True Connections with Weston Jolly Podcast

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This channeling explores that true understanding does not come from linear thinking, but from stepping beyond the mind’s need to categorize and control. Your dreams, desire, and consciousness are expressions of a unified flow, where everything is interconnected.

By releasing attachment to a personal perspective and embracing desire as a creative force, individuals you can experience oneness, wholeness, and deeper fulfillment. The message emphasizes that creation, connection, and inner completeness arise naturally when one aligns with this state of unity.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How moving beyond linear thinking allows you to understand reality as a unified whole rather than fragmented parts.

Why dreams and consciousness feel confusing when filtered through the mind’s need to categorize and control.

How desire acts as a powerful creative force that connects you to deeper states of flow, purpose, and participation.

What it means to experience oneness, and how releasing attachment to personal perspective leads to clarity and fulfillment.

Align With Your Desire and Create EVERYTHING

Full transcript: Channeled by Weston Jolly:

“In the night, all things start to come together. Pieces and places and things all align in a single place enabling you that you might understand that dreams are not a dimension. Everything your mind conceives has to be done in layers or categories. This is why you often take things apart to “try and understand“ how things work. To truly see is without linear stacks, layers, stages or categories. Everything unites as one.

This is why you perceive dreams hard to understand. Because you are accustomed to things being presented in a linear fashion in which you can process. Understand —that it is —through the limits of the mind.

In order to really understand the nature of anything, that we have created, you are asked to remove yourself. This means your perspective which is made and authored by your mind. For you to clairvoyantly see, you must remove the thought of linear progression.

Everything will be presented. There’s nothing to sort or analyze if you see how everything goes together. To be enriched with knowledge, you must step away from your dependency on your mind. Your ability to process“that which is” isn’t done through the singular channel of the mind.

Trying to tame the mind or to keep it in control to discipline is just another false God to worship. If you understand and truly comprehend, you are enabled. This knowingness makes you whole and complete.

To be whole and complete you must step away from your dependency on that “what you think.”To be at one is at but a start, or entry point, or a portal to oneness. Just knowing that you are a part of something more or connecting a few perceived puzzle pieces isn’t enough.

To be one is to understand Unity. Unity isn’t a place, or destination either, it’s a flow. You can be at one, participate as one, and as you do, you are in the zone – the flow. This flow is for everyone, but it isn’t done through force by pushing or pulling. To be at one is a conjoining.

The opposite is created when you take a position against yourself, by thinking that your perspective needs to be recognized, heard or even pushed on to others. This kind of behavior is the opposite of oneness and should be recognized as such.

To realize the inner connections and to see and know how everything goes together is a gift. We will share it now as a means to demonstrate your being enabled and whole. The example we seek to share is a common one that will enable you to fullness.

This state is the beginning. In physics, it could be referred to as the energy to a start the movement. This energy is within desire. This is why desire is such an important part of who you are because without desire there’s no flow.

To participate, you must have a desire. All of your desires are personal, with some being portals of invitation. This is why certain ideas or mission statements are inviting, and you gather, or participate in a desire to be at one with the thing you wish to create.

Your energy, collectively, as it is individually, is beyond powerful. This power, or energy, is the essence of all creation. Because of its power, it can, and does, create as much as it can destroy. This is also a part of your desire to participate on this Earth plane or this layer, or as some of you think of it as a dimension. This dimension as you reference it, represents a collective desire to create in the perceived rules or limitations of the category, layer or dimension.

Some of you are called, feeling that there is more, and because of your desire this is why we are sharing. Anyone that desires more must connect through the portal of desire to be full or enabled. This fullness means that you bring a portion of life force energy to participate and contribute. This life force energy is clearly omnipresent and yet the masses “in this plane“ can’t see or understand it. This because it is greater than the individual life force energy.

Your desire to create is fully a part of who you are. It has always been, and it always will be. Some think that they need to be stimulated by the breath of inspiration, which if you recognize it – is our desire. To inspire you to connect not only into the infinite powers of knowingness, but to participate in a state of oneness.

This is recognized as a selfless state. You giving your time, resources and energy is desired, pun intended, because it enables you to a state of wholeness. If this is your desire, then it is yours to experience.

You are whole and you are complete. You are more than the pieces that you “sometimes” see. To understand fully, follow us down this path of creation that starts with desire. In your to desire is to be whole -you are. In your desire to be one – you are. If you desire to be separate – you are.

There is magic in your desires and this is reinforced within your physical embodiment because creating, creating anything, it is something that is programmed to feel good. This is true for both sides of the polarity; to create something or to destroy something. Each can and does create feelings that it is easily perceived as fun to create as it is to destroy.

To fuel creation is to fuel oneness. All oneness is created through our desire. And this is why you participate in being inspired to do something, or to be a part of something, that you’re called to engage in. This is shared for you to recognizing a desire, and you are being encouraged to participate.

Every choice and decision that you make comes to this very simple place; will you enable yourself, through connection, to be at one?

For those who recognize this desire, which again is ours, then you follow the vibrations, the sounds or the energy to this truth. This path will always enable you to fullness. This is seen in true happiness and joy. To be connected is a gift that is extended to you, and through desire, it is one that is eternal as well. In time, you remember you can do both concurrently, to be full or complete comes as result of connecting through desire.

The reason that you feel and choose to unhappy, sad, or in pain is to see and experience this path of separation. To be happy and full is to realize the unlimited nature of your being and exercising your desires, which are our desires, in full.

This implies that you know what our desires are – and if you don’t remember – we have already stated it in this message. It is our desire for you to recognize the oneness in which you are a part of. This oneness is for everyone and it doesn’t come at an expense as you perceive it. You are in a path to wholeness and oneness now just in your participation to excel in the openness to be at one.

There’s no greater gift you can give yourself, or another, than this desire of oneness. To really understand the depth of what we are sharing, you must exist on a different plane, vibration, or frequency, as you “think” of it. While these linear thoughts of separation aren’t really accurate or true —ultimately it is a choice that is initiated by your desire to be at one. Concentrate. Focus. Be clear. What is it that you really desire?

Do you hope to love in a way that isn’t yet experienced? Is this your desire? If this resonates, then you know something is missing. You find yourself feeling lonely, sad, separate and often desperate to take whatever you can get. Which is always a lower vibrational choice to accommodate to what you don’t really want.

To be full and complete is to recognize the fullness within you. And of course, you can’t do this if you believe and act in the state of separation. To be full, complete and enabled is always done beyond yourself. Call upon us and let your desires be fulfilled. Realize that you are not alone and that you are complete.

Exemplify the love that is ours, as it is yours in your desire to share our desire with others, who seek, by their choice, to be whole and complete. You are whole and enabled. As you see yourself so you are. And in this choice, assuming it’s your desire, you are complete, empowered and are able to create anything.

Isn’t this what you desire? The answer is always “yes”, because you are created in our image. And as so you are Creators. Enable yourself to create, to be at one and to be whole and complete.”

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Feeling overwhelmed by other people’s emotions? In this 60‑second ‘Last Breath’ exercise, learn how to drop inherited emotional weight and return to calm, empowered oneness.

Release Emotional Weight That Isn’t Yours With the Last Breath Exercise

If you feel overwhelmed by emotions that don’t seem to be yours, constantly picking up on the heaviness, anger, or separation around you, you’re not alone. In this session, Weston guides you into a simple but profound energetic shift that helps you stop carrying other people’s burdens in your body.

Together, you’ll explore why highly sensitive souls feel so much, how generational and environmental energies get stored as “emotional weight,” and how the Last Breath exercise reconnects you to your higher self and Source. As you practice, you’ll discover a new way of moving through life in oneness, clarity, and empowerment.

00:00 – Why You Feel So Much

Transcription: Release Emotional Weight That Isn’t Yours With the Last Breath Exercise

Feeling Others’ Energy

Weston Jolly: Amidst all of the noise and the heaviness that I know you feel, there’s this beautiful, silent part of you that takes place in your heart that actually creates the path to all truth and understanding. Today I want to share something with you that, in my opinion, is probably the most challenging thing that we’re faced with when we come to this earth plane, and that is feeling energy that’s around us and discerning that it’s not yours. It’s not yours to take on. If we made that even cleaner or clearer, it’s feeling other people’s energy and not becoming confused that that’s your energy, that it’s your anger or your frustration, or perhaps even your states of separation.

To that end, I want to share with you a wonderful tool that takes less than a minute to literally help you transform that feeling of being challenged or taking on energy that’s not yours. So let’s go back half a step. When we come into this earth plane, when we start in the embryonic space, especially when we come out and we enter into the world, we’re taking on energy. We have from the moment of conception, but we especially do that when we come into this world. We’re feeling everything around us.

So the idea that we want to push away or pretend that this isn’t a natural part of who you are is, in one sense, crazy. Honoring that you are a sentient being is really a beautiful thing. However, especially if you are a highly sensitive person, you will have feelings that go beyond, we’ll call it, the normal person, divergently so. You’ll have access that takes you into whole other states of being connected and also states of being separated. It can be really challenging to have that kind of gift set and to be in an environment where you feel that it’s not safe.

Emotional Weight That Isn’t Yours

Weston Jolly: Yet we want to address that because if you choose to really master that and become accomplished in realizing that you don’t have to be trying to control the environment, then you are put in this wonderful place of being empowered. Then the environment doesn’t take you down some kind of path. It’s not controlling you as much as you create an opportunity, a place of illumination for you to really create something entirely different. Let’s talk about the challenge that it feels like to be feeling someone else’s energy. That could be your brother’s, that could be your mom’s—numerous circumstances that could be described as overwhelming to the point that we can nestle in and be even comfortable with words such as depression and/or feeling really, really separate, to the point that we don’t really feel like we belong or that we want to further connect.

Oftentimes, even when we do this, we will huddle in a group, finding other people with like energy to be understood, that we feel despondent or disconnected or not worthy. Yet that’s not necessarily going to take us into any wonderfully healthy space. So the real secret is to not try and fight any feeling that you have, but rather honor the fact that when you are feeling energies that feel less than comfortable, that do not have to be polarized in terms of good or bad—but they typically are—we can slow that down to appreciate that there’s something that we’re learning or showing ourselves with those reflections. Instead of trying to fight our opportunity to feel, we want to actually go into it. There’s a secret in doing that.

The real secret, ultimately, is to feel the energy around you, especially if you are highly sensitive, but to not hold it. When I say hold it, I’m speaking, of course, of the body. If you were to jump onto a scale, some people have a pretty good idea of how much they weigh. But most people don’t have a clue to what degree they’re carrying weight that could be described as emotional weight that isn’t theirs. It’s common, for example, for someone, in coming into their incarnation, to feel perhaps the guilt or the shame or the challenges—the energy of the people that they’re coming into.

Family Patterns and the Last Breath Tool

Weston Jolly: That would be mom and dad. Yet that energy isn’t theirs, and yet they may carry it in their body. This is why questions come up when we go to medical professionals; they ask you about things that run in the family. That makes sense from a DNA perspective, but even from an emotional perspective, oftentimes these things are passed down generationally without even necessarily knowing that’s taking place. Yet in this space we want to be hyper-aware.

So let me get to this tool, this space of sharing with you this 60-second shift that will take you into a completely different place. To be honest, this exercise was given to me—given to me by Source. It’s something that I think is one of the most valuable things that you’ll ever come across. I want to offer it to you freely because I think it has that kind of value to literally transform everything…

So in the setup, this exercise, like I said, is only going to take a minute, maybe a little bit longer. But I want you to get prepared for what we’re about to do. If you can, I’d like you to be in a space where you can give me your complete and utter attention. In doing so, I want you to appreciate that this exercise that I’m calling the last breath—your last breath—is just that. I’m going to be asking you to take your last breath.

As you do, you’re going to be taking in your air, your oxygen, your breath. At one point you’re going to get to the climactic high where you can’t take any more in, right? When that happens, I want you to just realize that this is it. This is the last breath. You’re going to come to the end of that exhale and that’s it.

Experiencing the Last Breath

Weston Jolly: There’s nothing more to do. All I want you to do is to observe. So in this moment, if you’re ready, go ahead and begin to take your last breath.

If you’re aware that you’re getting to the climactic top, not being able to hold anything more in, you’re coming now to the downside of beginning to slowly let that out. Create awareness of anything that you’re processing… When you get to the end, I want you to realize what you’ve done.

By putting your energy, your focused energy, on realizing that this is it, there’s only one more breath that you have to take in this incarnation, it shifts all of your attachment energies that you have felt around you and creates a new kind of focus. It’s something that takes place magically, actually, because your higher self, your soul, in that exercise is actually preparing you for transition. Now, of course, when it comes time for that to actually be true, it’s going to be preparing you to let go of your body, which is, of course, the battery pack that keeps this sense of self alive, and that part of you, of course, will die. The real part, of course—the essence of who you are, the soul, the higher self—doesn’t die at all. It literally ascends into this other state of your being.

This is the part that takes place automatically with this exercise. What it does is it brings all of this chaos, all of this noise, all of this energy, all of this confusion and feeling overwhelmed, and it brings us back into a state of oneness. This is something I’m going to be talking about in the future very quickly, because as we realize that we move into a state of oneness, it changes the way that we create and co-create. Instead of me coming into a room and trying to separate myself from a person or group of people or maybe the whole group, it changes how I go forward. I become literally at one.

Oneness, Empowerment, and Letting Go of Fear

Weston Jolly: In this state of oneness, it enables you—that’s a very key word—to go forward in a completely different way, in essence, an empowered way. I have to step back to help you understand that this takes place within you, in the same way that, biologically, there are parts of you that have the ability to take care of yourself when fear arises on the horizon. In your ancestry, of course, running away from wild animals was common as a means to try to escape. That would be described as a real fear that gets materialized physically in terms of adrenaline, etc., etc., to be able to create the actions to get away.

Today we are often triggered, especially in emotional categories, but not necessarily physically like we have been in our ancestry. Beyond beliefs are these things that got handed down to us energetically. This is what we’re letting go of so that we can let go of that process, which is physical, biological. What we’re doing is putting our focused attention on our connecting—our connecting to Source and essence, the true essence of who we are…

As we do this, it brings us into this state of tranquility. Ultimately, as I’ve just got through demonstrating, it doesn’t take half an hour. It doesn’t have to take a great deal of your focused attention. Certainly it’s not something you have to try to control or manage. Putting your attention on the real you is literally transformative.

Giving yourself permission to play in this space of connection is everything. The more that you play with the idea that you don’t need to be separated from anyone else’s energy, but you can see these different reflections of energy as a part of who you are, it helps. To give you a little tease of the near future, when we talk about being united, united is an extremely powerful concept. We share, in terms of this nation, the United States of America, and assuming that’s true, there is a connection that we have with one another. Now, when we do that, sometimes we create a separation.

Collective Division and True Unity

Weston Jolly: This group, this nation, is somehow different from some other kind of nation, which isn’t true. So our energy here is our comfort, our safety net, if you will, and this other energy in some other place may be perceived as uncomfortable, to the point that we need to protect ourselves. But the whole point is, whether it’s individually, in a personal relationship, and/or through a work relationship, we want to honor the fact that we’re literally one with everything. When we see this, it changes the way that we interact. I’m not saying that through oneness you have to agree or that you’re going to hold values that everyone else has.

That’s unimportant. But the synergy—or better stated, the energy of empowerment—that comes together when we go to connect with everything is outrageously exciting. Letting go of the fear that could be used as a tool to keep you in play—that is, to keep you constrained or disabled or disconnected—is commonly done as a means to give another person or party or group control. When you do that, of course, you’re submitting yourself through free will, by choice, to do something that takes you away from your true empowerment and truly what you’ve come here to do and/or to express. So giving yourself permission to really accept your place and honor who you are is to be seen as being at one with quite literally everything.

