This episode discusses the concept of Toxic Positivity. Positivity in and of itself isn't bad, but when used in the wrong manner it can do harm and become toxic. To access the show notes for this episode and a full transcript: www.thrive.how/podcast136
This episode covers: 
What toxic positivity isHow it can do harm to both ourselves and othersHow Susan David's concept of Emotional Agility can help us find a middle-pathWhy emotional comparison is irrelevantHow positivity isn't bad, but it sit alongside compassion  Junto Institute Emotional Wheel: https://www.thejuntoinstitute.com/blog/the-junto-emotion-wheel-why-and-how-we-use-it
Kate refers to Susan David's work on Emotional Agility. You can find her TED talk here: https://www.ted.com/talks/susan_david_the_gift_and_power_of_emotional_courage
Susan David also has a book on the topic. You can find that here: Emotional Agility Book on Amazon *This post includes affiliate links. 
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#136. Toxic Positivity & Emotional Agility

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Kate is talking through 4 elements that will help you strengthen your intuition. Namely:Having a Spiritual PracticeFormulating a Way to Receive GuidanceTurning off Outside InfluencesTrusting Yourself with What You Hear
 She mentions resources that she finds useful, including: Seekers Sanctuary binaural beat meditation music: www.seeksanctuary.comBOOK: Return to You by Shannon Kaiser: Return to You on AmazonJournal prompt: What do I most need to hear right now?
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#168. Strengthening Your Intuition

This episode we're addressing the tension or challenge between meeting two human needs, Authenticity and Belonging. Kate overviews the concept of Authenticity and then illustrates the tension that can be felt between choosing to be authentic and belong using models of development and motivation from humanistic psychology including, Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and Erickson's Stages of Psychosocial Development. 
Questions Kate poses to help you explore your values and driving motives, to help facilitate authenticity: What matters to me?What do I want to stand for and want to orient my life around?What do I believe are the ingredients of a great and happy life?
 Resources Kate references: Scientific American Article (Maslow & Rogers): https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/choose-growth/#:~:text=Maslow%20argued%20that%20all%20the,belonging%2C%20or%20self%2Desteem.Erick Erickson's 8 Stages of Psychosocial Development: https://www.psychologynoteshq.com/erikson-stages/Wikipedia Article on 8 stages of Psychosocial Development with Existential Questions: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erikson%27s_stages_of_psychosocial_development
 Book that prompted Kate consider these concepts and their ongoing tension: The Myth of Normal by Gabor Mate and Daniel Mate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

#167. Authenticity vs. Belonging

As a natural skeptic, there is one question that helps me suspend my judgment and move into faith. In this episode, I'm diving into what that question is, and how I apply it to support me. 
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#166. One Question that Helps Me Have Faith

Kate is breaking down the crucially important difference between supportive compassionate helping, and enabling bad behavior. 
There is a blurry line between the two that is often complicated by personal and caring relationships. But it is a slippery slope, and while no one ever intends to enable behavior in another that is unhealthy, supportive helping can turn into enabling behavior. 
In this episode Kate outlines: The difference between Compassion & EnablingHow enabling can do harmThe relationships where we need to be aware of the potential to become an enablerHow we can recognize enabling behavior in ourselves3 ways we can move away from enabling, and back towards compassion
 Kate recommends Nancy Levin's Here to Thrive Interview - Episode 132. 
She also recommends two books (these are affiliate links): Setting Boundaries will Set You FreeTED: The Empowerment Dynamic
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#165. Compassion vs Enabling

Welcome back! Here to Thrive is back for Season 6.  You can expect an every other week release schedule, and thoughts from Kate along with guest interviews to help widen your perspective on life, and introduce you to new thoughts and ideas. 
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#136. Toxic Positivity & Emotional Agility

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