• The freedom we need for true happiness requires us first to deny ourselves; being rooted in what we are now leads only to a dead end . . . If we struggle against God’s grace, against God's providence, if we struggle to remain as we are now, we will eventually find ourselves getting what we struggle for: ourselves, entirely closed to anything but ourselves . . . If we want self-fulfillment, we must deny ourselves. We must open ourselves to God and God's infinite freedom, so that we can then find our place in the world. Once we know it, then we can act upon it . . .• Genesis 3:22-24• “Humans, having already exceeded the limits of creaturehood, have radically altered the perspective of human existence. They live henceforth in the consciousness of their mortality. They may therefore be tempted to change their condition by artificial means, rather than by restoring the ruptured harmony between divine will and human will, the harmony that is ultimately the definition of paradise” –JPS Commentary on Genesis• Luke 14:25-35• “Again, then, 'hating' one’s self should not be taken as a reference to an affective self-abhorrence, but as a call to set aside the relationships, the extended family of origin and inner circle of friends, by which one has previously made up one’s identity. Here Jesus is calling for the reconstruction of one’s identity, not along ancestral lines or on the basis of one’s social status, but within the new community oriented toward God’s purpose and characterized by faithfulness to the message of Jesus. Bearing the cross is used as a metaphor of discipleship – indeed, as a requirement for one’s identity as a disciple. Such persons would live as through they were condemned to death by crucifixion, oblivious to the pursuit of noble status, finding no interest in securing one’s future via securing obligations from others or by stockpiling possessions, free to identify with Jesus in his dishonorable suffering. Importantly, both statements concerning the conditions of discipleship are addressed to 'whosoever' a reminder that the invitation is an open one.” –Joel Green.• “The opposite of faith is not doubt, it is control” – Richard Rohr• Control is a result of being attached to a specific outcome—an outcome we’re sure is best for us, as if we always know what’s best.• Practical Guide to Self-Denial:o Seek God’s benefit and the Kingdom of God’s benefit above your own.o Seek the good of your neighbor above your own.o It is not something we can “do” – it is a result of something we do.[Prayer of Saint Ephraim]Lord and Master of my life,Grant not unto me a spirit of idleness,of discouragement, of lust for power, and of vain speaking.But bestow upon me, Thy servant,the spirit of chastity,of meekness, of patience, and of love.Yes, O Lord and King,grant that I may perceive my own transgressions,and judge not my brother or sister,for blessed art Thou unto ages of ages.Amen.