In this episode of No Sheep Left Behind, hosts Paul Berkes and Paul Hambrick shift the focus to the flock, tackling how to train the "99" to handle a wandering sheep without driving them further into isolation. True shepherd leadership requires accountability, but well-meaning communities often weaponize shame under the guise of correction. Drawing on the biblical template for addressing conflict in Matthew 18, the Pauls unpack the mandate to pull a drifting individual aside privately, preserving their dignity rather than exposing them to public embarrassment. Backed by developmental and neuroscience research, they explain that when the 99 use shame as a disciplinary tool, it triggers the wandering sheep's autonomic nervous system into a severe threat response, forcing them to flee the fold. Moderated by Brodee Scott, the conversation challenges the community to discipline their own urges to use shame, showing that true restoration can only happen when the 99 create a safe harbor of connection before attempting to redirect a brother or sister.