Some people go through trauma and stay stuck… others go through it and build something from it.

In this episode, we sit down with Tree Kadayso - a powerful self-chooser, mother, and leader in the CYC who shares how her story of childhood trauma, abuse, and environmental challenges didn’t define her… it refined her.

This conversation goes deep into what it really looks like to face your triggers, change your environment, and build a foundation strong enough to carry not just you but your family forward. From navigating generational patterns to raising kids with awareness, Tree shows that healing isn’t just personal… it’s legacy work.

We talk about the moments where it would’ve been easier to fall back into old habits and how choosing yourself daily, through discipline and community, creates a completely different future.. because at the end of the day, your past may shape you but your choices define you.

Takeaways ⬇️

• Your trauma is real but it doesn’t get to run your life forever
• Awareness is the first step but action is what changes everything
• Your environment can either trap you or transform you
• The foundation you build today impacts your entire family tomorrow
• Choosing yourself is how you break generational cycles

At some point, we all have to make a decision… Are we going to keep living from what happened to us or start building from who we’re becoming?

Our story isn’t our limitation… it’s our responsibility.

“You’re not your past… you’re your patterns ... and your patterns can change with you next choice.”

Grow With Us ⬇️

🐬 CYC Zoom (Tuesdays 10 a.m.)

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🏝️ Costa Rica Retreat

📖 Choose Yourself to Be Chosen

🎙️ Choose Yourself Channel