Breakups can leave you feeling lost, empty, and overly focused on your ex. But what if I told you there’s a better way to move forward? Redirecting your energy back to yourself isn’t about ignoring the pain—it’s about using it as fuel to rebuild, grow, and thrive.

In this episode, I share 6 powerful ways to reclaim your energy, stop obsessing over your ex, and focus on becoming the best version of yourself. These strategies will help you regain control, boost your confidence, and set the foundation for a brighter future.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

1️⃣ How to reclaim your power by letting go of emotional attachment.

2️⃣ Why redirecting your energy improves your emotional health.

3️⃣ How breakups can become opportunities for personal growth.

4️⃣ The importance of investing in yourself to build confidence.

5️⃣ How to nurture relationships with friends, family, and yourself.

6️⃣ How focusing inward attracts better opportunities in love, career, and life.

Redirecting your energy isn’t just about moving on—it’s about moving up. It’s about becoming stronger, wiser, and more aligned with your purpose.

🎯 Take action today: Find a quiet spot, grab your notebook, and let’s dive into this journey together.

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Breakups are tough—they can leave you feeling angry, hurt, and stuck with questions that seem impossible to answer. But what if forgiveness isn’t about excusing the pain? What if it’s about reclaiming your peace and turning that pain into power?

In this video, I’m breaking down 5 powerful reasons why forgiving your ex is one of the best things you can do for yourself. It’s not about letting them off the hook—it’s about freeing yourself, gaining clarity, and creating space for growth, joy, and better relationships in the future.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

1️⃣ How breakups can be catalysts for personal growth.

2️⃣ Why forgiveness lightens your emotional load.

3️⃣ The value every relationship brings, even when it ends.

4️⃣ How forgiveness is about healing yourself, not excusing their actions.

5️⃣ How it prepares you for healthier, stronger future relationships.

Forgiveness is a process, not an instant fix, but it’s one of the most transformative gifts you can give yourself. Let’s dive into how to move forward with clarity and purpose.

Ready to reclaim your power? Find a quiet spot, grab your notebook, and let’s start this journey together.

🎯 Comment below: What’s one lesson a past relationship has taught you?

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In this heartfelt episode, I open up about my relationship with my mom—its complexities, challenges, and the profound lessons she left me. From a childhood marked by separation to the regrets and realizations that came after her passing in 2021, I reflect on how her wisdom continues to guide me today.

I share how my mom’s love for creativity, style, and spirituality shaped who I am, even in ways I didn’t realize while she was alive. This story is not just about loss but about transformation—how life’s toughest moments can lead to growth and self-discovery.

Whether you’re navigating your relationship with your parents, processing grief, or looking for inspiration to embrace life’s lessons, this episode offers meaningful insights to help you reflect on your own journey.

In this episode, I explore:

How early separation affected my bond with my mom.

The lessons I only appreciated after she passed.

How family relationships shape how we connect with others.

The importance of reflection, forgiveness, and growth in healing.

Tune in to reflect, connect, and find hope in the lessons life offers—even through its challenges.

In this episode of Transformational Tales, I share the unforgettable story of a day spent flying drones with a friend, which unexpectedly turned into a profound lesson about trust, connection, and living in the moment.

What started as a simple search for a lost drone became an exploration of intuition, mindfulness, and the quiet wisdom of nature. Along the way, I learned the power of appreciating life’s small wonders—like a tiny ladybug—and how even distractions can hold valuable lessons if we allow ourselves to pause and be present.

Join me as I recount this personal story that bridges childhood curiosity, deep connection to nature, and the importance of trusting the process.

💡 What You’ll Take Away From This Episode:

The importance of letting go of attachment and trusting the journey.

How nature communicates with us if we listen closely.

A powerful reminder to slow down and appreciate the beauty around us.

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Rebound relationships often seem like a quick fix after a breakup, but they rarely lead to long-term happiness. In this video, I, Coach Reef (Sherif Gergis), break down 18 compelling reasons why rebound relationships are destined to fail.

Whether you're the rebounder, the reboundee, or someone left wondering about your ex’s new relationship, this video will help you understand the emotional dynamics, toxic patterns, and psychological baggage that make rebounds unsustainable.

💔 What You’ll Learn in This Video:

Why 100% of rebound relationships become toxic.

The emotional rollercoaster and psychological displacement behind rebounds.

How to focus on your healing journey and avoid getting caught in the rebound cycle.

Take the next step toward healing and self-growth:

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✅ Ready to heal and rebuild your life? Click the link in the description to schedule a coaching session with me.

✅ Watch my documentary, Unbroken: The Journey of Letting Go, for a deeper dive into recovery and self-love.

💬 Let’s Talk: What do you think is the biggest reason rebound relationships fail? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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When we let fear, people-pleasing, or insecurity guide our actions in a relationship, the consequences can be devastating. In this video, I, Coach Reef (Sherif Gergis), share my personal journey of failing to stand firm as a man, the impact it had on my relationship, and the powerful lessons I learned along the way.

💡 What You’ll Learn in This Video:

Why not standing firm erodes respect and trust.

The importance of boundaries and how they shape healthy relationships.

How fear of loss weakens connection and how to overcome it.

Practical steps to lead with grounded masculine energy and self-worth.

💔 Struggling with boundaries or staying true to yourself?

You’re not alone. Whether you’re navigating fear, people-pleasing, or emotional turmoil, this video offers practical tools and insights to help you take control of your relationships and your life.

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✅ Looking for deeper support? Click the link in the description to schedule a one-on-one coaching session with me. Let’s work together to rebuild your confidence and clarity.

✅ Watch my documentary, Unbroken: The Journey of Letting Go, to see how I found strength and purpose after heartbreak.

💬 Join the Conversation: What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced in standing firm in your relationships? Share your story in the comments, and let’s learn from each other.

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Ever feel like you're speaking a different language from your partner during tough moments? You're not alone. In this video, I, Coach Reef (Sherif Gergis), guide you through 7 transformative questions designed to enhance emotional intimacy, improve communication, and build trust in your relationship.

Rather than reacting emotionally, these questions invite curiosity, compassion, and connection, helping you and your partner better understand each other’s feelings and needs. Whether it’s creating a safe space for vulnerability, uncovering emotional triggers, or simply learning how to show up for each other, these tools are your roadmap to a stronger, healthier bond.

If you’re ready to foster understanding and create a deeper connection with your partner, this is the video for you!

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Like, comment, and subscribe to my channel for more relationship-building insights.

Want personalized guidance? Click the link in the description to schedule a one-on-one coaching session with me.

Need extra support? Watch my documentary, “Unbroken: The Journey of Letting Go,” for a deeper dive into healing and connection.

💬 Let’s start a conversation! Share your thoughts on these 7 questions, and let me know which one resonates most with you. Together, we can create a space where love and understanding thrive.

👉 Watch the video, take notes, and start using these questions today. Ready to level up your relationship? Book a session with me now for tailored advice and support.

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In this episode, I take you back to my childhood in Torino, Italy, where a simple moment of curiosity led to a lifetime of exploration and growth. Join me as I share the story of finding a lighter, an innocent yet pivotal moment that sparked my journey of curiosity and experimentation. From childhood wonder to entrepreneurial endeavors, this episode is a reflection on how curiosity shapes our decisions, fuels our passions, and drives us to take risks and create without fear. Be curious. Be bold. And always experiment with life.

Today I realized something profound about the sun and Moon. They are with us where ever we are in life.