If you are only "attending a church", you're missing what God has instituted for His body of believers. Consuming, arguing about endless theories and wanting to gain head knowledge does not serve God's church. Your service must be a service to God and you should be attentive what He wants you to do as written in His word. The goal is not to grow your audience, keep them entertained in programs and feel god, but rather train men by the basis of a personal relationship in a local church environment.