Again, I’m not saying that you have to agree with all these different reflections, but understanding that we literally are in a state of oneness—as you see that within yourself—that happens naturally through this last breath exercise. It takes you on this connected journey of being able to go forward in a completely different way. I wanted to share this exercise because I think it has tremendous value for you, especially in these given moments for us individually. If you can see this, we’re under a great deal of pressure that we’re all co-creating as an opportunity to divest ourselves from the energies that have held us captive individually—through race, through sexual preference, through individual expression that would be considered this versus that. The idea that we have these divisions of blue coats versus red coats, which are basically symbolic words for a civil war that we once had in this particular nation…

It happens everywhere. Of course, when it happens within a body, it creates a cancerous effect because we have one side attacking the other side. We want to let all of that go because when we do, instead of engaging in that fight, it enables us to step into an energetic empowerment that is quite real. It divests us of any kind of weight. I’m speaking of physical weight as much as I’m speaking of emotional weight that isn’t yours to carry. It removes, just like that, any confusion or heaviness that is being thrust upon you as if that’s real.

Then suddenly you can feel that, you can recognize that it has nothing to do with you, and then you allow yourself to connect and go forward in a completely different way. It creates an invitation for you to offer others—we’ll call it that—helping hand for them to be free as well. So use it as you will, but it’s the most powerful tool, and I’m very grateful for you to be here.

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My personal experience is matched by one billion people who who claim to have had at least one out-of-body experience. This estimate is about 12% of the world’s population.

Anyone can have one, and they often happen through dreams, meditation, or deep relaxation. Many people connect OBEs to near-death experiences, but the truth is you don’t need to die to have one. Around 12% of people worldwide say they’ve had an OBE, making it a common and natural phenomenon. These experiences can help you see your life from a new perspective, feel a sense of unity with everything, and understand more about your true self beyond the mind and body.

If you want to try an out-of-body experience, there are four easy ways to start: dreams, meditation, salt water floats, and automatic writing. In dreams, you can set an intention before sleep to explore outside your body. Meditation teaches you to quiet the mind so your soul can move freely. Floating in salt water creates a feeling of weightlessness, helping you naturally detach from the body. Automatic writing lets you connect spiritually while your body writes without thinking, allowing your awareness to go beyond. These methods all focus on letting go of control and opening yourself to the experience.

OBEs are not about fear or danger—they are about openness and connection. By stepping away from the ego and trusting your soul, you can explore new realities and deepen your sense of peace and love. The journey outside your body is a way to discover who you truly are and to reconnect with something greater than yourself.

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Transcription: The Secrets of Out-of-Body Experiences: A Spiritual Channel Explains All

The truth about out-of-body experiences is that you don’t have to die to have one. Since the beginning of time, explorers continue to be driven by curiosity to discover new worlds. This same desire fuels the journey beyond the body. For nearly three decades, I’ve channelled as a spiritual teacher sharing hidden truths about the Universe. Yet, my first out-of-body experience was not something I sought or even understood—it arrived unexpectedly, and it changed everything -it changed my life.

This can be frustrating for those who seek to have their first out-of-body experience and it might stir an even greater fear for those who might think it could just randomly happen. I will help anyone wanting to experience an out-of-body experience (OBE), as well as offer reassurance for those who may have experienced an OBE unexpectedly.

Out-of-body experiences are exactly what you might think that they are. You find yourself consciously outside of your physical body. This may include “looking down” at your body or just flying or hovering around. While out-of-body, there is a sense of lightness and unity with everything, along with the simultaneous ability to see physical details of the room or surroundings—this is the normal.

It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe in such concepts – as I didn’t when it happened to me. I was sleeping on the second story of our first house with the master bedroom window overlooking the backyard. One night, in my 20’s, I left my body and hovered parallel to my physical body still sleeping in bed, as I flew right out the closed window.

I recall feeling scared and upset because I didn’t believe in any such things. This event was simple and timeless. Nothing happened beyond me silently starting to float about three feet above my body and then slowly out the bedroom window, 45 feet above the back porch, and then return back to my body again.

The experience can be likened to learning how to swim. First, it’s like swimming in the small kiddie pool, as you get more comfortable then you jump into the “big pool,” eventually venturing into the deep end. Hovering, untethered outside my body two stories above the backyard felt like the deep end. It took my breath away. Honestly, the experience itself wasn’t at all scary—just unexpected.

My personal experience is matched by one billion people who who claim to have had at least one out-of-body experience. This estimate is about 12% of the world’s population. Certainly, people are talking about their out-of-body experiences making the topic less woo woo. Out-of-body experiences are extraordinary opportunities of discovery.

You can leave your body through sleep, dreams, meditation, accidents or through death. From an academic perspective, studies of out-of-body experiences share also have had a Near-Death-Experience or NDE. Some scientific investigations suggest that almost 80% of those who have a NDE experience also have a out-of-body experience.

This is why there is such a strong connection between the experience of dying or coming close to death and subsequently returning to life in a body. Studies are filled
with details of individuals seeing or hearing things in a room while they leave their bodies. No one wants to die trying something new but many life changing opportunities come at challenging the fear of dying.

This is why it’s important to understand that you don’t have to die to have an OBE. I didn’t die, I was just sleeping when I left my body. This raises the question of whether it is possible to experience an out-of-body experience (OBE) without facing actual death. The topics of out-of-body experiences, as well as NDE, confound; biologists, neuroscientists, medical doctors and psychologists. But it doesn’t confound honest spiritualists.

There’s little controversy about death; the heart stops as does breath. Biologically, death has occurred. The shell, or the body, stops living and so does the ego. The ego is that part of the human body that nobody can seem to locate physically. This extends in trying to find where conscious and the soul reside in the body.

The best guess is that ego, consciousness and the soul are associated with the body. But where? The most educated minds don’t have a clue. And I’ll tell you why, because this information isn’t available to the mind.

The human mind is impressive but very limited. For example, we can’t fully grasp concepts like eternal or unconditional. To cope, the mind uses shortcuts and relies on our senses, which are even more restricted—this creates challenges for true understanding.

In the physical world, there is great emphasis, if not even a conditioned prejudice, that if you can’t see it, hear it, or measure it — then the thing you’re trying to observe or categorize isn’t real. This is a conundrum as the body and the mind have clear boundaries to what it can sense or process. Any scientist would agree, but what is hard to grasp is how this condition, or prejudice, actually blocks stuff the mind can’t understand.

This to your brought to your attention so you can appreciate that an OBE can happen as a result of NDE and it goes beyond the mind, and the body that supports it. When the body dies, so does the brain and it’s ability to sense, record or remember anything.
A dead battery has no energy and cannot supply electricity for any use. A dead body, hosts a dead mind, and yet still things are being processed but where? Deductively, it can’t be physical because the body and the mind are dead. This is where the controversy surrounding OBE begins.

Yet, it’s all pretty simple.

The reason I’ve introduced NDE in conjunction with OBE is to create an understanding that being out-of-body is literally outside the body. The proof is shared by someone who is dying or dead, as they look down at their dead body -hearing or seeing things in the room that a dead body can’t process. And that’s just the physical things.

You don’t have to die to have an out-of-body experience, but this raises doubts about whether the experience is truly an OBE. In reality, a genuine OBE doesn’t need to be questioned. People who have OBEs aren’t just imagining it—they are going beyond the mind. This should reassure anyone who experiences an OBE unexpectedly.
Let’s focus on how to create an out-of-body experience.

When you go out-of-body there are patterns that create the definition of the practice.

You’ll feel sensations of complete and utter openness and oneness. These two parts go hand and hand. c You would do well, to allow me to repeat this, being open is the key to oneness to experience being outside of your body.

There are feelings of unity, peace and love in the purity of being at one. This esoteric state is exactly how you would describe your soul before it incarnated into a body. The subtile difference in being out-of-body, is you still have an association to the body. However, it’s a very loose association compared to the idea that this body is who you are.

There is consciousness without ego. The only egoic piece that you have is a slight connection that the body you’ve left is yours. You know it’s your body, but you’ll see it like everyone else in the world does —from a third person perspective. This creates the largest of opportunities.

Letting go of your sense of self can happen through many different gateways. You can experience going out-of-body by releasing the hold of your mind’s influence. This means letting go of your mind’s need to be in constant control. I would suggest tools like; meditating, dreaming, running, dancing, sound bowls, drum circles, breathing, stretching, acupuncture, salt floats and automatic writing. There are also other alternatives like; hypnotherapy, plant based medication, drugs and guided mediation that also might induce an OBE.

You may find preference with some of these considerations but not all. I honor any gateway as a portal for going out-of-body but being on a drug, or being hypnotized, isn’t necessarily the same kind of experience. While there can similarities by these “induced” methods of going out-of-body – the best means of creating an out-of-body experience might be just letting go of the need to be in control.

This is anathema for the mind. The need to be separate and tethered to the identity of who you think you are is lost when you go out-of-body. You see yourself but not through the lens, beliefs or conditions of your personality or body. This creates a feeling of unity, that is essentially love. A love that you have in reconnecting to everything – once again – but just outside your body.

I’ve head some advocate leaving your body by keeping a cord or tie to it. This resembles your body -like an anchor – connected by a cord to your the soul drifting like a balloon. This is supposedly done, “so you can find your way back into your body.” I don’t encourage such considerations because your soul isn’t lost and it doesn’t need a kite string, or something more substantial, to find your way back into your physical body. Though imaginative, this idea feels like a myth born from origins of our physical journey starting with an umbilical cord still attached by getting high above your body.

It shouldn’t be a surprise that the phrase getting high references getting high above your body. No doubt, using drugs can be used as a pathway to having an OBE but I’d suggest a little caution. The primary reason is because drugs can be used as means to escape the body. I’d present that an OBE is like not using a vehicle to travel. Instead of driving, you leave the car parked in the garage.This is quite different than using drugs to numb and remaining very attached.

Let me share four ways you can let go of your body to create a clean out-of-body experience.

Dreams. I love this particular gateway because it’s easy for your mind not to be activated. This fact enables the greatest of opportunity to create an out-of-body experience. Remember the key to oneness is through openness. When you’re asleep there’s a natural invitation to connect to oneness. This is a integral part of dreaming.

Try using your dream state to create an OBE. Before you go to sleep offer yourself an autosuggestion or an invitation for an OBE. This can be as simple as using the statement, “I’m open and ready to experience being outside my body.” Or say, “I am free to explore outside my body.”

As you do fall to sleep, remember you really don’t need your body. There’s no need to be attached to your body, especially at night since it’s resting anyway, so it’s completely safe to release it. There’s wonderful things that happen in your consideration of such as suggestion, when your mind/ego doesn’t need to be in control. Instead you can trust your soul, the Universe or the Divine to guide you as you float above your sleeping body.

You could also read or listen to other OBE’s. This puts the mind in a suggestive state of inquiry about how others are doing it. However, my personal advice is for you to create your own path. The mind may not like this guidance, but you’ll find it the best portal as you intuitively go forward.

Meditation. In preparation of using the dream state, and using autosuggestion affirmations before sleep, to access going out-of-body -consider mediation. I’m referencing silent formal meditation where you sit in a cross-legged position. With your posture straight, put all your focused attention into conscious breath. This means thinking of nothing except breathing.

It doesn’t matter how long you meditate, but it’s extremely important that you’re not thinking. I’ve offered this simple exercise in my retreats and I’ve watched people; itch their nose, swat at flies, move their arms and legs, chew gum, open their eyes and look around and more. If you’re engaged in any unconscious or conscious thoughts or activities then your brain is engaged. You’ll need to be able to sit, without thought before proceeding to the next part of this same suggestion.

After mastering the art of sitting in silence without thought and not moving, see if you can detach from your body and twist it. The best way to explain this is keeping your body perfectly still, and moving your soul so it’s no longer facing forward. To understand this maneuver better, imagine standing before a trifold bridal mirror. These mirrors are designed to provide a 360-degree view of the dress, allowing the bride to see the front, sides, and back simultaneously for a comprehensive look. Using this explanation, the only thing that will move will be your eyes, or maybe you might slightly twist your head. The body stays still.

Keep your body still and pivot your soul around the unmoving vertical axis of your body facing forward. Try twisting your soul at 45°to the left. Then try it 45° to the right. Then try moving it 90° in either direction. Finally, try facing 180° backward.

Once you’ve mastered this, it’s time to move the vertical axis. With the vertical axis free you can spin your soul vertically instead of just moving it horizontally – this means you can flip yourself upside down – while sitting still within your body.

Continue playing with this process of twisting, or flipping your soul, within your unmoving physical body, until there is no attachment. This exercise is preparing you for detaching to actually leave your body. In my body I’m prone to motion sickness and I’ve spun it faster than any top, or astronaut in spinning space capsule, without any recourse. As you continue to detach you will feel a lightness.

When we stand on Earth, we feel our weight because gravity pulls us down. This pull creates resistance that our body experiences and is measured as weight. However, when you enter a pool of water, the water supports part of your body and reduces that resistance. As a result, you feel lighter, more buoyant, and able to float. This takes us to our next how to create an out-of-body experience.

Salt Water Floats. Floating in any kind of water is liberating but even more so when the salt level is so high that you’re actually pushed to the surface. The sensation is unlike any other—a weightless, almost otherworldly feeling similar to floating in space, and it’s very soothing not to feel bodily weight. If you combine meditating without thinking while being in a salt water float you may want to fly out of your body.

As you rest on your back in the stillness of a float tank, the gentle support of only a few inches of water cradles you. In the quiet, you may begin to sense the subtle places where your body has been holding on—sometimes to burdens, sometimes to emotions—softly rising into awareness like ripples dissolving into calm. At first, this might feel awkward but if you remain motionless your body will begin to release the tension and you’ll find yourself relaxing. In minutes, you’ll find yourself floating, motionless on a bed of water.

The sensory deprived chamber, as salt water floats are sometimes called, greatly reduces the distractions that come from your senses being so active. Unlike mediating in a sitting cross-legged position, floating I will further reduce the idea that you have to support yourself. Anything that can be done to assist you in honoring your body but detaching from it will help you in creating an OBE.

And as much as I love all the above, I’ve saved my favorite tool for last – Automatic Writing.

Automatic Writing.  Which is also called Freewriting is a tremendous spiritual tool to connect. Automatic Writing is a process where you unconsciously write without any kind of guidance or direction. Automatic Writing like silent meditation only your holding a pen.  If you have, or have seen others meditate -sitting in a lotus position silently – without thinking then this is equivalent to Automatic Writing.

The key difference is that you will use your body to write, but you’ll do so without thinking. You can see the pattern throughout all the examples of how to create an OBE. You don’t use your mind; when dreaming, meditating, while floating in a salt tank, and you don’t want to use your mind when Automatic Writing either. Using your body to automatically write while going out-of-body may seem difficult but it doesn’t have to be.

I think of Freewriting as a leverage point to open many many spiritual doors including going out of your body. Like meditating in a sensory deprived chamber, you can use your body to write, a mechanical process really, while also concurrently leaving your body. If you haven’t tried this method it might seem incredibly difficult to being using your body when all the other alternatives in how to create an OBE has your body in a dormant state.

You’ve been conditioned to think about what you’re going to write.  When you write this way, it’s quite typical; to write, stop, think, edit and research. Freewriting is the opposite of all of this. When your Freewriting your writing a stream of consciousness which means you don’t ever stop to think. This has it’s place in creating an OBE.

