It’s an understanding when loaning money & not contracting unlike with the bank. Some people either find the gap to get over or just don’t understand it’s from the heart, but I have understood that all it takes is one time & no more. Giving grace periods are fine until it’s abused. My exceptions are only for people I love, care, and know I can depend on when truly in need, because they have a word that they stand on no matter the circumstances & that’s why I’m so loyal to them.

This may be a given for some people, because they feel like they know so I won’t be descriptive instead tune into the podcast episode. Thank you 🙏🏼

Select Ur Desires will always be my business no matter what, there will be merchandise, there will be this podcast, there will be music, there will be food, there will be stationary businesses as well. I’m not putting a limit on my business, it can be everything that exist as a nonprofit or profitable. Time will tell, just stay tuned.

This should be common sense l, but I understand why it’s not because you have to go through things or be taught to know what isn’t right and what’s wrong so finger pointing. Just learn from the mistakes & move forth! What don’t kill you makes you stronger & what you learn is your history lesson. So just be more aware of your actions, and understand you don’t ever just tell one person something even if you involuntarily say it. It’s going to come out again, may not be soon, or with your loyal friend or lover, but upon that break down maybe someone you not directly speaking to.

Just speaking to the men for a moment, if you have realized you have an amazing woman. Treat her like a queen don’t skip out on continuing to date her as the relationship progresses, and if something doesn’t pan out like you would like it remember how you 2 came about if you wanted her to be in your life. Don’t be so aggressive upon making her life hell, just accept & soften your pride so you can keep her as your Queen, it’s been so many times men start treating their woman like trash either because of high valued influencers. Everyone in the weird should have their own mind.

This me addressing myself and giving a heads up not to be cheap, get the best quality so you won’t keep buying the same equipment over and over.

Just responding to a email, from someone asking do I have a personal or general vendetta of hate. When I simply disagree with how I handled or handle certain situations, but as we mature we move on from things that didn’t work & we learn from the past.

Something that we miss all the time is the skill of worrying about self. We’re always on swivel for others business when it doesn’t pertain to us, a lot of us should be swift to listen and slow to speak! & stop gossiping about others complications. We’re going through complications as well, but we don’t want to talk or vent about that instead bring up someone else’s downfalls as if we don’t have enough on a plate. Be loyal to yourself, speak with yourself about progression, feed off your own aggression to be motivated and better yourself. Self educate yourself become more positive or lend a hand when it may be needed. Just don’t become a mess it’s the worse to have to clean up when you should be staying spotless with flaws.

PLEASE BE LITERAL WITH THE DESCRIPTION OF JOBS!! Too many jobs turn into misery, gives us all the details pertaining to a profession. The cons and perks, don’t sugar coat what will occur through the learning curve.

Disclaimer: I’m not a homophobe, just find it amusing how some women look at men dating men disgusting when they hook with other women. Like you know you’re an hypocrite at its finest. You bumping & grinding is the same way with their penetration tactics, different positions, but overall the same attracted for the same sex. So stop with the hypocrisy! How can you call the skillet black, when you’re in the exact same boat, rather you experiencing for the first time, have fell in love, on downlow, confused, or just having fun. It’s the same thing same sex attraction.