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This week, Gillian and Jenny respond to a listener question and discuss finding one's style in fashion, with Jenny sharing her struggles and Gillian suggesting observing others and trying out different styles. They also talk about the challenges of finding appropriate and comfortable clothing for formal events, the evolution of fashion, and the importance of self-expression and comfort in fashion choices.
They discuss the challenges of finding appropriate and comfortable clothing for formal events. Jenny shares her struggles with finding outfits that flattered her figure and her reliance on friends and sales associates for fashion advice. They agree that confidence and comfort in one's own skin are key to dressing well. Jenny also recounted her positive experience shopping at Evans, a store catering to larger sizes, and how friends' opinions helped her choose outfits. The conversation concluded with a light-hearted exchange about fashion faux pas.
They discuss their fashion experiences, particularly during the early stages of their transitions. Jenny shared her memories of wearing a short skirt and high heels to a Christmas party, which she felt was over the top. They both agree that fashion choices can vary greatly depending on the context and personal style. They also touch on the importance of self-expression and comfort in fashion choices, with Gillian expressing admiration for younger individuals who confidently wear bold outfits.
They also discuss the appropriateness of dressing for one's age, with Gillian suggesting that people should dress according to the context rather than their age, and the importance of considering the motives of people who might tell you it's age-inappropriate.
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This week, Gillian and Jenny discuss concerns about the editorial direction of Pink News and the media's coverage of the LGBTIQ+ community, including issues with inaccurate reporting and sensationalism. They also discussed the inadequacies of gender identity services for adults and the need for a more patient-centered approach, as well as the challenges faced by trans individuals seeking medical support for their transition. Lastly, they touched on legal issues affecting trans people, including a court ruling in Ohio and proposed policies in UK schools, and the recent protests by trans youth against the UK government's proposed changes to gender identity education.
They discuss recent changes at Pink News, the largest online news site for the LGBT+ community, expressing concerns about the site's editorial direction, particularly regarding coverage of trans and non-binary issues. Jenny shares her experience of being subjected to abuse on social media and an article in Pink News after appearing as an audience member at a BBC News Question Time event.
Gillian acknowledges the complex commercial-editorial relationship in media and suggests organisations now wait for stories from trans organisations rather than carrying out investigative or campaigning journalism.
The discussion also touches on the new review by the NHS of adult trans+ services and the selection of individuals to lead such inquiries, with Jenny expressing confusion about the qualifications of the current lead, David Levy.
They suggest a more straightforward, non-psychiatric approach could be beneficial, focusing on medical treatment and hormone management. They also highlighted the importance of individual autonomy and self-determination in the transition process.
Finally they highlight recent protests by trans youth against the UK government's proposed changes to gender identity education. They note the positive response from young people towards gender identity and the potential for change, despite the government's current stance.
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This week, Gillian and Jenny discussed various topics including the decline of traditional banks, the case of a trans woman named Tickle, and the ongoing controversy surrounding women-only spaces. They also touch on the mixed news regarding transgender rights in the US, the potential impact of a court ruling in Australia, and the support for trans people within the current government. Lastly, they share their enthusiasm for the upcoming Paralympics.
They discuss the case of a trans woman named Tickle, who was removed from the Giggle for Girls platform in Australia after being identified as a trans woman. Gillian described Tickle's case as an inspiring story of trans independence, and Jenny clarified that Tickle's self-identity as a woman was confirmed by gender recognition software. The judge's summary affirmed the existence of non-binary people, which Jenny found surprising given the anti-trans sentiments in Australian politics. They also discuss the ongoing controversy surrounding women-only spaces and the status of trans people within them. Gillian highlights the potential positive impact of a federal ruling in Australia, based on an international treaties in other countries, including India, South Africa, and Brazil.
In the States, there was mixed news regarding transgender rights, with some states passing anti-trans laws restricting changes to driving licenses, while in Florida, anti-trans school board candidates backed by the governor were defeated. Jenny expressed hope for a pushback against such laws and potential federal protections for trans individuals, though progress has been limited so far. The discussion also touched on the Democratic party's stance on gender issues at the DNC in Chicago.
They discuss their enthusiasm for the upcoming Paralympics and the potential inclusion of trans non-binary athletes in the coverage.
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This week Gillian and Jenny share their personal experiences with fashion, hair, and gender identity, with a focus on the challenges and emotional attachment associated with hairstyles and hair removal. They also discussed the potential of hair transplant, hair extensions, and wigs as solutions for hair loss, and the impact of hormone therapy on hair growth.
They share their personal experiences with hair loss and the impact it has on their daily lives, including the time and resources spent on managing their hair. They also discussed the potential of using wigs as a solution for hair loss or thinning, with Jenny considering wigs as an option for her future. Both agreed that trying on a wig could be a transformative experience and emphasise the positive impact a change in hairstyle can have on one's confidence and self-image.
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This week, Gillian and Jenny discuss various current events including riots, political tensions, and issues affecting marginalised communities. They also delve into recent controversies surrounding TV shows - particularly Strictly Come Dancing, the mislabeling of women boxers, and the impact of climate change on immigration. Lastly, they share their personal experiences with professional dancing, and discuss the British Medical Association's criticism of the Cass report.
