•“Nothing is more practical than finding God, than falling in love in a quite absolute, final way. What you are in love with, what seizes your imagination, will affect everything. It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning, what you will do with your evening, how you spend your weekends, what you read, whom you know, what breaks your heart, and what amazes you with joy and gratitude. Fall in love, stay in love, and it will decide everything.” Fr. Pedro Arrupe•Acts 4:12•Acts 4:32-37•Holiness is not about what you are against – it is what you are for. The idea often divides us from the world by over-valuing our “set apartness.” But that is not the task of holiness. Holiness is not about what you abstain from – it is about your values and what you are for. The task of holiness is to be fully human and to empower others to be fully human – not harming ourselves or others. The Holy Spirit empowers this life.•“To be holy is not to be morally better than anyone we know; to be holy is to be made part of a community in which our lives depend on those we know and who know us. To be made holy is to be held accountable and to hold others accountable, to be loved and love as we have been loved by Christ.” “Wilimon/Hauerwas “The Holy Spirit”•“To be made holy by the work of the Holy Spirit is to be made part of a community of truth that makes friendship possible in a world of violence and lies. We are violent because of the lies we tell one another in our desperate attempts to force others to love us. To be sanctified is to be made a participants in a way of life which we discover friends who tell us the truth.” –“The Holy Spirit”•“To be sure fornication (sleeping around), stealing, or “foul words” are not to be done by Christians, but the reason such behaviors are forbidden is that they are behaviors that destroy community by making it difficult for people to trust one another. Mistrust kills friendships. To be holy does not mean moral perfection. Rather, holiness is the work of the Holy Spirit that makes us participants in the perfect love that constitutes the relationship between the persons of the Trinity.” •James 5:16•“It’s a great challenge to love in church. All of us know that it’s easier to love our neighbors in the abstract, those who are far away, than to love people with whom we must intimately work and pray within the Christian community. The church shows that the Holy Spirit, the spirit of truth, constitutes a relationship between people otherwise unimaginable exactly because it is a friendship based on truth.” “The Holy Spirit”•"The Didascalia’s authors were not particularly concerned about mission. They assumed the churches were growing but didn’t write much about growth. Significantly, they didn’t urge the clergy or laity to evangelize. According to their understanding, spreading the message was God’s work, and it was their calling to be “helpers for God.” Instead they wanted their communities to develop practices that expressed the gospel with integrity, both in their members relationship to outsiders and especially their behavior toward each other." Alan Kreider 'Patient Ferment' •What is negative bias? Refers to the notion that, even when of equal intensity, things of a more negative nature (e.g. unpleasant thoughts, emotions, or social interactions; harmful/traumatic events) have a greater effect on one's psychological state and processes than do neutral or positive things. In other words, something very positive will generally have less of an impact on a person's behavior and cognition than something equally emotional but negative.“If we’re not willing to be led through our fears and anxieties, we will never see or grow. We must always move from one level to a level we don’t completely understand yet. Every step up the ladder of moral development is taken in semi-darkness, by the light of faith. The greatest barrier to the next level of consciousness is our comfort and control at the one we are at now. Our first response to anyone calling us to truth, greatness, goodness, or morality at a higher level will be increased anxiety. We don’t say, “Isn’t this wonderful.” Instead, we recoil in terror and say, “I don’t know if I want to go there.” At the edges of medieval maps was frequently penciled the warning: “Here be dragons.” We confront these dragons when we approach the edges of our comfort level. “He must be wrong. That’s not true.” That’s our usual first response when we’re called to a higher level. But if we haven’t been trained to recognize our fears and let go of them, we will feed them.” –Richard Rohr, “Everything Belongs”