When you do create an OBE the fastest way to return to your body is to engage the thinking process. The mind wants to have control. This is why not thinking while doing an activity, such as writing, may seem impossible but it’s an very advanced step to allow yourself to spiritually connect without really using your body.

Those who really want to learn the Freewriting process, can start with 5 Ways to Start Automatic Writing. If you have a deep desire learn more about Automatic Writing, then I’ve created a 24 lesson video course called the Secrets of Freewriting. Learning how to write a stream of consciousness can take you out of your body and a lot further. This process, can enable your access -as a channel- many things that go outside your body and your mind.

Learning to go out of your body while writing or doing something else with your body can take some practice but it’s so worth it. The dividends of going outside your body, watching it mechanically breathe, let alone write, prepares you for so many other spiritual experiences.

In summary of Secrets of Out-of-Body Experiences is found in your detaching from your thinking mind and then your body. The four ways mentioned we talked about are:

Dreams. Being open is the key to oneness which unlocks the door to going out-of-body. Going to sleep with an intention that it is safe and fun to explore in an OBE.

Meditating. Putting all of your intention on breath and when mastered, that you begin twisting your soul in different positions while keeping your body still.

Salt Water Floats. Floating on water is the closest sensation that you can have to being outside of your body. Being in sensory deprived chamber decreases your attachment to the outside world and creates a portal to the inside world.

Automatic Writing. This means could be the most challenging of all the other means of going OBE because you actually engage with your body instead of putting it to rest. However, the benefits of going OBE through Automatic Writing and perhaps using the course Secrets of Freewriting are made available for the advancing soul who really wants to engage on a completely different plain, pun intended.

There you have it. Four Secrets to create an out-of-body experience. I hope enjoy the ride, and please consider commenting or sharing your adventures with your OBE’s.

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The Lower Self is the ego or the Shell and “IT” is not you.  Learn more about how to move past your lower self and your mind.

Many of us have faced moments when others hurled hurtful words—like “Who do you think you are?” I remember this so well after having channeled my first book Is God With Us? My stepfather jeered and mockingly asked me this question and I fell silent in shame -as if I had done something wrong.

I want you to know that those words don’t define you, even if they’ve unconsciously shaped your lower self over time. It’s common to carry such wounds and to feel stuck, but you’re not alone—and you can break free.

In Moving Past Your Lower Self I want to acknowledge how common and damaging these patterns are, yet also remind you that you’re not alone or defined by the past.

Now is the perfect time to reconnect with your true self and inspire those around you to do the same.

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Transcription: Moving Past the Lower Self

Weston Jolly:
Let’s talk about how to move past your lower self. As human beings, we’re rooted in our physical form. Biologically, we’re conditioned to fear things—snakes, tigers, any threat that could harm us. This survival instinct passes into how we’re raised—by our parents and our communities. Quickly, the idea that “nobody is safe” becomes a deep, primal resonance for all of us.

This isn’t new. It’s used everywhere, especially in marketing. I remember learning in college how companies like Michelin would put a baby inside a tire in an advertisement. The message is clear: fear sells! As long as people believe that fear is real. Today, I want to show you how to go beyond the attachment of your lower self.

[00:03]

Understanding the Ego and Separation

Weston Jolly:
We must be compassionate with ourselves and recognize that as souls, we chose to incarnate in physical bodies. Our bodies protect us, but our minds—specifically the ego—can amplify that fear. The ego acts as a shell that creates not just real, but imagined threats.

At its core, the ego is about separation. When constant messages tell us we’re not safe, this strikes at our root chakra and threatens feelings of security—whether it’s about having a job, a home, or food. The body and mind trigger a predictable protective response.

You can’t force yourself to move forward just by fighting this state. Trying to love or support someone mired in fear doesn’t work; fear always wins out and the lower self takes over. The ego drives the car, creating drama and separation. Mere intellectual understanding isn’t enough; mastery requires living beyond this perspective.

[00:05]

Patterns of Protection and Separation

Weston Jolly:
Let’s delve into how the lower self operates in daily life. When you constantly hear that nobody is safe—either in the news or in your world—that triggers feelings of separation. This isn’t just about society; it seeps into our personal habits and barriers.

Sometimes, even when you are safe, you don’t feel that way. This happens because your subconscious, “reptilian” brain, has been activated. When you let the lower self have too much control, you create cycles of separation and start to believe you have no choices. This leads to an internal sense of powerlessness.

If you’re grappling with uncomfortable emotions or trying to control your mind, it may seem virtually impossible. Trying to prevent yourself from feeling fear rarely works. Instead, give yourself permission to see the truth and connect to your Higher Self.

[00:08]

Choosing Connection Over Fear

Weston Jolly:
Operating from your Higher Self means there’s no fight or struggle—no drama over “who’s in charge.” Your spirit or Higher Self will never argue with your lower self. You must simply choose whom you serve. If you opt for your Higher Self, there’s no reason to submit to separation and fear.

This isn’t just about hearing these words. Pay attention to how these energies feel in your body and life. You might go through your day, hear a song, feel a certain way, and suddenly an old fear—an attachment from your past—gets triggered. That’s the moment when the lower self wants to steer the car. If you let it, you attract more situations of separation. It’s a cycle—when you don’t feel safe, your energy looks for more spaces that match it.

When you try to protect yourself at all costs, you can’t receive what life wants to give you. This behavior impacts not just your personal life and health, but your relationships as well.

[00:11]

Letting Go of Patterns

Weston Jolly:
Imagine waking up next to a loved one and feeling unsafe for no clear reason. Without realizing it, you may put up emotional walls, create conflict, or distance yourself from that person—even if you love them deeply. This pattern can repeat not just in romantic relationships but also between parents and children.

To move forward, focus your attention on who you really are. The feeling of “not being safe” is something learned and chosen—not a permanent truth. We become stuck, orbiting these issues like a moon around Earth, never breaking free.

But the moment you realize the fear isn’t real, the pattern breaks. That’s what letting go means: recognizing the cycle, putting your focused attention on your true self, and automatically moving past your lower self. It’s something to practice, not just understand.

[00:14]

Breaking Conditioned Fear

Weston Jolly:
We all have biological protection, but we also have learned layers of ego and fear. Being aware of this is crucial. If you let your physical fear of harsh environments become a justification for further protection, it actually creates deep separation. Then, you never find peace within yourself.

Sometimes, our need to present ourselves a certain way—through appearance, status, or behavior—becomes deeply ingrained. This isn’t about age; it’s about the choice to exist as we truly are. That choice is powerful—and not a sign of vulnerability, despite what the lower self or family conditioning may tell us.

For many, this fear is passed down from generation to generation. Breaking free from it is a profound act. You do not need to remain limited.

[00:17]

The Power of Choice and Affluence

Weston Jolly:
Let’s look at how you can release yourself from the past and connect with your true self. There are many ways—no single right one. Remember, having options (affluence) is the opposite of the poverty mindset, which makes you feel like you have no choice at all.

Even if strong feelings of fear or separation have been repeated all your life—through upbringing, culture, or social roles—you can become conscious of these patterns. Giving attention to the lower self, acknowledging it, and then choosing differently is how you move forward.

When you’re stuck, it’s because you’re holding onto these patterns. You don’t have to. Practicing mindfulness and gratitude brings your focus back to your true self, helping you move beyond old cycles.

[00:20]

Shifting Into Gratitude and Abundance

Weston Jolly:
Gratitude is a powerful tool. It connects you to your Higher Self and source. While many use gratitude for minor things—a meal, a parking spot—true gratitude comes from realizing you are supported simply by being alive.

Society may reinforce separation through class or category, but these are learned beliefs. When you let go of them, you step into your power. Even immense wealth can’t guarantee a feeling of safety if separation and fear still rule within.

Affluence and abundance come from a connected state. Practicing gratitude and letting go of limiting beliefs allow you to receive more. Your Higher Self is always available—no need to wait until death to access it. The feeling of connection is always there for you.

[00:23]

Connecting with Divine Truth

Weston Jolly:
Tap into your Higher Self through gratitude and understanding that separation isn’t real. Divine truth never changes; it’s eternal. Connecting with this truth is not about individual perspective but reaching something universal.

As you access your Higher Self, you transcend many earthly fears. You allow yourself to move beyond manipulation—no longer controlled by fear, illusions, or a sense of unworthiness. Clear thinking keeps you connected and avoids the traps of limitation.

Sometimes, calming the mind feels like quieting a fussy baby. Gently remind yourself—the ego is not in charge. Let your true self lead.

[00:25]

Lighting Up Your True Self

Weston Jolly:
When you open yourself to love, without protection or fear, all of your energy centers or chakras light up. This energy isn’t limited to security at the base or root—it expands out through your whole being.

Test this for yourself. Temporary security from money, relationships, or physical strength can all be disrupted. True security comes from within. When you feel that inner connection, you live in a more powerful and peaceful way.

Moving past the lower self means honoring your history and choices, but also learning to let go—just as you’d turn a pancake over when it’s time. You are not your past. As you make peace with this, you open up to new choices and deeper states of connection, belonging, and attraction.

[00:29]

Embodying Abundance and Freedom

Weston Jolly:
As you give yourself permission to exist in this higher state of unlimited affluence, you become empowered. Like moving from grade school to college, you realize older patterns are no longer who you are.

Transcending the past lets you access oneness and create genuine connections. People drawn to affluence often have more choices, attracting abundance in new ways. Real-life examples show us this in terms of wealth—like being offered options or investments because you’re already abundant. But this is true of spiritual wealth too.

When you let one fear go, it can topple many others—like dominoes. At the deepest root, all your fears are based on separation. When you cut through that illusion, you claim your freedom and have access to new knowledge, creativity, and spiritual power. This is what it means to move past your lower self.

Congratulations on taking this journey.

[00:32]

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Why do we present, and wear, so many different faces when we only have one?

In a world where everyone is obsessed with putting on the perfect face, my recent trip to the car wash spirals into a comedy of errors and a journey of self-discovery. If you want to save face from public embarrassment and discover unexpected wisdom, hear what happens next when you drop the mask.

Are you ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe see yourself a little more clearly? Tune in and discover the freedom —and power— of embracing your True Self. After all you’re much more than just some face.

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Transcription: Putting My Face On

[00:51]

Putting my face on. If you’re a woman, you know exactly what this means. However, if you’re a man, you might not realize that “putting my face on” refers to applying makeup. Isn’t it fascinating that putting on a face is something we all do? Not necessarily makeup, but a face. Everyone wants to put their best face forward. The young want to appear mature; the old want to look young. We are obsessed with looking good. It’s obvious, but you might be too close to the situation to notice. Let me illustrate. Imagine you’re on vacation, out to dinner with family or friends. I’m your waiter, and someone hands me a phone, asking if I’ll take your picture. I gather everyone, compose the shot with attention to lighting and background, making sure everyone looks their best, and take the photo. Then I say, “I’ve got it,” and hand the camera back. What’s the first thing you do? You can’t help yourself.

[02:24]

You’re staring at yourself, checking if your eyes are open or closed, if there’s spinach stuck in your teeth, or if you look silly. Maybe you’re worried your neck looks like a turkey. The list goes on. It can be hard to see your inner uniqueness if you’re used to putting on a face. Let me share a personal story. Last Sunday, I asked my wife if I could take her car to get it washed. I thought it was a nice gesture, though I admit I’m obsessed with her car being clean. I took her car to the car wash—she has a membership—so I went into the “members only” lane. There were only a couple of cars ahead, and some behind. I’m familiar with her car, which has an automatic windshield wiper feature: when the windshield gets wet, the wipers come on automatically.

[03:46]

I knew this, but I felt a bit nervous as I waited my turn as the next car to enter the car wash. I couldn’t quite remember how to turn off the automatic windshield wipers. The car wash attendant, clearly familiar with this feature, sprayed my windshield first. As soon as he did, my wipers, as I feared, automatically engaged. Instinctively, I put my foot on the brake —remember, we’re on a moving track— as I tried twisting and turning the right-hand knob to turn off the automatic wipers. The attendant kept spraying the windshield while I desperately fiddled with the controls, trying to stop the wipers. I felt stressed and anxious, but nothing worked. With no other option, the attendant pressed a red button to stop the car wash, setting off a loud buzzer that alerted everyone in the area that the car wash was down.

[05:08]

It was my fault. I looked in the rearview mirror and saw a long line of cars behind me. I tried even harder to turn off the wipers, but with no luck. Finally, as I was about to enter the car wash, another attendant motioned for me to roll down my window and said, “Turn off your automatic windshield wipers.” I won’t repeat what I was thinking in that moment. I replied, “I’m trying, but I don’t know how!” as he continued spraying the windshield and the wipers kept going. Then he suggested I lift the lever up a notch. I did, and the problem was solved. Looking in the mirror, I saw the line was even longer. I was nervous but relieved the issue was fixed. The car wash alarm sounded again, letting everyone know the wash was about to start.

[06:36]

As my car was pulled into the first stage of the car wash, I couldn’t believe how anxious I felt about causing such a commotion. I glanced in the rearview mirror again to see how many people were behind me, telling myself it didn’t matter what others thought. Hidden in the car wash, I was overwhelmed with embarrassment. When I reached the end, hearing the air blow-drying the car, I felt some relief and reminded myself that I probably wasn’t the first to have this issue. Pulling out, I made a U-turn to find a stall to dry and vacuum the car, and I ending up parking right next to the front of the car wash —the very spot where my problems began. Now I could really see how backed up the line was because of me.

[07:50]

Trying not to attract any more attention, I grabbed my towels to dry the car. As I leaned down, over the front grill, to dry the front bumper, the key fob in my pocket got caught and set off the car’s emergency alarm, creating a loud beeping noise. I jumped, trying to figure out what happened, and then I realized the fob was in my pocket. With wet hands, I struggled to reach into my dry pockets and find the right button. The fob is square with tiny buttons, which are not much bigger than on an iPhone. The car alarm kept going, and I couldn’t tell which button would turn it off, so I pressed them all.

[08:49]

The same attendant who helped with my automatic wipers was standing six or eight feet away. The car alarm finally stopped, and I finished drying the car as quickly as possible. Everything I did was an attempt to save face, but it didn’t work. If you’re a woman, you might start your day by washing your face and putting on makeup. If you’re a man, you’re probably putting on a face too, just without makeup. We all do it, just like we look at ourselves in photos to make sure we look good. What I’m saying is, we all put on a face. Well, not everyone. When Susan Boyle first sang “I Dreamed a Dream” from Les Misérables on Britain’s Got Talent, she didn’t put on a face. She came on stage, told everyone she was 47, unemployed, never married, and had never been kissed.

[10:13]

Then she sang. Twenty-six million people watched that audition. Her dream of becoming a singer came true with her first album selling ten million copies, and she recorded eight more albums. If you’re wondering how, Susan’s success came from not putting on a face. My car wash wake-up call made me look at myself differently. Metaphysically, something was going on. The car wash, the alarms, the horns, and the attention I drew —what is this message? It’s ironic, symbolic, and even humorous that it took a car wash for me to see myself more clearly. Maybe the car wash was helping me remove my makeup. I find words—and the energy behind them—fascinating. Right now, I’m thinking about the phrase “makeup.” This reminds me of another story from college. I missed a class and called a classmate from the lobby of a girls’ dorm to ask for her notes. We sat together every day in business school, but she wasn’t enthusiastic and sighed saying, “I just took off my makeup.”

