This podcast topic stems from an incredible listener question: “When you love your partner but feel like your relationship has gotten out of alignment, what are some things you can do to create an ideal relationship (for both parties) that is anchored in truth?” 

Firstly, what an amazing question! Ginny and Katie were so excited to dive into this brilliantly aware question. There were so many fun avenues to explore, but ultimately alignment in all relationships begins with you. As you open to a new way of creating alignment with your partner, the following questions may provide clarity. 

Is it possible that you are holding on to a smidge of judgment that you know what’s best for your partner? 

Are you believing that you and your partner can’t both have what you want? 

Are you choosing your energy and alignment before you speak and act?

Are you resisting how someone “is” or how they do things? 

Where are you resisting? Are you open to allowing? 

If you are ready to stay in your own lane, ask, what do YOU want in a relationship? BE that. 

In this moment my partner is perfect for me. I don’t have to think about the outcome now. I know that my partner is for me right now. 

In this moment my partner is the perfect cocreator for everything I’m wanting and everything they are wanting.

I create my own reality: I don’t have to judge or control what my partner is believing or doing. 

When you feel the mind wobbling: trying to figure things out, judging, collecting evidence- get present, feel the love inside of you, the love YOU create, and trust it to take care of everything.