Have you ever sat in a service and heard a spiritual leader misquote scripture or teach something that just felt… off? What is the full cost when our leaders prioritize charisma over deep, studied understanding of the Bible?

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In this powerful episode of True Christ Experience, we unpack a painful story of an “Apostle” who couldn’t pronounce basic biblical terms and interpreted scripture through his own emotional understanding. We break down the three profound dangers of this all-too-common reality: the risk of following false prophets, receiving manipulative teachings, and being locked away from the liberating truth of Christ.

But we don’t stop at the problem. We explore the biblical antidote: what it truly means to “Study to show thyself approved.” We dive into the meaning of Theology (the study of God), Pneuma (being Spirit-led), and Creed (what we believe), tracing the history of the Apostles’ and Nicene Creeds and why they were so crucial for the universal—catholic—church.

We also uncover a stunning piece of history: how the medieval church used stained-glass windows and architecture as a “Bible for the illiterate,” and connect it all to the ancient Hebrew concept of Shema—a kind of listening that demands action.

In a world where there are more non-Christians than Christians, the need for biblically sound, historically grounded leadership has never been more urgent. This episode is a call to value substance over hype and to seek shepherds who are unashamed workers, rightly dividing the word of truth.

#Truthtelling #BibleStudy #Apostles #Nicene #Creeds

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What does a hug have to do with church discipline?

Shockingly, everything.

In this jaw-dropping episode of True Christ Experience, we dissect a real-life story of spiritual abuse that’s hard to believe. A pastor stops a live-streamed worship service to publicly fire a young woman from the team. The sin that warranted this nuclear public shaming? According to the pastor herself, the woman had “hugged her differently than usual.”

Defending her actions with the proclamation, “I ain’t no punk,” this leader provides a perfect case study in how ego, insecurity, and a complete misuse of the Bible can poison a church.

We go straight to the scripture often weaponized in these situations—1 Timothy 5:20—and perform a full biblical autopsy. You’ll discover:

* The 3 Filters of 1 Timothy 5:20 prove this verse was never about shaming congregation members.

* The shocking difference between “prideful punishment” and “righteous restoration.”

* The true, step-by-step process for biblical correction that Jesus outlines in Matthew 18.

How to identify a culture of fear versus a culture of grace in church leadership.

This is more than a Bible lesson; it’s a rescue mission for anyone who has been traumatized by heavy-handed, unaccountable leadership. We expose the abuse to lead you back to the astonishingly gentle and humble heart of Jesus Christ.

Key Takeaways:

* Biblical rebuke is a specific, careful process for unrepentant sin—not a weapon for personal slights.

* The fruit of true leadership is gentleness and self-control, not public humiliation.

* How to discern if you’re in a healthy, Christ-honoring community or a dangerous, ego-driven system.

If you’ve ever felt the sting of unfair criticism from a leader or witnessed the misuse of power in church, this episode is your validation and your path to healing.

Listen now and reclaim the True Christ Experience.

#SpiritualAbuse #ChurchLeadership #BiblicalCorrection #1Timothy5 #HealthyChurch #Deconstruction #FaithDeconstruction #ReligiousTrauma #PastoralAbuse #TrueChristianity #BibleStudy #ChristianPodcast

In a world that often worships the “God of Mammon”—celebrating triumph, power, and material success—have we, as believers, lost a vital spiritual practice? In this compelling episode, Michelle Harding from Church of the King in Easton, Maryland, issues a passionate call for the church to rediscover the biblical power of lament.

Moving beyond the perception that lament is a sign of weak faith, Michelle proclaims it as a profound expression of Christ-centered solidarity. She invites us to experience the fullness of God by engaging with Him not only in victory but amid our shared human misery, reminding us that Christ is present there, too.

Grounded in the truth that God reconciled the world to Himself in Christ, this sermon challenges us to see lament as a selfless act: pouring out our hearts for the sake of others. With the prophet Jeremiah as a guide, Michelle points us toward the piercing relevance of his message, even recommending we read his “Temple Sermon” (Jeremiah 7) for ourselves to understand God’s heart-sick response to self-righteousness and apathy.

This is not a message of argument, but of proclamation—a call to embody God’s word in a broken world. Through the practice of Christ-centered lament, we participate in God’s healing work, becoming agents of the true “Balm of Gilead” for a chaotic and hurting world.

Key Themes:

Lament, Prophetic Ministry, Solidarity, Christ’s Presence, Spiritual Practices, Jeremiah, Hope, Healing.

#COTKEaston #Jeremiah7 #Truthtelling #EveryHeartWillKnow #SermonNotes

What if the world’s deepest wounds could be answered by a different kind of cry? This episode, we’re breaking down a powerful sermon that starts with a stark contrast: the blood of Abel, which cries out for revenge, and the blood of Jesus, which cries out for reconciliation.

Pastor Michelle Harding takes us on a journey into the book of Jeremiah, with the weeping prophet who felt the ache of his people’s sin in his own heart. Together, we’ll explore why sin is like a scorching desert wind, how hell is defined as a distance from love, and what it truly means to hold grief for the sins of others without giving in to hate.

This is a call to move beyond the world’s economy of vengeance and into the radical, active love of Agape. It’s about learning to lament, embracing true repentance, and building our lives on the rock of Christ instead of the shifting sand of sin.

Join us for a conversation about how we can embody the words of Jesus and become people of reconciliation.

Key Discussion Points:

* The Two Cries: Abel’s Blood vs. Jesus’ Blood.

* The Weeping Prophet: Lessons from Jeremiah’s lament.

* Sin’s Mechanism: Why it’s like a “hot desert wind.”

* Agape in Action: Why love is a verb, not just a feeling.

* From Sand to Rock: Shifting our foundation from sin to obedience.

Tune in for a compelling look at how to answer the cry for revenge with the transformative power of grace.

#COTKEaston #SermonNotes #EveryHeartWillKnow #Truthtelling