Just speaking to the men for a moment, if you have realized you have an amazing woman. Treat her like a queen don’t skip out on continuing to date her as the relationship progresses, and if something doesn’t pan out like you would like it remember how you 2 came about if you wanted her to be in your life. Don’t be so aggressive upon making her life hell, just accept & soften your pride so you can keep her as your Queen, it’s been so many times men start treating their woman like trash either because of high valued influencers. Everyone in the weird should have their own mind.