07.11.2022 - By Ian Lobas
Episode 270 is about dealing with grief.
Sometimes life isn't all about rainbows and butterflies. We are faced with tragedy. Phil Cohen lost his 14-year-old son in an accident. His son went on a ferry trip and a storm came by and they never came back. The coast guards searched for 7 days, still, no bodies were found. Those 7 days were grueling to Phil, he was in the storm with him during those 7 days.
Griefing is a difficult process. We don't know how or what to feel. We get lost on what to do. Phil, after a long time healed. He heard his son's voice telling him to let go and live his life and that's what he did. You all know what they say, when you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about. Are you prepared for the storms you are about to encounter? Watch this episode now.
Struggling with grief? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to deal with the grief that will transform a better you. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:05:55 Phil's professional identity
00:11:42 Back Story
00:19:14 My life changed in a moment
00:23:18 The process I went through
00:30:07 The 5 stages of grief
00:31:00 The other things i experienced
00:33:09 Why is a reasonable question for a reason
00:37:45 What it changed it all
00:39:08 My son wouldn't want me like this
00:40:52 Where your focus goes your energy flows
00:41:57 How I started to heal
00:43:36 Healing does not mean forgetting
00:43:53 The feelings are mostly selfish
00:48:50 Questioning my future
00:49:41 Every obstacle is an opportunity to practice a virtue
00:51:29 I made a decision to face my point not run from it
00:54:06 Buffalo and cow story
00:56:11 I found myself in tragedy
00:58:16 The pain of therapy
01:03:19 Higher power guided to a higher purpose
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❤️ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cohenphil/
✉ Website: https://www.philcohen.com/
❤️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/phil.cohen1
✉ Coaching: https://www.philcohen.com/coaching
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