Andy Brown led a Nuts and Bolts seminar at our recent Youth Leader Conference on how to manage behaviour in a youth work context.Andy quotes Proverbs 3: 11-12 which says, "My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline, and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in." As youth leaders we need to hold the idea of discipline and love in balance. The way God loves us means that he doesn't let us stay in the same place. We want to build young people up and make them disciples and this sometimes has to happen through discipline. Sometimes we have to have challenging conversations with young people but if we're doing it out of a place of loving the young person then we're on the right path. Andy looks at preventing undesirable behaviour in youth groups. He said we need to do it as a team, and the team should decide what behaviour you are expecting from the young people. Communicate your expectations to the young people regularly; say this is what we expect from you when you attend this youth group. Talk practically with your team about how to prevent the undesirable behaviour. Set the culture yourself, build relationships with the young people and encourage the good things they're doing. When it comes to addressing undesirable behaviour, you need to know your process, communicate to the young people well, stick to your word, don't move the boundaries, and make sure processes are within safeguarding regulations. All of our Nuts and Bolts seminars along with the Keynote talks are now available on YouTube and you can find out more about the work that the Diocese of Blackburn's Board of Education does for youth leaders by visiting our website: https://www.bdeducation.org.uk/youth/For more youth work content, including new resources, the latest events and even more training and encouragement, follow us over on Instagram @youthworkstateofmind or follow: https://www.facebook.com/blackburnboardofeducation