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This week Gillian and Jenny discuss their interest in sports, particularly the Olympics. They also delve into the complexities of gender and physique in sports, and the issue of trans participation in sports, including the eligibility criteria for trans women and the treatment of intersex individuals. Lastly, they share their thoughts on the Paris Olympics opening ceremony and the controversy it generated, as well as the impact of state-sponsored doping on sports.
They discuss the issue of trans participation in sports, particularly in the context of the Olympics. They note that there were hardly any trans athletes participating in the Olympics, with the last trans weightlifter, Laurel Hubbard from New Zealand, coming last. They discussed the rules set by the International Olympic Committee and individual sports federations, which require trans women to have transitioned before the age of 12 to be eligible for women's categories. However, they pointed out that there was no evidence of a significant physical advantage for trans athletes. They also highlighted that the issue seemed to be driven by a transphobic agenda rather than evidence-based concerns.
They also express their thoughts on the unique yet ambitious Paris Olympics opening ceremony, acknowledging its spread-out layout and lack of rehearsals made it challenging to follow on television. They noted the controversy it generated in the US, with some labelling it "woke" and "Satanic." Needless to say, there was disagreement with one liking it and the other being a bit ‘meh’…!
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This week Gillian and Jenny discuss, recent political developments in the US, and the potential threats to women's rights and the trans community. They also shared their fascination with American politics, their love for related podcasts, and their enthusiasm for the Olympics.
They also delve into American politics, focusing on the surprise announcement from Joe Biden stepping down from the re-election campaign and the subsequent rise of Kamala Harris as a likely successor. They express their increased investment in American politics, particularly its impact on the trans community, and discussed Biden's presidency, his impact on trans rights, and the Supreme Court's recent decisions that threaten the rights of marginalised communities are recognised. They also touch on Biden's past political career, including his appointment of Clarence Thomas to the Supreme Court and his past presidential campaign withdrawal due to plagiarism allegations.
Jenny and Gillian discuss the recent positive general election results in the UK and hope for a similar outcome in America. They also discuss the potential threats to women's rights and the trans community in America, with Gillian highlighting the perplexing position of some American women in this. They also discussed the electoral system in America, with Jenny comparing it to their current system and expressing concern about its undemocratic aspects.
They also discuss a podcast episode featuring an interview with Harriet Harman, where she spoke about the concept of radical feminism and the inclusion of trans people within it. Gillian recommended the podcast, highlighting it as a good source of insightful interviews. They also discussed the recent statements made by Wes Streeting regarding trans people, with Jenny expressing confusion about his changing stance. The conversation ended on a positive note, with both women agreeing on the importance of maintaining a hopeful outlook.
They discuss the Paul Draycott Allies award taking place in September 2024.
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This week Gillian meets Aaron, A Trans Man. They discuss Aaron's personal journey with testosterone and the physical and emotional changes he experienced during his transition to transmasculinity. They also explored the challenges faced by trans men, including the biological effects of menopause, the use of binders, and the complexities of female physiology. Lastly, they discussed the potential for a support group for trans men going through pregnancy, the options and potential complications of lower surgery.
Aaron shares his experiences transitioning and the physical and mental changes he noticed over time. He discusses the development of a deeper voice, increased body hair, and changes in his genitalia. He also mentions gaining more strength and muscle mass, and feeling more energetic. Aaron additionally shares his experiences with social changes, such as feeling more comfortable expressing his masculinity and noticing a shift in how others perceive him.
They introduce the topic of the biological challenges experienced by trans men during menopause, acknowledging the lack of discussion around this issue. Aaron/ explains that his body is fighting against itself due to the opposing hormonal changes of puberty and menopause occurring simultaneously. He states that he may continue experiencing menopause for decades unless he undergoes a hysterectomy or reaches the natural age for menopause.
Aaron shares his personal experiences with binding, highlighting the physical toll it took on his body and the dangers of using non-safe materials with Aaron emphasising the importance of finding breathable options.
Aaron will be establishing a support group for trans men going through pregnancy, which could also include those experiencing adoption and surrogacy. Aaron expressed his hope to have the group up and running by September - you can find out more by email Gillian below.
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This week Gillian and Jenny discuss a listener question around the challenges faced by trans individuals seeking healthcare within the NHS, especially in preparing for a first visit to a GP.
They emphasise the importance of being prepared, clear about one's needs, and navigating a potentially difficult healthcare system. They also discuss the challenges and misunderstandings surrounding shared care in medical practices, particularly in the context of hormone prescriptions for transgender individuals.
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This week Gillian and Jenny discuss the outcome of the UK General Election and how it affects our community. They unpack the results and what it might mean for our hopes and expectations as well as the priority the new government might see in helping our community.
There is plenty of disagreement about the interpretation of the results and how and when things may change - but also plenty of agreement in that we need to be more organised in the way we lobby support from MP’s and continue to practically help allies to help us.
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