[11:55]

I said, “I don’t care,” and I kept pleading for her notes for the next day’s test. She finally agreed as she said she’d be down in the lobby in a minute. I sat in the corner of the all-girl dormitory lobby, absent-mindedly watching people come and go. Then a girl walked up, handed me some papers, and said, “Here you go.” I didn’t recognize her and I finally said, “…Sheila?” She frowned, turned around, and walked away in a huff. I begged for forgiveness, but it was clear I was like all the other guys who thought Sheila didn’t wear that much makeup. Nothing had really changed —she was still herself— but something had changed within me. I hadn’t taken the time to really see Sheila without her face on, and it was I who was embarrassed. After a few humble apologies, Sheila forgave me, and we became even better friends. Do we need to present ourselves in a made-up fashion? After my recent car wash fiasco, I decided to open up even more to what else I might be making up. So, I decided to channel about it.

[13:35]

As you look through a dark glass, your vision is obscured. Once the dark lens is removed, you can see clearly. There are many layers you use to protect your sense of self. For example, when you look in the mirror, you wonder, “Who am I?” But really, you’re thinking about how you want to present yourself. It may never occur to you that the reflection isn’t really you. The essence of who you are is found in your energy, your light, and your vibrations. To see yourself, you must look beyond the external mirror. Nothing is more beautiful than recognizing your true essence. Let it be shared this way: as you see yourself, so you are. When you truly desire to see, it’s not about your reflection —it’s about your essence. Recognizing your essence is a beautiful acknowledgment.

[15:15] A mirror, like an SLR camera, can only capture parts of your true self. To be seen, you must first recognize who you really are. This goes far beyond the external. Most people are raised to search for their abilities and to express such gifts, but these are just a part of who you are. Outward expressions give an incomplete view of your inner self. Yet, these reflections are magnified by how often you express your gifts. All of it is meant to reflect the Divine within, but everyone is too busy presenting themselves rather than seeing themselves as they truly are. External expression becomes a way of identifying with who you think you are. This isn’t wrong, but these manifestations are often out of proportion to the whole self. Remember: as you see yourself, so you are.

[16:54] A carpenter may see themself as valuable because of their ability to make beautiful things from wood. If you limit yourself to the external, you’re limited to the image in the mirror and you’ll miss your authentic being. To break free, you must recognize that you aren’t the mirror —the mirror is just a reflection of your true essence. When you see your shadow, you’re trying to recognize something, but what? Your shadow, the lake’s reflection, the reflection offered by a mirror, or within the sound of your voice… this is all represented by your temporary body. This is true when you write as well. Writing offers a reflection of who you are, but it’s only a reflection —it’s just a tiny piece of the real you. To see your True Self, you must go beyond these breadcrumb-like reflections. You must see the whole.

[18:21] Seeing your whole self isn’t limited to the positive image in a photo, which is created by the negative film. This duality is easy to get caught up in, but you need to go beyond it. Instead of seeing yourself as separate and alone, you must see beyond physical representations of your body, voice, and tangible being —and tap into your essence. As your essence is revealed, you are free to go beyond recreating these external things. Engage fully in reclaiming all that you are. We encourage this transformation.

Is summary of Putting My Face On, consider these points:

1.) Understand the limits of perception and self-image: External focus obscures your deeper, more authentic essence.

2.) The distinction between external manifestations, appearances, talents and roles, and the inner essence of a person: The true self is found in the energy, Light, and vibrations that underlie our being, qualities that can’t captured by mirrors, reflections, or even outward expressions in totality.

3.) Identifying with achievements or social roles is limiting and incomplete: At best this is a small shadow of your True Self.

4.) Going beyond duality: Recognize the unity of the self with the greater whole. True self-knowledge can’t come from external validation or reflection, but it only can come from an inward discovery of one’s true essence.

5.) Transformation and authenticity: The ultimate invitation is to see and to accept oneself fully beyond physical and social constructs, and to reclaim the wholeness of one’s being. When you choose this, you are given a deeper knowledge of your True Self.

As you see yourself, so you are…

And so is your connection to the Divine.

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After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

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Get Up and Go Beyond, means raising your vibration and being One. We are the only species that has the conscious ability to rise up. And the power of being united is the essence of all manifestation.

“If a dog can learn to walk you then can rise up.”

Get Up and Go Beyond is raising your vibrations.

In this podcast, we explore the power of raising our vibrations through deep connections with ourselves and others.

Discover a secret superpower that’s more than just a warm fuzzy feeling—it’s a true game changer that helps us break free from isolation and celebrate our unity. While simply coexisting is good, genuine empowerment comes from working together and acknowledging our interconnectedness.

All wealth is born from a state of oneness. As the only mammals with this incredible potential for unity, we also have the unique ability to deny it. When we get trapped in our egos, we create separation and division, which keeps us in a state of fear and lack—ultimately leading to our downfall.

Get Up and Go Beyond offers powerful messages that will help you transcend the limitations of duality, helping you move far beyond fear, control, doubt, and uncertainty. Let’s rise together!

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Transcription: Get Up and Go Beyond

[00:54] – Weston Jolly
I know a lot of people who have been really wondering what’s going on. Perhaps you’ve been experiencing issues that have to do with your past, like you’ve never been asked before. Things like; health issues, maybe economic changes, changes with your job or personal relationships. Certainly, there’s a great deal happening in the world, and how we’re all interconnecting. And maybe, just maybe, this is a time for you and me to rise up and to go beyond—a time to really find your empowerment. And this is that message for you to Get Up and Go Beyond.

[01:43] – Weston Jolly
So if you have been feeling unsafe, fearful, or upset by anything outside of you, it’s because you’ve created it. I know this can be really hard to hear, and most people will automatically resist, not wanting to be personally accountable. But this is the point, isn’t it? Because if we’re going to make a change, if we’re going to rise up and go beyond, we have to do that by reestablishing our individual and collective connection.

[02:17] – Weston Jolly
Raising your vibration is a message of unlimited opportunity.

In the opposite state, it’s really easy to see how blaming everyone with absolutely no personal accountability is so common.

[02:41] – Weston Jolly
The rising up has to start with you. If you’re feeling unsure or defeated, this is the exact intention of any person or group who wants to steal, lie, or control—whether it’s by power, money, or positioning. If you’ve felt or still feel like you don’t matter, or that you don’t have enough, or that your voice isn’t worth hearing, this conditioning and its effects started a long time ago.

[03:31] – Weston Jolly
So what’s the point? Raising your vibration up means literally being at one. Be reminded that this power is within you. This is why you are being asked to rise up. Some people may call this a spiritual up-leveling. An opportunity to raise your vibrations —as the creator that you are— so that you can banish slavery. Now, slavery is a strong word and very personal. But you can’t get up disempowered as a slave.

This is super important. So as you claim your empowerment to be strong and free, beware that you don’t need permission. You don’t need permission to speak or rise up; you know the power is in unity. The power is in oneness. The power of the universe is found in oneness.

[04:32] – Weston Jolly
This is found in nature as it is in the potential of humans. There’s absolute power in unity. If you are rich by any definition, there is no other way except through unity. This one thought will increase your vibrations as you go up. This simple truth will actually remain forever.

[06:29] – Weston Jolly
Have you ever wondered why human evolution continues to rise and fall? Why have so many people—some of the greatest communities, empires or governments in history—gone extinct? Consider these very clear points of the past that created extinction or the expiration of a people or government:

Does any of that sound familiar? Perhaps we’re going through a climate shift, economic strain, lack of unity, invasion desires by us or others and certainly perhaps we’re at a loss in terms of our identity.

[08:01] – Weston Jolly
Let’s quickly unwrap the Secrets of Gratitude as a singular tool. What is gratitude? Gratitude is an opportunity to be at one, to actually raise your vibrations and reestablish a reconnection to this energetic base. Being in gratitude is an opportunity to be at one with all things. This includes events like a fire or a flood, or even more personal challenges, such as a disease. Sometimes when these things happen, our first instinct is to fight them. Let’s be honest—gratitude during tough times is challenging. It’s easy to feel grateful when life is bountiful, but it feels much harder when we’re in the midst of a trial or a challenge. This is why gratitude is such a powerful tool—a superpower for connection. Think of the term Nameste.

[09:42] – Weston Jolly
Everything about life exists in a state of connection. Nothing is separate. Denying this connection puts individuals, families, and even civilizations at peril. While differences of opinion are natural and healthy, they don’t have to lead to disconnection or division.

[11:15] – Weston Jolly
It’s not about being in lockstep with everyone but about appreciating and honoring our shared humanity. Interestingly, humans often create the most connection through drama or trauma. While these moments can bring people together, they represent lower vibrational states. We don’t need war, economic collapse, or political division to foster connection. To rise vibrationally, we must let go of thoughts that create separation and division because we are all one.

[12:56] – Weston Jolly
Unity doesn’t mean thinking alike; it means coexisting with respect and moving beyond separation. Abundance flows from unity—this is foundational to all creation. Rising up takes practice and consistency, but it can also be joyful and fulfilling. Hope alone isn’t enough; we must actively choose connection every day.

[14:45] – Weston Jolly
As we rise into higher vibrations, we step into prosperity through collaboration and unity. Wealth itself depends on participation and interconnectivity—it cannot exist in isolation. Humans possess a unique ability among mammals: the conscious choice to raise their vibrations. While animals like dolphins or chimpanzees collaborate harmoniously, humans can intentionally elevate their energy through awareness.

[16:12] – Weston Jolly
Creation is a double-edged sword as it can foster either unity or division. When we raise our vibrations and connect as one, we transcend duality and limitations imposed by the ego or mind. The mind is finite; it dies with the body. However, the soul transcends this limitation, offering us the opportunity to connect deeply with our true essence.

Choosing Unity Over Separation
[17:49] – Weston Jolly
Unchecked ego creates separation—feelings of loneliness, abandonment, or superiority over others—all of which lower our vibrations. Even small examples of separate thinking can highlight this issue, like comparing ourselves to others unnecessarily. Going beyond involves tapping into the infinite genius within us and embracing unity with the universe.

[19:20] – Weston Jolly
Rising up doesn’t mean losing individuality; it means recognizing ourselves as integral parts of a greater whole. This perspective enhances our power rather than diminishing it. By choosing connection over separation, we unlock infinite opportunities for growth and prosperity.

[16:11] – Weston Jolly
Every mind has an ego, and if unchecked, it continuously creates separation. This unchecked ego leads to feelings of; loneliness, abandonment, unhappiness, and that of a constant struggle, often positioning oneself for personal gain at the expense of others. This state is indicative of being stuck in lower vibrations. When we judge or create classifications that elevate ourselves above others, regardless of the scale, we lower our vibration and move in the opposite direction of unity.

[17:49] – Weston Jolly
This concept extends to extreme thoughts of separation. For instance, I recall when our son was born and our baby was in bed with my wife a day after the event. My brother-in-law, who also just had his second child a few days before ours stood with his first born taking a peak our new arrival. Without hesitation, my nephew looked at our baby and said, “Our baby is better than your baby.” The room filled with uncomfortable laughter because of the extremity of the thought that one baby is better than another, even within the same family.

[19:20] – Weston Jolly
When I discuss extreme thoughts of separation, it’s essential to remember that no baby is better than another. Going beyond means tapping into the infinite, the genius within, and connecting as one with the universe. Regardless of personal beliefs, everyone returns to this understanding upon death.

[20:56] – Weston Jolly
The unique opportunity we have as humans is the choice: Do we rise up and go beyond? If so, it’s vital to remember our empowerment. Rising up and connecting becomes effortless when we cease seeing ourselves as separate or as the center of the universe. Instead, we see ourselves as integral pieces of a larger whole. This recognition doesn’t diminish us; it enhances our power by extending it through connection.

[22:30] – Weston Jolly
If there’s one thing to take away from this message, it’s to level up and Get Up and Go Beyond by embracing the infinite opportunity to connect, share, and genuinely prosper without fearing loss. As you desire to rise up and go beyond, that potential will be extended to you in proportion to your desire. I encourage you to think big when aiming to get up and beyond.

[24:10] – Weston Jolly
Now is the time to connect on levels you’ve never considered before. When it comes to your creative power, it’s always amplified through unified connection. It’s my honor and conscious choice to connect with you, and vice versa, as you choose to connect with me. Creating a state of oneness is exceptionally powerful. Your voice, your contribution as an individual to society, continues to foster the prosperity we need not just to exist, but to truly thrive as we move forward so that we can get up and go beyond. For us to make true connections, we have to engage.

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After providing over 15,000 hours in session and speaking, I recognize that… “You’re much stronger and more empowered than you think you are…”

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It’s a popular notion that you can control, overcome, and even manage your fears, but there are undeniable reasons why this will never work!

In this dialogue on why you can’t overcome or manage your fears, we take a close look at the nature of our beliefs and fears. Remarkably, over 90% of the fears that haunt us are actually unfounded. Join me as we explore how to break free from fear—and why you can’t manage or overcome fear. The first step toward true transformation is to confront our fears directly, observing their presence instead of fleeing from them.

In this podcast, we will examine the compelling connection between love and fear, shedding light on why fear grips us and how it significantly diminishes our capacity to receive.

This journey is not merely about personal growth; it’s about transforming the energy of every situation we encounter. Today, we are called to release our beliefs in fear, embrace the irrefutable truth of love, and harness the immense power we all possess to shape our experiences through awareness and intention.

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Transcription: Managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, but this approach does

[00:10] – Weston Jolly
Managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, but this approach does. Right now, there’s a significant amount of fear being propagated. The reason is simple: fear sells. In moments of fear, there’s an instinct within you that drives action.

[01:13] – Weston Jolly
We observe this in advertising campaigns. You’ve likely seen an egg breaking into a hot skillet, followed by the sound of sizzling. The tagline reads, “This is your brain on drugs,” creating a stark connection between frying the egg and frying your brain. This makes you think, “This is real.”

[01:41] – Weston Jolly
A lot of people want you to feel afraid.

[01:46] – Weston Jolly
They aim to sell you their agenda, product, service, or idea. This allows them to control or manipulate you through fear.

[02:02] – Weston Jolly
Let’s be clear about the essence of fear: it is addictive. It feeds on itself. Just one word, idea, or thought can start to grow, and soon you can feel it emanating from your solar plexus and spreading throughout your body.

[02:25] – Weston Jolly
Like any addiction, fear cannot be managed effectively. People who seek help in rehab programs, for example, may try to overcome alcohol addiction by counting days, weeks, or even years to manage their success. But ultimately, this approach fails.

[02:55] – Weston Jolly
We have plenty of examples illustrating this. So, while managing fear and anxiety doesn’t work, what does?

[03:05] – Weston Jolly
Let’s delve into something important for your understanding. Biologically speaking, if I were close enough to you and blew in your face, you’d instinctively blink. This reaction is beyond your control and cannot be managed.

[03:22] – Weston Jolly
This is simply how your body is designed. When you recognize that all animals, including humans, have biological systems for self-protection, you’ll understand that you cannot manage these instinctive biological responses.

[03:44] – Weston Jolly
These include our eyelids, designed to protect our eyes, our skin, which envelops the entire body to maintain integrity, our nose, which filters impurities from the air, and our liver and kidneys that function to protect us and ensure safety.

[04:11] – Weston Jolly
If you think you can manage fear, consider the act of someone blowing air into your eyes. Trying to control your instinctive blink response is biologically impossible, regardless of your intentions.

[04:41] – Weston Jolly
When your brain’s amygdala perceives a threat, it reacts instinctively. The prefrontal cortex assesses whether the threat is real or how serious it is. Meanwhile, the hippocampus stores related memories, allowing us to draw on past experiences when future threats are perceived.

