic man in the wild? Would we even recognize one if we saw him? Or are we too desensitized from dating apps?

If you've ever thirsted over Matthew Mcconaughey, wondered if you will ever find your own unproblematic man, or thought Ed Gein was hot just becase he was played my Charlie Hunnam, this one is for you. 🔪❤️

Let’s get one thing straight: setting boundaries, choosing yourself, and not letting people walk all over you does not make you a villain. So why does the internet keep glamorizing boundary-setting as some chaotic, toxic phase?

In this episode, we break down the so-called “villain era” and why it’s become synonymous with empowerment — but also why that narrative is flawed. We unpack the real meaning behind putting yourself first, why self-respect isn’t a character flaw, and how we can flip the script on the guilt that comes with choosing ourselves.

It’s time to reframe the narrative: you’re not a villain — you’re just used to getting shit for setting boundaries ❤️🔪

This week on Toxic Behavior, we start with the important stuff—our signature scents—because smelling good is a personality trait. Then we dive into all the signs and synchronicities we’ve been seeing lately, and how we know we’re in alignment (or at least telling ourselves we are).

Alycia shares the things she manifested poorly, and Carly breaks down how she fully gaslights herself into positivity 24/7.

Then things take a turn when Carly talks about the sexual harassment training she just took at work, which launches us into a convo about corporate culture, the entertainment industry, and

We wrap it up with stories of love, dying boyfriends and a juicy little karmic story that proves what goes around does come back around.

If you’ve ever questioned a sign from the universe or —this episode’s for you. ❤️🔪

This week on Toxic Behavior, we start with a hypothetical spiral (as one does), and then get into our trip to New York—which was iconic but also a disaster… because neither of us planned a single thing.

Alycia is now fully committed to her “wing everything” philosophy, and Carly is entering her “hard work is not for me” era. Did anything go according to plan? No. Did we care? Also no. Because when we’re together, we always have a good time—and at the very least, our fits were fire.

If you’ve ever shown up to a trip with no itinerary, no expectations, and still managed to make core memories—this one’s for you. ❤️🔪

This week on Toxic Behavior, we’re kicking things off by airing out our grievances—with each other. Eclipse season is firey, unhinged, and apparently making Alycia offend people without even realizing it. We get into weird dreams, psychic angst, and our shitty ex's.

Then we shift into the real problem: men doing the absolute bare minimum and getting praised like they built the Eiffel Tower. We break down what actually counts as considerate vs. what’s just “being a human,” and why the bar for men is still in hell.

Carly closes it out with a storytime that lives in her trauma vault: the time she thought she was in love with the one... only to realize he was secretly letting her pay all the rent.

If you’ve ever carried the emotional or financial weight of a relationship and called it “love”—you’ll feel right at home here. ❤️🔪

We've gone off the deep end in this weeks episode ofToxic Behavior, we’re blaming everything on eclipse season—because the breakdowns are loud, the emotions are unhinged, and honestly? Carly might need Tony Soprano’s therapist.

We get real about how we handle our lowest moments (hint: not well), the coping mechanisms that are probably toxic, and the unhinged thoughts we’ve had lately that probably shouldn’t be shared publicly—but here we are.

Naturally, we also end up talking about dick pics (??), and Carly explains how she keeps getting pulled over but still never gets a ticket.

If you’ve recently had a breakdown in your car, blamed the moon for your mood swings, or cried for no reason but also for every reason—you’re not alone. ❤️🔪

This week on Toxic Behavior, we’re getting real about money mindsets—starting with Alycia’s approach of literally never checking her bank account and just trusting the universe.

We dive into who should pay the bill on a date? Should things ever really be 50/50? And why it’s not always about income—it’s about energy, intention, and whether you’re picking up all the slack just because the other person is bringing in a paycheck.

Then we wrap it all up with a friendly little game called “Who’s the Most Toxic?” where we rate each other’s behavior and expose ourselves in the process. Spoiler: one of us might need a therapist.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for spending money, almost broke up with a man who didn't pick up the check, or refused to look at your bank app out of fear—this one’s for you. ❤️🔪