Toxic Behavior

This week on Toxic Behavior, we’re talking soulmates, chance encounters, and whether love at first sight is real—or just something we’ve been sold. Alycia is convinced some people just know instantly when they meet their person… but is that actually common, or are those moments rare?

Carly shares her own unexpected run-in with someone who felt like her soulmate (yes, at a club), and we get into the undeniable, slightly unexplainable energy that happens when you meet someone you’re deeply connected to.

And let’s be clear—you cannot chase your soulmate or lock them in your basement. The person who is actually meant for you is not running from you.

Is it intuition? Timing? Delusion? Probably a little of all three.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your person is out there or looked at someone and said that's my future husband—this one’s for you. ❤️🔪

On this episode of Toxic Behavior, we fully lean into the spiritual spiral. We’re talking signs from the universe, learning to trust your intuition, and why it’s so easy to confuse anxiety with an intuitive hit. We also share some of our bold predictions in pop culture for the year ahead.

If you love angel numbers, spiritual downloads, questionable psychic moments, and a little chaotic intuition talk—this episode is definitely for you. ❤️🔪

We’re back… and no, we were not thriving. Season 2 of Toxic Behavior kicks off with a brutally honest catch-up on where we’ve been, what we’ve been going through, and why the deep end felt a little too comfortable lately.

Then we get into Tell Me Lies and the toxic relationship dynamics that somehow feel way too familiar. Why do certain people bring out the absolute worst in us? Why does chemistry sometimes feel like chaos? And how do you know when you’re not crazy — you’re just reacting to someone who destabilizes you?

This episode is about spiraling, surviving, and realizing that sometimes you’re not “toxic”… you’re just in the wrong dynamic.

If you’ve ever dated someone who made you question your sanity, this one’s for you. ❤️🔪

OUR LAST EPISODE OF SEASON 1 (but we'll be back next year with even more toxicity 😈)

This week on Toxic Behavior, we’re diving into the messy world of jealousy—specifically why people (yes, both women and men) lose their minds when their partner talks to the opposite sex. We get into whether those reactions are valid, where the line actually is, and if you're mad at the wrong person (spoiler: it’s probably your boyfriend, not the girl he glanced at).

Then we go even deeper: Should you ever go through your partner’s phone? Is that crossing a boundary or is it protecting your peace? We’re unpacking all the insecurities, social dynamics, and messy emotions that come up in relationships. If you've ever side-eyed your man for talking to a waitress too long or considered grabbing his phone in the middle of the night—this one’s actually probably not for you ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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This week on Toxic Behavior, we're diving into the whole Uncle Bob fueled chaos that is.....men living double lives. From serial cheaters with secret families to the theory that some of them might just be gay and deeply repressed — we’re not holding back. We also ask the real question: why are the red flags always hotter? Is emotional damage just part of the appeal?

If you ever found out your man had a double life or caught hime doing nefarious things, this one is for you ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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This week on Toxic Behavior, we kick things off by once again getting exposing just how competitive we are… to the point where it could actually end us. Then Carly accidentally tells her bookkeeper she’s an escort (???), and we spiral from there.

In true chaotic form, we wrap up with a deep dive on energy, aura, and attraction — aka, why some people just glow when they walk into a room. We talk about how your energy shifts your outcomes and how being in the right vibe magnetizes the life (and people) you actually want.

If you've ever spiraled about why some people just command attention when they walk into a room - this one is for you ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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We’re back after a couple weeks off—Carly was in crisis mode with a dog on the brink of death, but we all lived to tell the tale. This week, we’re easing back in with some hot takes: why are felons and broke men so hot? Plus, we break down that Vogue article about how having a boyfriend is now considered embarrassing—and yeah, we agree.

We wrap the episode with a wildly unhinged topic... even for us.

If you've ever defended a man with a rap sheet or rolled your eyes at that one girl who made her entire personality her boyfriend, this one’s for you. ❤️🔪

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Carly

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Alycia

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This week on Toxic Behavior, we’re talking about unproblematic men — but first, let’s unpack the voices in our heads. Alycia’s are spiritual. Carly’s are just… untreated.

Then we talk about the least problematic men in Hollywood and ask the real questions: How do you spot an unproblematic man in the wild? Would we even recognize one if we saw him? Or are we too desensitized from dating apps?

If you've ever thirsted over Matthew Mcconaughey, wondered if you will ever find your own unproblematic man, or thought Ed Gein was hot just becase he was played my Charlie Hunnam, this one is for you. 🔪❤️

Let’s get one thing straight: setting boundaries, choosing yourself, and not letting people walk all over you does not make you a villain. So why does the internet keep glamorizing boundary-setting as some chaotic, toxic phase?

In this episode, we break down the so-called “villain era” and why it’s become synonymous with empowerment — but also why that narrative is flawed. We unpack the real meaning behind putting yourself first, why self-respect isn’t a character flaw, and how we can flip the script on the guilt that comes with choosing ourselves.

It’s time to reframe the narrative: you’re not a villain — you’re just used to getting shit for setting boundaries ❤️🔪

This week on Toxic Behavior, we start with the important stuff—our signature scents—because smelling good is a personality trait. Then we dive into all the signs and synchronicities we’ve been seeing lately, and how we know we’re in alignment (or at least telling ourselves we are).

Alycia shares the things she manifested poorly, and Carly breaks down how she fully gaslights herself into positivity 24/7.

Then things take a turn when Carly talks about the sexual harassment training she just took at work, which launches us into a convo about corporate culture, the entertainment industry, and

We wrap it up with stories of love, dying boyfriends and a juicy little karmic story that proves what goes around does come back around.

If you’ve ever questioned a sign from the universe or —this episode’s for you. ❤️🔪