[05:14] – Weston Jolly
This creates a cycle of fear, sometimes about things we may not genuinely fear. Understanding your body’s protective design demonstrates the futility of trying to control fear or anxiety.

[05:40] – Weston Jolly
Let’s clarify what anxiety is. Anxiety is the fear of an anticipated threat. It arises from the hippocampus, drawing on past memories to project future fears. Think of anxiety as stemming from the two words, “What if?”

[06:16] – Weston Jolly
For example, consider getting on a plane.

[06:20] – Weston Jolly
What if the plane is late?
What if I can’t find a seat?
What if I miss my flight?
What if ticket prices go up?
What if I have to sit next to an unpleasant person?

[06:40] – Weston Jolly
Those “what ifs” encapsulate the very nature of anxiety. It’s essential to recognize that you can’t control fear any more than you can control anxiety, but you can choose to observe them. Observing our fears or anxieties can be a transformative experience, yet it’s something we often neglect.

[07:05] – Weston Jolly
Instead, we allow our brains to cycle through fears, often stuffing them into a metaphorical trash can until they grow overwhelming. It’s crucial to understand that approximately 90% of our fears never come to fruition.

[07:29] – Weston Jolly
So, even from a probability standpoint, trying to manage fear is ultimately a waste of time. I’m not sure I can emphasize enough how much energy we expend trying to protect ourselves from threats that are unlikely to occur. Just as it’s biologically futile to try to control your blinking reflex, the same applies to managing fear.

[07:57] – Weston Jolly
When we engage our primitive, reptilian brain—the part responsible for basic survival functions such as fear—it’s easy to feel stuck. This part of our brain activates the sympathetic nervous system, triggering our familiar fight-or-flight response.

[08:22] – Weston Jolly
Our endocrine system releases adrenaline and cortisol into our bodies, preparing us for an anticipated threat. This includes norepinephrine, which heightens our alertness and prepares our motor reflexes. You’ve likely experienced this when, for instance, a car backfires unexpectedly, causing you to startle.

[08:48] – Weston Jolly
This is known as the startle reflex. Your body moves into high alert mode—your senses are keenly tuned to possible threats, which is even more pronounced in highly sensitive individuals.

[09:13] – Weston Jolly
It’s crucial to grasp that you cannot control fear. This realization can be liberating. Now let’s discuss what you can do about fear and anxiety. Starting with the obvious: if over 90% of your fears are unfounded, then facing that thought directly—and acknowledging that anxiety often accompanies this fear—can simplify your understanding of what you are dealing with.

[09:47] – Weston Jolly
Recognizing that many fears and anxieties are derivative of non-real threats can be intellectually enlightening. However, it may not feel easy in practice.

[10:05] – Weston Jolly
It can be straightforward to talk about, but when fear manifests physically in your body, shaking it off isn’t always simple. Let’s do a little experiment to help dislodge that fear from your system.

[10:27] – Weston Jolly
I want you to take a fear—any fear you might have—and visualize it as if it’s on a table before you. Really focus on it. Now, affirm out loud, “I don’t believe in fear.” Acknowledge that fear is present, observe it, but reinforce that statement: “I don’t believe in fear.”

[11:09] – Weston Jolly
It’s remarkable how transformative that simple declaration can be, helping you recognize that you don’t have to be bound by something that isn’t real. This is the power of the statement, “I don’t believe in fear.”

[11:25] – Weston Jolly
Personally, this realization offered a significant opportunity for growth and effectiveness in handling my own fears. Since both our brains struggle to differentiate between real and false fears, why should we believe in anything less than the truth?

[11:55] – Weston Jolly
In a deeper analysis, it’s fascinating how the body operates—it cannot discern if a fear is valid or not. For example, consider a barking dog. Your brain might react instinctively, alerting you without requiring conscious thought. Your biological reflexes kick in automatically.

[12:31] – Weston Jolly
When you choose to observe “I don’t believe in fear,” it interrupts that automatic fight-or-flight response. It’s akin to recognizing invalid data in a computer program, rendering it irrelevant—pretty cool, right?

[12:52] – Weston Jolly
Now, I urge you to notice your mind before it spirals into the fear response. Your body is designed to engage perfectly with biological fears, but you can get ahead of this.

[13:09] – Weston Jolly
If you affirm that you don’t believe in fear, even when your body sends alarm signals, you can opt not to react. By setting this intention beforehand, you prepare your mind to handle fear without giving in to it.

[13:34] – Weston Jolly
It’s also essential to honor the fact that our beliefs are confined to our earthly experience. Every belief you hold—every single one—will cease to exist when you die.

[14:16] – Weston Jolly
It’s an intriguing thought, and it is absolutely true. If you’re wondering what endures after you die, it’s your beliefs that vanish, but what remains is the truth. However, don’t confuse your perception of truth—your interpretation of it—with the actual definition of truth.

[14:43] – Weston Jolly
The definition of truth is simple: Truth is. It is eternal and never changes. This is different from holding a belief. Our brains cannot distinguish between what is real and what is not. When we tell our brains that a belief or thought isn’t real, it changes how we process fear.

[15:12] – Weston Jolly
You might think, “Doesn’t that invalidate my ability to feel fear when a real threat is present?” No, it won’t. It simply means that by acknowledging that more than 90% of your fears aren’t real, you can adjust your mindset and free yourself from unnecessary processing of those fears.

[16:01] – Weston Jolly
When I say “facing a fear,” I mean engaging with it fully, not just glancing at it. Sit down with your fear; allow yourself to feel it and observe what you can see and experience.

[16:20] – Weston Jolly
Often, our fears stem from past experiences. But remember this significant insight: fear cannot coexist with love.

[18:20] – Weston Jolly
This is vital to understanding the interplay between fear and love. You must choose which to engage with; choosing love effectively eliminates fear.

[18:38] – Weston Jolly
Let’s take a fear perceived as genuine, like the fear of dogs, as an example of how fear cannot coexist with love.

[18:52] – Weston Jolly
For instance, dogs can bite, and that fear can feel very real. If someone offers comfort, such as holding your hand while a dog is barking, your first reaction might be defensive.

[19:32] – Weston Jolly
However, if we observe the dog, we discover that, according to dog training expert Cesar Millan, dogs are incredibly sensitive; they can smell emotions from miles away.

[19:59] – Weston Jolly
So, if you’re afraid of a barking dog, it may be reacting to your fear.

[20:11] – Weston Jolly
This exemplifies the law of attraction: if you project fear, the dog senses it and responds accordingly. That’s an important observation.

[20:34] – Weston Jolly
Now, let’s consider a different approach. If a barking dog appears aggressive but you respond with love, you create a different atmosphere. This holds true not only for dogs but for many animals, which can sense your openness.

[21:18] – Weston Jolly
I want to share an unexpected event that illustrates this point. My family and I traveled to Colorado, where they supported my speaking engagement. On our return trip, we stopped at a hotel in the middle of nowhere, and I heard some noise outside.

[21:35] – Weston Jolly
I went out to investigate without shoes or a flashlight, trying to locate the source of the sound, which seemed to come from right outside our ground floor room in a remote area.

[ 22:10] – Weston Jolly
As I stepped outside in the dark, I caught a glimpse of a deer standing nearby, looking directly at me.

[22:35] – Weston Jolly
I smiled internally and began to communicate with the deer, wanting it to feel safe and know that I posed no threat. To my surprise, the deer relaxed, which is unusual for wild animals, especially deer.

[23:01] – Weston Jolly
This deer even lowered itself onto its knees, appearing to settle down. The noise we heard in our hotel room had come from this interaction as the deer was preparing to sleep while I stood about 15 feet away.

[23:25] – Weston Jolly
Unbeknownst to me, my teenage son, curious about where I had gone, approached noisily from behind me. As the deer stood up, alert to this new sound, I reassured it, saying, “Listen, that’s just my son. He’s a teenager and a bit clumsy.”

[23:51] – Weston Jolly
To my amazement, the deer seemed to understand and responded as if it were sharing the sentiment: “Me too.” It was a remarkable moment, as I was communicating out loud for my son to hear, observing the deer become calm again.

[24:14] – Weston Jolly
At that point, the deer confidently walked away, leaving us without any fear. This wasn’t merely an extraordinary experience; it exemplifies that such interactions are possible for everyone.

[24:34] – Weston Jolly
This highlights the futility of trying to manage fears or anxieties that we perceive as real. Instead, remember that love and fear cannot coexist. If we choose to live in a state of love, it transforms everything, altering the energy in any situation.

[25:10] – Weston Jolly
Fear and love are incompatible. Right now, we see an overwhelming amount of fear being pushed onto us through social media, news, and politics.

[25:40] – Weston Jolly
This brings me to a fear I’ve faced recently, one I’ve avoided for 30 years! In fact, I’m hosting a live broadcast on Facebook titled, “I’m in the Midst of Addressing One of My Biggest Fears, and This is What I’ve Learned So Far.” If you missed it, you can find it on my website.

[25:57] – Weston Jolly
During this live presentation, I’ll candidly share my journey confronting a long-held fear. What I’m discussing here is just a part of that experience.

[26:20] – Weston Jolly
Let me leave you with this important thought: if you hold onto fear, whether consciously or unconsciously, it directly impacts your ability to give and receive love, create, and participate fully in life.

[26:28] – Weston Jolly
Fear can hinder your health and absolutely affects your spiritual connection. If you choose to live in a state of fear, it will close you off from love, openness, and the well-being you seek.

[26:28] – Weston Jolly
Fear directly impacts your health and significantly affects your spiritual connection. Let me reiterate: if you choose to live in a state of fear, it will close you off from love, health, openness, and your spiritual connection.

[26:54] – Weston Jolly
Many of us are currently faced with the need to confront our fears. This isn’t a new phenomenon, but we may be reaching a climactic point in this process. Thank you for joining me today. I am grateful to share this message with you on True Connections with Weston Jolly as we elevate our awareness and deepen our understanding of what fear is—and what it is not.

[27:22] – Weston Jolly
By the way, I didn’t mention this earlier, but it’s important to say now: the reason we assert that fear is not something to believe in is that fear is, in essence, an illusion. It’s an illusion on this plane; it’s not something you carry with you into other realms. You might remember fears from past lives, which can arise from time to time, but we need to address those as well.

[27:48] – Weston Jolly
If fear isn’t real, then even holding onto that memory—whether from this life or previous lifetimes—doesn’t need to restrict or limit us. It shouldn’t prevent us from expressing the profound love that we inherently are. If we understand that love and fear are incompatible, that they cannot coexist, and that fear is ultimately an illusion, then choosing to exist in a state of love transcends any fear we might encounter.

[28:16] – Weston Jolly
There’s so much more to explore on this topic, and I can’t wait for you to join me again on True Connections with Weston Jolly. I’m thankful that you’re beginning to release your belief in fear and embracing the truth that love is real and, ultimately, love prevails.

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Learn the process of what happens when you die.  What is the Tunnel of Light? Is there a judgement day? How does a life review work?  How can I communicated with with spiritual world?

What’s it like to die?  What happens when you die can be tremendously helpful in eliminating all the fears associated with death and dying. 

BE WARNED, watching this video or listeing to this podcast can be life alterning.

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Transcription: I’m Dead Now What?

Immediately upon leaving your body your spirit returns to its natural form. It’s something that you can absolutely feel. I remember vividly holding our dog who was about to be given a lethal does of Sodium Pentobarbital compassionately because of his health problems. I had my left hand was on his collar and my right hand on chest as the Veterinarian administered the shot. Almost immediately, I could feel our pet’s heart stop concurrent with his breathing. A long two seconds later, I felt something infinitesimal light – much much lighter than any feather could ever be – leave his body. It was incredible. As I felt his spirit lift all I could do was cry.

I wasn’t crying because of fear or even the loss, but the beauty of the spirit leaving the body of our family pet to return to Source. It was incredible.

When someone dies, they first enter into a space, you can also call it a place if helps you at first to understand, but it is really a space… a space where transition begins. At the exact moment of death there’s a transition. The transition is obvious as there’s no longer a need for a beating heart, breathing, eating or thinking.

This portal, which is the same one I mentioned in Ep 78 of True Connections with Weston Jolly called I Talk To Dead People. If you haven’t listened or read that podcast, when you are born, and when you die, there’s a portal. This portal is entry in coming back to the light.

When your mother was fully dilated, her body opened to give space for her to give you birth. During this exact time, which is called “The Transition Phase,” your mom’s body involuntarily started to push you, as her baby, into the light.

This is the same portal for birth as it is death. Obviously, you don’t return to your mother’s womb upon death, but you are returned to Source which is the Mother Of Us All. So in one sense you are returned to the Divine Mother. The mother of Source. This space, or portal, is the same in the beginning as it is in the end.

This too is why Source has accurately stated, that “I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end.”

In childbirth, it’s obviously called the transition phase because your mother is transitioning from one place to the next. The transition from life to death is the same frequency as when you were born. It’s the same doorway or portal or opening in which life starts or in which life ends.

Another way of conceiving this concept, pun intended, is for you to picture a rocket about to liftoff. As a rocket thrust’s itself away from Earth’s gravity -about two minutes after the launch- there is a transition. This is the place where the thrusters give way to the new smaller capsule inside the mothership. During transition, and for the first time, this smaller capsule begins its journey under its own power.

Regardless of how death occurs, the soul is instantly returned via the transition phase back to Source. The very first thing that is addressed is identity. When there’s been a sudden death there is some strong likelihood that the soul still holds the thought resonance that they are still embodied. They’re not, as this is why people who have died and come back into their body, say that they were disembodied or that they were out-of-body.

What’s it like to be out of your body? Pretty much the same as when you dream. Certainly, you can remain, heavy, or in your body while you dream. But most of us leave our body during the dream state. This is why I’ve shared two important blogs for you to consider on the subject of dreaming; What is the Spiritual Meaning of Your Dreams and more importantly Are Flying Dreams Real?. You could describe being out-of-your-body as flying, but it’s more accurate to say, that you’ve returned to your spiritual essence.

After realizing that you are no longer alive, or physically embodied, the transition continues. This is where you find yourself aware that you’re in what many have called a “tunnel of light.” This tunnel, is much like riding in a vehicle goes through a hole at the bottom of a mountain to come out the other side. During the transition period of death, this tunnel of light has an emmence light that draws you towards it. I guess you could say the tunnel of light is also like a long hallway, with countless doors that connect to events within your life span.

The tunnel of light also has similarities to your human umbilical cord. The tunnel of light umbilical cord tethers you to every part of the life that you experienced. I guess you could say the length of the tunnel of light would equate to the length of your life, although time doesn’t exist. Immediately after death, and after the understanding that you’re no longer alive, then you begin what’s called a life review.

Because of world religious influence or conditioning, there are ideas that a life review is some sort of judgement. There is absolutely no judgement. There is no judgement day. And if you’re really listening, that means there is no judgement while you’re alive or when you die. This is even logically reasoned, as Source, which is THE author of Unconditional Love there can be no judgement. Ever.

If you’ve been baptized into this thinking, pun intended, then this too is part of your reawakening to return to your true spiritual essence. In your life review, as seen within the tunnel of light, you begin experiencing your life, every millisecond of it, from the perception of those that were around you.

Your life review is the most complete, inventory of your experiences ever created. Ultimately, all of “your” experiences are no longer stored in your body or brain, but in the Akashic records. The Akashic records is where all things are stored. Notice, I didn’t say all things of life are stored but ALL things. The Akashic records is also a place where all spiritual things are stored too.

