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Why are the self titled trauma informed coaches that apparently have "safe spaces" the most trauma inducing?
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Positioning yourself as the holier than thou wokest leader of them all has it's consequences:
Most people doing this are putting themselves in the rescuer position.
You will either...
1. Attract victims who will hand over the bulk of their personal responsibility and if you do not comply to the victim they will smear you as an abuser.
2. Create an unrealistic standard for yourself which is beyond any regular human. The judgment you have for other experts being "toxic" will one day come back like a boomerang on your ass. You're a human just like the people you judge and you are not exempt from being dethroned from the high-horse you place yourself on.
Yes there are people doing bad shit.. there always will be.
The one projecting onto the "bad people" the most often have the most skeletons in their own closet... because they don't apply the same accountability toward themselves as much as they pressure others to be accountable.
for more of Brandon Marshall Havener visit http://www.brandonmarshallhavener.com
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By Brandon Marshall HavenerWhy are the self titled trauma informed coaches that apparently have "safe spaces" the most trauma inducing?
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Positioning yourself as the holier than thou wokest leader of them all has it's consequences:
Most people doing this are putting themselves in the rescuer position.
You will either...
1. Attract victims who will hand over the bulk of their personal responsibility and if you do not comply to the victim they will smear you as an abuser.
2. Create an unrealistic standard for yourself which is beyond any regular human. The judgment you have for other experts being "toxic" will one day come back like a boomerang on your ass. You're a human just like the people you judge and you are not exempt from being dethroned from the high-horse you place yourself on.
Yes there are people doing bad shit.. there always will be.
The one projecting onto the "bad people" the most often have the most skeletons in their own closet... because they don't apply the same accountability toward themselves as much as they pressure others to be accountable.
for more of Brandon Marshall Havener visit http://www.brandonmarshallhavener.com