Real talk, it isn't cool to call people names. I get that you're upset. The problem with it, is when you call someone an anything-aphobe, it perpetuates the stigma in mental health. For there are people who have actual phobias who have a very difficult time in life. I'm sure your intentions are well. It just isn't very productive. 

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