If it helps, in this moment, think of the Akashic records as the biggest library every conceived. Every experience, memory, thought, creation, manifesting, happiness, joy or sadness and separation is all stored here in the Akashic records. Most important, after death you begin to process your life experiences through this life review. Before we get any farther down the path of what happens next after you die. I should back track just a little to say that you’re often greeted upon death by others who are familiar to you.

This can be a deceased; father, mother, brother, friend or spouse –and it very much includes specific Angels or Spiritual Guides – even if you’ve never believed or embraced them to be real before. Also, since we’re here at the time of physical death, it’s quite common to have people that have “agreed” to support you as you leave your body. This can be; a spouse, brother, sister, father, mother or friend. And this group of physical people helping you transition can very much include the health care workers who may be assisting you -should that be the case.

After you start the process of letting go of your identity, your body and your physical self, you start the life review of enjoying how every person, and every thing, recorded your life interaction. This life review is the most comprehensive thing you can possibly imagine. This review isn’t necessarily time sequential from the beginning to the end or from the end to the beginning. The life review is very much related to the being in the tunnel of light and where you find yourself in the tunnel.

Since time isn’t real, especially from a spiritual perspective, when going through a life review there is no “normal time” in which someone reviews their life completely. There’s no need to hurry or get through it quickly. This is the perfect time to share about when you can have access to someone after they’ve died.

Sometimes, there’s an immediate need for someone who has passed to communicate with you. By far the simplest means for the two parties to connect is via the dream state. This place can act like a bridge to the physical reality and the the spiritual. If someone you know has passed and they need, or you need, to communicate you will have a dream. Dreams can feel wonderful, offering you and the person who died, a state of completion after death.

When death suddenly occurs the drastic change of being alive one minute and dead the next can be a challenge that death has occurred. If you compare this to someone who has faced a life long illness, or condition, death in itself can be a relief. Nonetheless, any and all resistance is futile. Even when death is overdue or long past expected, the need to connect can be important for both sides to tie up any part or pieces of the relationship that are still being processed. This is where a lot of people will ask questions such as, “Why did they have to die early?” or “Why did they take so long to let go?

When people do let go of their bodies there is no pain. The only thing that can be processed as painful is memories of the past. While this is NOT encouraged, it is possible for someone who has passed to get stuck in the tunnel of light. This would very much include individuals of addiction in their physical life. This only means that the person who died, who was once was an addict – it doesn’t matter the kind of addiction – that they can do circles around the same spot within the tunnel of light. This is akin to watching a rerun of some episodic TV that has been seen a thousand times before but the deceased person hasn’t let it go.

From an earthly perspective, when someone is stuck we call these kinds of entities –ghosts. A ghost being an entity that’s spiritual but still stuck in their Earthly attachment. Entities or ghosts, are sometimes stuck in a house, the bar, the city or place, where they are still doing circles in their death transition to pure light. And yes, sometimes these entities play tricks or try to create a dominion of their presence because of certain pieces of their physical past.

To understand this better let me share this real life example. My family and I stayed in a Bed and Breakfast in Denver many years ago. When we fist checked-in, I could feel the energy of entities, or ghosts that were running around the large house. We had two rooms. One for my wife and I, and the other for our kids with an adjoining door in between the two rooms. Once we got up into our rooms, I went to say something about what I felt in the house to to my wife and kids… and everyone looked at me and said, “We know!”

We could all feel the spiritual entities that were attached to the house and the rooms we’d rented for the night. We gathered as one, and spiritually demanded that we would have privacy in our rooms. This was agreed upon by the entities of the house, but as a part of the spiritual negotiation, our whole family also agreed that the ghosts would be allowed to run up and down the stairways or halls including the kitchen area. All in all, we came to an agreement.

We stayed the one night. Our family wasn’t bothered, as per our understanding, but the conversation that we had with the new owners the following day at breakfast was quite interesting. The owner’s of the B&B shared the details of the troubles they had after purchasing the property and also trying to convert it into a B&B. We appreciated the spiritual education and determined that, as a family, we preferred properties that weren’t inhabited by ghosts.

The best way to describe this is that these souls were still attached to the concept that they lived or inhabited the house and therefore they were stuck in an endless loop in the tunnel of light. In time, though spiritual encouragement, these entities will let go, and they will ascend further into the white light.

Places where I observe entities who are stuck most are in; hospitals, bars, houses, and sometimes cities or specific events. I have helped many homeowner’s, releasing stuck energy, or entities that were attached to the house, so they could sell the property. So, now in getting back to, I’m Dead Now What?

When a person who is ready to communicate to someone who is physically on Earth they may create reminders or patterns of signals to prompt the living person to initiate communication. This where a spiritual medium, such as myself, acts as a liaison in assisting. I think it’s important as a spiritual channel to share with you, that when I am asked to bridge the two parties together much can take place. For me, I become a spiritual interpreter to give words and language and energy meaning the dead person I am channeling.

Oftentimes, a person that has passed wants to provide specific information to my client as means of sharing that this communication and/or this bridge is authentic. This means the dead are often dropping direct or even indirect references to events, names and situations to enhance the conversation. There is conflict for the person that’s passed because they’re being asked to remove their attachment to their physical identity, and now have to use it, like a badge used to enter a building, to once again have access the person they want to speak to.

In time, being detached is easier and easier because the deceased can use their previous identity, name, association with whomever they’re talking to, and no longer be attached to it. A careful observer will see this during the course of their spiritual transition down the tunnel of light.

I would like to add a few more things to our speaking about I’m Dead Now What?

On the spiritual side there can be a challenge to have direct communication with the ones they love. Dropping clues in dreams, making the phone ring with no one on the line, is wonderful but not nearly fulfilling enough. Oftentimes, I have participated as a medium for one specific person who died, and many many others show up. I would have you imagine, that there is a telephone line that is opened up, as the result of the channeling and many times there is a line of entities who want to talk, have a comment, say “hi” and more.

It’s been my experience that this can be a little overwhelming for me as I’m suddenly trying to hear, see and feel a whole group of people instead of just channeling for one individual who has passed. Therefore, I ask all those in the spiritual form to stand in line, and if my client is desirous, I’ll give them a chance to speak. This is fun to know that there’s so much demand for the deceased to speak and share.

Lastly, those who pass, sometimes begrudgingly come to the table when asked as opposed to those that would jump at the chance. This is because they’re still very much in process of their life review, regardless of how long ago they died. When this is the case, I think it’s important to share their hesitancy and also let it be known that the deceased loved one is still clinging to their identity which very much includes their personality. Such an entity can be helped by having such a dialgog even though it might initially feel a little forced.

In summary of I’m Dead Now What? I think it’s fair to share that the dead want to be heard as much as you may want to communicate with them –perhaps even more so. Further understanding with someone who has passed can be very healing. This is especially true, when a “personality” is altered and the person that you once knew takes on a truer form of their spiritually. This is where you can be really assisted beyond the physical, when a person who has passed offers themselves as a spiritual guide .

So in conclusion, and in this moment, I’d like to offer a special honor and gratitude for Suzie, who was my sister-in-law who died prematurely at the age of 37. I really just want to truly thank her for or all of her love and personal assistance for me, her sister and her niece and nephew. Suzie, was a very strong personality while living, having modeled, creating several successful business’ and while also quite challenged with unresolved things of her childhood that caused her premature death from this life. That said, I’d like to dedicate this whole podcast to Suzie and her beautiful life.

Suzie continues to offer each member of our family a great deal of spiritual encouragement and direction and remains a active part of our lives. Some time ago, I wrote a special piece I dedicated to Suzie which is called A Beautiful Life. should you be interested in hearing more about her life and impact….

I do hope you can see that speaking to the dead is truly something to be cherished and honored and in that respect I remain endeared to be called to that process every time I’m asked to channel. Thank you for joining me for today’s podcast and I’ll look forward to your joining me again soon for the next True Connections with Weston Jolly podcast!

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I boarded a plane and as I sat down the woman next to me asked, “What Do You Do?” and I responded, “I Talk To Dead People!”  As a spiritual medium, I’m asked a lot of questions about talking to the deceased.  Find out how mediumship works what it’s like talking to the dead people.

Twenty-five years later, and I’m still having incredible conversations with those who have crossed over. What keeps me engaged? The wealth of wisdom they can share! Among the many questions that loved ones seek answers to, two stand out: “Why did this happen?” and “How did it all unfold?”

Tuning into the voices of the departed is not just a journey; it’s a fascinating exploration that uncovers profound lessons. Some spirits bring invaluable spiritual insights, while others may struggle to lift themselves to a place of clarity. The experience is as unique as the individuals involved, and the revelations can be both enlightening and transformative. Join me as we delve into the mysteries of the afterlife, and unlock the secrets that those beyond the veil are eager to share!

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[00:55] – The Identity Shift After Death

Weston Jolly:
When you’re dead, you face an immediate change of perspective, which is your identity.

A voice whispers in a tunnel:
Who do you think you are?

[01:23] – Reflecting on Your Existence

Weston Jolly:
Relax. I’m not talking about you, or maybe I am? But not in the way that you may be thinking about it, but you’ll have to decide that later.

[01:34] – The Breakfast Scenario

Weston Jolly:
Imagine you’re having breakfast with your best friend. You casually check your watch and realize you’re late. You interrupt:
Shoot, I’ve got to go!
You bolt out of the restaurant, happy to have spent time with your friend, but you check your watch again on your way to the car, but you’re 15 minutes late.

[01:59] – The Dilemma of Speed

Weston Jolly:
You do what most of us do…you have to drive fast! Pulling out of the parking lot, you hit the gas. Some part of you really thinks you can make up the time by driving faster, but you know it’s impossible. You consider your options:
* Let the other party know you’re running late,
* Drive at a normal speed and arrive when you can, or
* Drive faster.

[02:26] – The Distraction of a Phone Call

Weston Jolly:
Without thinking, you accelerate. Just as you enter the freeway, your cell phone rings. You glance over and see it’s the person you’re supposed to meet. You feel bad as you reach for the phone, which is sliding toward the passenger door.

[02:52] – A Fractured Moment in Time

Weston Jolly:
That’s it. That’s all you can remember.
Yet, strangely, you see perfectly below you. You wonder: Where is your cell phone?

[03:13] – What Just Happened?

Weston Jolly:
You don’t feel anything, but you ask yourself, What happened?
As you float about 20 feet above the scene, you realize your car was hit by a cement truck that was in your blind spot. The driver didn’t see you, and now he’s slowing down, startled by what just occurred.

[03:21] – A Bird’s-Eye View

Weston Jolly:
Your car went flying, rolling several times, now a wreck with wheels facing the sky. You see a small Hispanic man in a yellow baseball cap running to the guardrail, murmuring to himself, I hope they?re okay. He thinks, It’s way too far for me to climb down.

[04:34] – Horror Strikes

Weston Jolly:
Oh, God, I hope that they’re not dead.
At once, you feel the panic of the cement truck driver.

[04:45] – Seeking to Communicate

Weston Jolly:
You know it wasn’t his fault. You were driving too fast and reaching after your phone…it was your fault. You want to tell him, but you can’t. You hear other drivers thinking, They can’t be okay.

[05:21] – The Slowdown

Weston Jolly:
Another driver begins to brake hard, causing a massive traffic jam. You hear him say, They’re dead. The way that cement truck hit… no one could have survived that.

[05:41] – The Reality of the Situation

Weston Jolly:
Another vehicle near you has a driver commenting, I knew that guy was going to get hit. He was driving way too fast.

[05:56] – The Close-Up Reveal

Weston Jolly:
Your viewpoint shifts; you’re now closer to the destroyed car. Dust settles, and you can taste it. You instinctively try to remove the sand from your mouth, but there’s nothing there.

[06:24] – The Unmoving Body

Weston Jolly:
You look down at the twisted wreck…you see yourself . It’s not moving, and it seems it never will again. How can this be? You remember the taste of your breakfast just moments ago.

[07:02] – The Grasp of Reality

Weston Jolly:
Your perspective changes again; you peek through the passenger window of your overturned car. There’s your phone, ringing beneath the seat, and you see the caller’s name flashing. Suddenly, it hits you: you’ll never be able to answer that phone again.

[07:28] – The Unsettling Question

Weston Jolly:
A voice from above asks, Who do you think you are? Instinctively, you respond with your name. The voice repeats, Who do you think you are? You wonder if this is a dream, feeling lost in time as you replay the whole incident in your mind.

[08:08] – The Revelation

Weston Jolly:
Am I dead? You feel quiet. You don’t know what to say. What does that voice mean? Silence fills you as you process everything.

[08:27] – Talking to the Forgotten

Weston Jolly:
I talk to dead people.
When a person dies, especially suddenly, they often have no idea they’ve passed on. Today, I’ll share insights from my 25 years of communicating with the deceased, including an experience I’ve never shared before. So pay attention.

[08:52] – The Shift After Death

Weston Jolly:
When someone dies, there’s an immediate change of perspective. Your beliefs may not matter in that moment. Instead, there’s an intense identity shift. This brings us back to the question: Who do you think you are? Initially, your personality remains intact-the way you spoke, processed thoughts, and perceived reality is all still there, but everything is about to change.

[09:20] – Perspectives on Death

Weston Jolly:
This change can profoundly affect your viewpoint. I want to discuss three perspectives today:
1. What it’s like from the dead’s viewpoint.
2. The desire to communicate with someone who’s died.
3. The experience of interacting with someone on the ‘living’ side.

[09:43] – The Concept of Time

Weston Jolly:
There is absolutely no time with death. This is why it’s hard to associate time when connecting with someone who has passed away.

[09:56] – The Tunnel of Light

Weston Jolly:
Another immediate sensation upon dying is often described as entering a tunnel of light. I want to explain what this tunnel signifies, its purpose, and how one might transition out of it.

[10:09] – Entering the Tunnel

Weston Jolly:
When people die, they frequently describe entering a tunnel–like a passageway. At the end of the tunnel is an incredibly bright light, symbolizing the transition for someone who has just passed.

[10:34] – The Levels of Transition

Weston Jolly:
There are many different levels of transition within the light tunnel-nothing to be seen as bad. Because there isn’t the notion of time, when someone passes, it may seem they should be immediately available for conversation. This can be true, but sometimes it’s not. For instance, if someone just passed last week and isn’t available, it’s not because I can’t connect; they’re simply swamped, going through the tunnel of light.

[11:01] – What Happens in the Tunnel?

Weston Jolly:
I want to discuss what they’re doing in this tunnel. Some individuals die and return, experiencing what we call a near-death experience, which is something to appreciate.

[11:19] – The Certainty of Death

Weston Jolly:
There’s a saying that “Nothing is certain except for death and taxes.” While death is inevitable, it’s not always certain as people can die and come back. Free will extends on both sides of life. This concept remains relevant when connecting with those who have passed; free will is significant in the tunnel of light as we begin to process who we are. This leads us back to the question: Who do you think you are?

[12:04] – Who Greets the Deceased?

Weston Jolly:
Who greets the newly departed? This process can take place right in the tunnel of light. Some people may perceive the presence of angels or recently departed loved ones like parents or grandparents, even animals. This environment is meant to invite and comfort.

[12:28] – A Personal Experience

Weston Jolly:
Reflecting back on the tunnel of light, there was an experience very real to me, reminiscent of the portal into death. Though I didn’t die, I felt something like that sensation. When we pass through the tunnel, there’s a euphoria, beauty, calmness, and connectedness.

