NgokwesiXhosa, when a man impregnates a girl kufanele ukuba ahlawule kwi family leyo yentombazana. However, does paying damages for a child mean that he can have access to the girl’s home to see the child any time he wants? Are there traditional rules that govern this? We posed this questions to truAfternoon listeners and also spoke to Mr. Makuliwe, a traditionalist to shed some light on this matter.