[13:00] – The Transformative Sunset

Weston Jolly:
Strangely, there was a sunset while I was driving that felt different-a sunset so incredible, I thought, Am I dying? This sunset was so inviting, loving, and transformative that it felt like a transition into that portal of light.

[13:32] – The Pathway of Light

Weston Jolly:
This sunset invited us to let go of our embodiment, which isn’t typically desired. We are often greeted by significant individuals or events that help us progress down the light path, leading to what we call a life review.

[14:05] – Understanding Life Review

Weston Jolly:
From various perspectives, there exists a notion of a judgment day, but I want you to understand that there is no Judgment Day. Instead, there is a life review, which is fundamentally different from judgment.

[14:40] – Unconditional Love vs. Judgment

Weston Jolly:
In unconditional love, there is zero judgment. During a life review, you connect with every person and every event from your life. It’s about understanding your experiences comprehensively, feeling and observing your interactions.

[15:14] – The Comprehensive Nature of Life Review

Weston Jolly:
For example, even if you glanced at someone on a school bus, you can explore their thoughts and feelings leading up to that moment. This aspect of the life review is extensive and thorough.

[15:43] – The Challenge of Self-Judgment

Weston Jolly:
While it’s possible to judge oneself during this process, it shouldn’t necessarily be a matter of judgment. The life review happens in the tunnel of light, allowing movement based on our free-will choices.

[15:59] – Coming to Terms with Sudden Death

Weston Jolly:
Individuals who experience sudden death often struggle to believe they are dead. This is why the question Who do you think you are? is critical. The perceived self, known as the egoic self, relies on identifiers like body and name. However, upon passing, we must confront the reality that this isn’t truly who we are.

[17:05] – A Personal Encounter with the Deceased

Weston Jolly:
Let me share a personal experience with my first encounter with a deceased individual. It was someone I had a deep connection with, but I didn’t realize I was speaking with him at the time.

[17:29] – A Best Friend’s Departure
Weston Jolly:
My best friend, who had congenital heart defects since birth, unfortunately passed away. Due to unforeseen circumstances, I couldn’t attend his funeral. We were incredibly close, almost soul-connected.

[18:09] – Paying Respects
Weston Jolly:
One day, while driving in Scottsdale, I passed the mortuary where I knew he had been buried. It felt like the right time to pay my respects, so I stopped in, dressed in a nice shirt and tie, to find his burial plot. It was a scorching summer day, around 115 degrees, as I walked nearly an acre guided by a map given by the mortuary administrator.

[19:02] – An Unexpected Encounter
Weston Jolly:
Finally arriving at my friend’s burial site, I looked down at his name and suddenly heard a voice say, What the hell are you doing here?

[19:17] – A Surprising Message
Weston Jolly:
Not what I expected at all! He continued, Go to the car and I’ll talk to you there where it’s cooler.

[19:24] – A Dialog in the Car

Weston Jolly:
I had only been at the grave for a moment before hearing his voice. Drenched in sweat, I returned to my car, turned on the AC, and began a detailed conversation with my best friend. He provided clarity about what had taken place and shared insights about the other side.

[19:58] – Discovering the Gift

Weston Jolly:
This was years before I realized I had the ability to connect with the deceased through channeling. Reflecting back, this encounter marked my very first conversation with someone who had passed away, though I didn’t remember it clearly at the time.
[20:26] – A Visit from My Sister-in-Law
Weston Jolly:
The first person I remember talking to who was dead, very formally, was my sister-in-law. She died young due to an accident in a gym. She came to share with her sister, my wife, and they had a conversation for at least three hours. To be truthful, they were discussing things I had no physical understanding of, like two sisters talking about their lives.

[21:01] – Prophetic Insights

Weston Jolly:
While I was channeling, I was also auditing the process. My sister-in-law shared very prophetic insights about my future things I hadn’t even considered at that time, such as writing books and doing presentations. It was fascinating to hear her details, even if I hadn’t anticipated those choices for myself.

[21:37] – The Role of a Spiritual Medium

Weston Jolly:
Over the past 25 years as a spiritual channel and medium, I’ve encountered various situations involving those who have passed. I’ve had the unique chance to listen from two perspectives: that of the deceased and from those wanting to communicate with them.

[22:00] – A Mother Seeking Answers

Weston Jolly:
In one instance, a mother sought to understand why her son had taken his life. Experiencing such trauma, especially regarding suicide, is profoundly different in-person. While I haven’t experienced it physically, my esoteric gifts allow me access to such details, including the atmosphere and emotional weight of the situation.

[22:52] – The Son’s Message

Weston Jolly:
The young man wanted to communicate, not only with his mother but also with his father. Unfortunately, I only had the chance to connect with his mom. He wished to awaken both parents spiritually. Sadly, while his mother cared, his father dismissed the idea of connecting with the deceased, leading to a breakdown in their relationship.

[23:38] – The Emotional Weight of Suicide

Weston Jolly:
The situation emphasizes the emotional challenges parents face when learning about the actions their child took to create a spiritual awakening, especially regarding such a tragic event.

[25:03] – A Quest for Justice
Weston Jolly:
In another example, a policeman and his wife sought answers about their young daughter’s death. They wanted details to pursue justice against those responsible for the tragedy.

25:21] – Specific Clues from the Deceased**

Weston Jolly:
During the session, the little girl communicated details, like one of her missing shoes, which provided substantial clues for her parents about the circumstances surrounding her death-something I couldn’t have known without the spiritual channeling.

[26:48] – Tragedy of Addiction

Weston Jolly:
I also facilitated communication for a young man who had become addicted to heroin following a tragic football accident. He woke up the next day to find his best friend dead. The shock and guilt of being alive despite their shared experience weighed heavily on him, especially as he faced accusations from the deceased’s family.

[28:03] – Exploring the Nature of Death

Weston Jolly:
Here, the young man sought answers about his friend’s choice not to awaken, while the friend’s parents struggled to understand the nature of his passing. This scenario highlights the need for clarity around the circumstances of death.

[29:08] – A Hollywood Crime Investigation

Weston Jolly:
I had another inquiry from the romantic partner of a famous Hollywood crime investigator seeking clarity regarding his death and the deaths surrounding his investigations. This involved unpacking complex narratives, something I approached carefully.

[30:27] – A Mother’s Grieving Process

Weston Jolly:
In a different scenario, a mother sought to understand her son’s tragic suicide. Having attempted once before, his final act was methodically planned. She needed answers and connection, seeking to understand what transpired.

[31:27] – The Young Man’s Attempts to Communicate

Weston Jolly:
After his passing, the young man attempted to connect with his mother through phone calls that would ring without anyone on the line. During our session, I served as his voice, facilitating their communication and helping her find closure.

[31:27] – The Guilt of an Accident

Weston Jolly:
A woman sought my help after a tragic accident. While driving with her best friend, they were behind a U-Haul truck when the driver lost control, causing a high-speed collision. Although she walked away unharmed, her best friend did not survive, leaving her with overwhelming guilt and shame.

[32:45] – The Nature of Afterlife Communication

Weston Jolly:
Communication with the deceased is not just about closure regarding tragic events. Sometimes spirits want to facilitate growth and understanding for those left behind. However, it’s important to note that not every spirit wishes to guide the living. Many assume that once someone passes on, they will provide winning lottery numbers or similar guidance, but that expectation is unrealistic. The desire for ongoing relationships varies, as seen in my continuing connection with my best friend who passed away.

[33:50] – How Do the Dead Communicate?

Weston Jolly:
One of the most significant ways the deceased communicate with the living is through dreams. These dreams create a safe space for connection. I’ve encountered instances where spirits interact with their loved ones through lights flickering or phones ringing, subtle reminders that they’re still present. Music, too, serves as a bridge, with certain melodies triggering memories and emotions that connect us to those who have passed.

[34:54] – Unique Signs and Gestures

Weston Jolly:
Beyond dreams and music, communication can manifest through specific quirks or habits of the deceased. If someone had a unique laugh or a distinct way of moving, encountering similar traits in others can be a sign from them. Recognizing these cues can foster a deeper awareness and connection with spirits.

[36:01] – Helping Souls Transition

Weston Jolly:
An aspect of my work involves helping individuals prepare for death. While I don’t physically assist someone in leaving this realm, I do help facilitate their spiritual readiness to let go. This process is crucial for those who’ve struggled, particularly due to doctrinal beliefs that instill fear about death.

37:12] – A Case of Spiritual Relief **

Weston Jolly:
I was called to assist a man in hospice who had been there for eight years. His reluctance to let go stemmed from his upbringing, which instilled fear of eternal damnation. Through spiritual guidance and connection with him, I helped him understand that he could release his body without fear, easing his spirit for the transition.

[38:22] – Early Warnings of Mortality

Weston Jolly:
In some sessions, I’m able to provide insights into individuals nearing the end of their life journey. For example, a couple sought my guidance regarding the man’s post-rehab progress, and I had to inform him that he would die within a couple of months. He was shocked, but my role is to provide honest information for his benefit.

[39:27] – A Battle with Cancer

Weston Jolly:
Another woman faced a battle with cancer and sought my help multiple times. Initially, she found balance and relief from the disease, but during a subsequent session, I had to inform her that her body was at its end and that she had yet to confront deeper unresolved issues linked to her illness.
[41:40] – Understanding Recurring Challenges
Weston Jolly:
The reason the cancer returned not once, but twice, ultimately leading to her release, was because this woman never fully addressed certain intimate aspects within her relationships. Providing her with this insight earlier could have allowed her to process these feelings before passing through the portal of death. Unfortunately, she did not choose to confront these issues, not a good or a bad decision, just a part of her journey.

[42:41] – The Concept of the Portal

Weston Jolly:
When we approach death, whether someone is transitioning or not, a portal begins to open. This can be likened to a cervix during childbirth, as the physical body prepares for a new journey. Spiritually, it resembles the iris of an eye, which opens to allow the passage of the soul. This portal expands as we approach death, leading to profound experiences, especially for those having near-death experiences, where they face the choice of returning to their physical bodies or moving on.

[43:57] – The Choice to Return

Weston Jolly:
Some individuals who’ve undergone traumatic experiences, such as severe accidents, may look at their charred bodies and wonder why they would choose to go back. Yet, they make the spiritual choice to return because they feel they have unfinished business. It’s imperative to understand that our beliefs don’t hold weight once we pass; what matters is the choice made at that moment.

[45:10] – Spiritual Assistance in Transition

Weston Jolly:
As someone prepares to leave this world, spiritual assistance is abundant, much like a loving guide welcoming a newborn. This support is both from energies in the spirit world and those in our lives, further easing the transition through the portal. The experience can be beautifully liberating as one begins to understand the process of letting go.

[46:23] – Ways to Connect with the Deceased

Weston Jolly:
If you seek a connection with yourself or a loved one who has passed, there are numerous ways to facilitate that interaction. I’ve designed a course called Secrets of Free Writing , focusing on automatic writing, which allows deeper insights beyond your conscious thoughts. This meditative practice engages your higher self, promoting meaningful connections and messages.

[47:32] – The Process of Dying: A Deeper Understanding

Weston Jolly:
Many people wonder what actually happens when you die. I propose a follow-up discussion titled I’m Dead, Now What? Where we explore the details of the tunnel of light and the common experiences associated with it. Gaining this understanding can enrich your current life, changing the way you live and perceive your connections with the world.

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Sometimes the hardest thing in the world is to actually see yourself. You may have taken personality tests, apptitude tests, and maybe you’ve wondered if your neudivergent?  But if you were to know anybody, it would seem logical that you’d know everything about yourself.

How you think, process, socialize, rationalize may not be nearly as important as getting in touch with your Higher Self.

Almost everyone THINKS they know themselves.  But you don’t. Have you ever had a close friend tell you something about yourself that you didn’t know?  There’s a lot to uncover in getting to know your real self.

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Transcription: Know Thyself

[00:50.370] – Weston Jolly
Hi there. Thank you for joining me for True Connections with Weston Jolly. This is our 77th episode. Today, I want to talk about you. Our topic which is Know Thyself.

[01:05.480] – Weston Jolly
The biggest treasure you’ve yet undiscovered.

[01:09.120] – Weston Jolly
Now, you would think with the topic as knowing yourself, that if anyone in the world were to know who you are, it would be you, right? So isn’t it logical that you would know quite a bit about yourself? So if I asked your name, of course, you would give me that. Your height? Sure. What about your weight? Without looking at a scale. Can you tell me what your weight is?

[01:36.140] – Weston Jolly
Now, again, our whole intention is to have an understanding of who we are, to know ourselves. And we use all kinds of means to do that. When we think of, for example, becoming aware of who we are, sometimes we’ll use maybe something like a personality test. A personality test can tell us different kinds of things. It can tell us maybe that we have that we’re a conscientious person, or maybe that you’re agreeable, maybe neurotic, or open, or extroverted, or introverted. Do you associate with any of these top characteristics of having a big personality?

[02:23.910] – Weston Jolly
Does anything resonate within you?

[02:26.300] – Weston Jolly
But why would we need to have a personality test? Because, again, you would know who you are.

[02:31.990] – Weston Jolly
If we shifted our attention over to an aptitude test, which, of course, is showing us what strengths and weaknesses that we have, wouldn’t it be logical, again, that you would know that you are very good, athletically, and maybe smart as a whip, intellectually, and yet maybe have some other pieces that aren’t necessarily strengths as would be determined or measured by other people?

[02:58.440] – Weston Jolly
Now, in a work environment, being tested for your aptitude is quite common, right? Where a prospective employer wants to have an understanding of how you work, basically how you process and how you’ll work within their organization. And so they offer aptitude tests such as; numerical reasoning or verbal reasoning or situational judgment, cognitive abilities and spatial awareness and mechanical reasoning and abstract reasoning and verbal reasoning and on and on it goes to find out, again, what your strengths and weaknesses are. But my point is, do you know these things about yourself? Again, we’re just talking about the physical.

[03:33.920] – Weston Jolly
If we talk about your mind, how your mind processes, would you consider yourself to have a normal mind? That sounds like a leading question, right?

[03:45.550] – Weston Jolly
But maybe you have a neurodivergent mind. Now, that means that maybe you think differently. Sometimes ithe term neurodivergent we give consideration to other categories such as; autism spectrum disorder, or maybe even other categories such as attention deficit hyper activities for ADHD. And yet that’s not really what I’m asking. But if that’s something that is appropriate to who you are, that’s something to know.

[04:15.750] – Weston Jolly
As a quick side note, there is someone that shared with me actually a neurodivergent synopsis of who they are. They literally handed out a little a brief of how they think, socialize and process. Now, not many of us have done that. I don’t know if you walked into your job recently and handed them a little document, a little manifest in terms of how you operate.

[04:41.700] – Weston Jolly
I’m not talking about how much you weigh. I’m talking about how you think or how you get along with other people, what people you like, what energies that you bring to the office and what energies that aren’t necessarily great energies.

[04:51.900] – Weston Jolly
Are these things that you’re able to see of your own self? Now, we’re still talking about the physical. If we talk about, again, your body type, that should be easy, right?

[05:03.290] – Weston Jolly
How would you describe your body type? Are you an ectomorph or mesomorph or an endomorph? And of course, these are just very interesting terms for someone that is maybe thinner as an ectomorph to someone maybe that is a little bit thicker in the endomorph category. But again, these body types, just those three categories, should be easy for you to determine where you fit.

[05:26.500] – Weston Jolly
But then there’s the shape of your body, right? You could be triangular shaped or rectangular-shaped or oval-shaped, hourglass, etc. Do you know that about yourself? Have you given consideration to that?

[05:39.310] – Weston Jolly
And if I ask a question about your blood type… Do you know your blood type? Are you “A” or a “B” or “B-”?

[05:50.790] – Weston Jolly
Let’s continue shifting this discussion, of knowing yourself, a little bit towards the spiritual. What if I asked you your birth date? Clearly everyone knows their birth date, but maybe you don’t know what time you were born. And that could make a difference when you were looking at your astrological sign.

[06:06.730] – Weston Jolly
And so if we looked at different astrological signs, such as Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, etc, we want to give you an opportunity through these categorizations to have an understanding of who you are.

[06:21.550] – Weston Jolly
This is all about knowing who you are. But if you have used tools such as maybe Astrology to to reflect back to who you are, there’s something else to give consideration to, and that is, are you accepting what is being shared? That’s really big. That’s something we’re going to talk about in a half a moment.

[06:39.190] – Weston Jolly
As an example, if you are… I’ll use myself –a Gemini. When I first read the about my astrological sign, and I’m talking about when I did this upteen years ago, some pieces of it made sense to me, and the other pieces I felt like it was an over generalization. Now, that was my initial consideration. I wasn’t trying to be prejudiced against the process. I just didn’t necessarily see the depth of things that were being shared.

[07:07.570] – Weston Jolly
Some of the concepts about my personality or how I process or how I view things made sense. And yet I was curious. And so I shared this, my astrology synopsis about the whole Gemini Kingdom, if you will, with others around me, especially with those close to me to see what they thought.

[07:33.170] – Weston Jolly
And of course, my children and even my partner confirmed that, “Oh, yeah, these things are really you!” And I was like, “Really? I’m really having a hard time seeing that about myself.”

[07:42.740] – Weston Jolly
This is really what we want what I want to focus on with you today. And while we’ve been talking about things from body to mind to aptitudes, and how you process, we haven’t talked about how you socialize, blood types, astrological signs, these are all beautiful characteristics of you.

[08:01.370] – Weston Jolly
You becoming aware of who you are and what you’ve come here to express. Yet there’s so much more. And really, what I want to put our emphasis is on getting to know or maybe even rediscovering. This is why I’m sharing that this is the biggest treasure yet you’ve undiscovered, is getting in touch with your True Self or your Higher Self. And what does this mean? Sometimes that language is thrown about a little bit in terms of what is your Higher Self. So let’s discuss that. Your Higher Self is indeed this soul, that’s you, on the highest plane, coming into this embodiment and participating here. So if we tap into that, your Higher Self, should we say that’s the true essence?

[08:39.340] – Weston Jolly
That part of you is filled with knowledge, and I’ll use the term perfect knowledge of who you are way beyond your DNA, your family tree, your body type, your blood type, etc. Again, all of these pieces physically are, I like to use the term Hansel and Gretel-like-breadcrumbs, leading you to an understanding of you are.

[09:05.150] – Weston Jolly
So, to know yourself, is to really become aware of who you are – instead of just trying to give consideration to what you may or may not be. So, you getting to know yourself beyond the physical is intentional with our putting focus attention on your Higher Self or your Real Self. And we can do that through many different ways. There are tools, and one of the best tools that I’ve given consideration to that came to me falling in my lap was automatic writing. I feel so strongly about it that I put forth a course called Secrets of Free Writing. I really encourage you, if you are interested in this topic of really knowing thyself, that automatic writing or Secrets of Free Writing is a tremendous tool to do that.

[09:49.070] – Weston Jolly
Now, there’s a whole bunch of information on my website about Automatic Writing, and please go there because it’s worthy of your attention. I’m saying that not just because of my own experience, but because it offers you a continued reflection. Think of it like Meditating With a Pen(tm) , where you’re literally in this meditative space choosing to get in touch with your Higher Self, and you’re able to capture that through your writing.

[10:14.870] – Weston Jolly
If that’s something that does resonate with you, please check out Secrets of Freewriting

[10:24.890] – Weston Jolly
There are indeed other tools for you to get connected with your Higher Self. Some people may choose to use a tool such as yoga. And yoga is a very interesting tool because it keeps, in my opinion, your body busy in a very healthy way. It really instructs you through focused attention to breathe, which is a source, pun intended, of connecting with your higher self. And as you choose to remain connected to your higher self, you have an opportunity to, again, capture what I will reflect as the real you. Now, sometimes this feels out of sorts with those things that you have incarnated into.

[11:08.190] – Weston Jolly
There are plenty of people that have come into this realm and they look at their bodies and perhaps even their gender, and they wonder that maybe they made a mistake. Maybe their sexual affiliation being presented as male feels wrong when they feel within themselves that they should be female. And so they go to great lengths to make those changes, appropriately so, because this is something that they feel within themselves that needs to be aligned.

[11:33.440] – Weston Jolly
And of course, as you know that, it’s really giving yourself the tremendous gift. Think of the energy that it takes to have somebody go through such a transition where they feel comfortable enough to make that change within their physical embodiment to create an alignment with their spiritual self. I honor each and every person that gives themselves permission to exist regardless of how it might be considered from the outside.

[12:08.100] – Weston Jolly
Now, it’s not just about your body or your sexual orientation. Sometimes this means realizing where you come from in terms of the family tree, even right down to your, again, blood type or your DNA. Having an understanding that these things that make you look like Mom and Dad, or even the characteristics that were taught to you by Mom and Dad, and the community, that they may not be you.

[12:33.450] – Weston Jolly
It takes a brave soul, if I can use that term, to give themselves permission to see that, and to know that about themselves, and to make those changes. These changes come about through free-will choice, which is really incredible if we give consideration to that, that there’s endless possibilities for you to give yourself permission to really exist as you are.

[12:54.690] – Weston Jolly
Again, as a conscious being, and I want that to be understood because There’s no other species on Earth that has to deal with this. Other animals, if you will, don’t have to try to manage themselves. They are, if you will, a giraffe, a dog, or a cat, or a lion. These attributes aren’t necessarily something that needs to be worked at. And yet sometimes people, when they come to an understanding of having awareness of who they are, the question that they might present, and I hear a lot, they’ll ask the question, “Well, how do I be myself?”

[13:33.440] – Weston Jolly
That comes immediately after the discovery of who you are. In your choice to see yourself as you are through automatic writing or perhaps yoga, breathing, meditation, as we’ve talked about for a moment, these are tremendous tool presenting you total access to yourself.

[13:51.760] – Weston Jolly
This can be through guided meditation as well, where someone would guide you, perhaps through a recording, to have you be presented with questions like.

[14:00.500] – Weston Jolly
Who are you?

[14:02.840] – Weston Jolly
What have you come to express?

[14:06.510] – Weston Jolly
And as you give attention to this reflection, whether it’s coming through someone like myself, or through automatic writing, or again, yoga, or meditative state, you have an opportunity to accept that, which is something really, really important because guess what?

[14:20.100] – Weston Jolly
The mind or the egoic parts of you, that’s the part that wants to deny, right? That’s the part that wants to shift or push aside that this isn’t true. And yet when you channel or you participate in this consistently, you’ll find that some really beautiful attributes continue to show themselves.

[14:38.750] – Weston Jolly
Let me share with you this example. I was facilitating a woman, and I channeled that she was “beautiful”. Now, it wasn’t just a adjective that was being channeled to describe her physical beauty. It was describing something much deeper than that. And she had a significant resistance to the word. And she even asked me as the person facilitating, “Could there be another word, beyond being called ”beautiful” that could be used?

[15:04.576]
I laughed and I said, “No, that’s actually the word that is being chosen, that I’m channeling the word ‘beautiful’ because of your resistance to it.”

[15:15.490] – Weston Jolly
And she said, “I feel irritated with that word.” And I said, “I understand. And if you force me to use another word, I can. However, from a spiritual perspective, from a pure channeling perspective, that is indeed the correct term. And then she bent a little bit and said, ”I understand.”

[15:35.790] – Weston Jolly
And in this example, she was resisting what we’ll call her spiritual or inner luminescence. Now, she was indeed a beautiful woman, but she wasn’t necessarily seen as a beautiful woman from the inside. A lot of times people saw her external beauty and that was fine. But she was trying or wanting or hoping to give herself permission to have access to something greater. But yet she was denying that.

[16:02.930] – Weston Jolly
I’m sharing this example because that’s something for each of us to give consideration to, because sometimes when we get to know who we really are, we’ll tend to reject it. We can do that when we jump on a scale. We can reject the idea that we weigh that much or we weigh that little. But we don’t want to do that when we really tap into knowing who we are.

[16:23.500] – Weston Jolly
And if we’re using spirit, tapping into Source in whatever infinite ways that you want to have access to, then you’re going to find that they’re very consistent in showing you some really specific things about who you are.

[16:33.060] – Weston Jolly
So if Source is sharing with you that “you’re very loving,” please don’t roll your eyes yeah, all right, whatever. And yet that’s, again, this part of the resistance. We don’t want to do that. In fact, that’s the part most of all that we want to give attention to, focus attention. As we continue to accept that, you’re going to bounce into some really cool things that could be described as uncomfortable as I was mentioning.

[16:59.900] – Weston Jolly
But I’m encouraging for you to accept everything and to stop denying or pushing away the truth. And some of these concepts are as easy as having an understanding of some basic attributes of what you’ve come here to do. Now, again, in this realm, this physical realm of coming to Earth as an incarnate being, not everyone’s choosing to do something that would be transformative from a low level to a higher level.

[17:25.560] – Weston Jolly
There’s plenty of people who are coming to this realm just to participate, like an actor who is acting the part of being somebody who’s “mean or behaviorally maladjusted,” or wanting to take advantage of people or maybe wanting to cheat or steal or even worse. And for those these things are fine. That’s just a part of this realm.

[17:47.920] – Weston Jolly
But if there’s some part of you that has been searching or needing or wanting to discover, again, who you are, again, beyond the physical, then this is that place to really jump into who you are. And seeing that and feeling that and having recognition. So let me share some of those things with you because it’s very important.

[18:06.730] – Weston Jolly
Do you see yourself as loving?

– Weston Jolly
Don’t just hear the sentence. Feel it.

– Weston Jolly
Are you compassionate?

– Weston Jolly
Are you sensitive?

– Weston Jolly
How do things affect you?

[18:22.730] – Weston Jolly
Whether that’s personal to you, that’s your own body, or even outside of your own body. Somebody could sneeze on a plane and it could affect you. Again, there’s no right or wrong answer here, right? But as you choose to really get in touch with who you are, your Higher Self, you’ll find that there’s really beautiful pieces that, again, continue to be seen again and again.

[18:45.760] – Weston Jolly
So if you find that you have a deep compassion for people, or animals, or even the environment, there’s reasons for that. And when you align with that, meaning to know that about yourself, it isn’t an oddity –like a salmon swimming upstream.

[19:05.340] – Weston Jolly
That species is designed to do that for very specific reasons of spawning. But if we understand what we are in terms of who we really are on this soul level, in this Higher Self level, as we participate in the physical level, it becomes easier. Now, this becomes even funner when we tap into how we want to express ourselves.

[19:26.560] – Weston Jolly
Now, when that becomes aligned, meaning when we align ourselves in terms of who we are, and we align that with something that we’ve come here to really want to express, such as a desire, oh, my gosh, it becomes easy. You’ll find that if you study and put attention to this, that those people who are expressing and really good at it, whether that being an actor or a singer or maybe even spiritually inclined, that there’s an alignment to that, meaning that’s really who they are, and then they’re matching that with this choice to express.

[19:57.440] – Weston Jolly
In essence, it becomes easy. That’s something not as a spiritual aptitude test that you want to give yourself, but you want to remember, as you incorporate that into your physical self, it creates an ease, a comfort, a beauty.

[20:12.700] – Weston Jolly
Ultimately, there’s no resistance. And even someone recognizing that as a tremendous aptitude that you have or this gift of you being very loving or maybe extraordinarily compassionate with animals such as a veterinarian. Those attributes are, of course, spiritual applied from the physical perspective, and that’s match, we can feel that.

[20:31.100] – Weston Jolly
If you have talked to a veterinarian who’s participating in that career, you’ll feel unduly connected to them versus someone who’s just doing time and wanting to help the pet, your pet, and of course, in exchange for money. But most of us who are very connected to our animals will want someone that wants to take care of our pets and animals the same way that we do, which is through love… Then we’re not just feeding or taking care of a pet for the pet’s sake. We’re choosing to participate in a way that’s very aligned with our wanting to share love, even with the animal kingdom; our dog, cat, horse, hamster, rat, or even a lizard.

[21:15.070] – Weston Jolly
It’s really exciting to understand, again, who you are and what you come to express. And these expressions, physically and spiritually, if you choose, can be aligned. So let’s go into that just a little bit. If you find yourself very compassionate and very loving, and yet you are participating in something like telemarketing, where that entity is designed to consciously take advantage of people through that effort, you may find that to be difficult.

[21:43.780] – Weston Jolly
And it could even cause physical issues within your body, which is your body saying, “Hey, this doesn’t match. We have an imbalance.” The spiritual self is saying, “This is outside of what we really want to do.” And yet the body is saying, “Hey, we need to be paid because we need to live, we need to have food, etc. and we’re doing what we have to do.” And yet, there is a fundamental conflict. And that can come in many different forms. And yet when we choose to see that we can create alignment outside of any limitation, which, of course, comes from the mind or the ego. Again, I use the term shell. When I use the term Shell, I want you to think of eggshell.

[22:18.980] – Weston Jolly
It’s this external piece that we think that we are, and that comes from the mind. Interestingly enough, we can’t point to that within the mind body. Where the ego exists and where it doesn’t exist. And yet each of us have an ego. This is why we use the name, your name.

[22:39.380] – Weston Jolly
But when we go beyond beyond this thing that we call a name, which is easy to reflect, we tie or are connected to this spiritual essence. And this spiritual essence is much more powerful than, if you will, my name or your name. And when we tap into that, it creates an attraction to us. And of course, that attraction is beyond in this physical lifetime.

[23:01.570] – Weston Jolly
So you won’t forget me, in afterlife, if you will, because of my spiritual signature. Now, that’s a vibration. That’s something that is tied to my name in this incarnation. And this same spiritual signature has been used in previous incarnations. I have had different names, different bodies, different genders, perhaps. Certainly different lineages in terms of the family. And yet, how can I do that? How can I participate in lineage one and be this character or this person and then come here again in a second reincarnation, in a third incarnation?

[23:37.440] – Weston Jolly
Yet this is all a part of us wanting to get to know who we are on a very connected level.

[23:45.190] – Weston Jolly
Now, to do that, to really connect, and we’ve been using, talking about these different tools, again, Secrets of Freewriting, automatic writing, and yoga breathing, meditation, all of these tools are really offering you an opportunity to go within. When we tap into that connected with in state, again, we’ll find that there’s consistency in showing us who we are.

[24:06.380] – Weston Jolly
Now, sometimes that can be very challenging because if you’re told that “you’re very loving,” and that’s in conflict to what your mom and dad told you that you weren’t or aren’t… And in my case, if you’re told you’re too loving –imagine that —someone telling you that you’re too loving, then that can create a conflict.

[24:24.130] – Weston Jolly
It’s just a conflict to your mind or that condition that you grew up with. This is something that we want to observe, but not be, shall we say, overly attached to.

[24:37.090] – Weston Jolly
We want to go past that. Giving yourself permission to tap into your Higher Self, your True Self, is to really know who you are. It’s the biggest treasure yet undiscovered. As you spend time in this space, which is just basically focused attention, and you can do that just by holding an attention right now –“I choose to know who I am.”

[25:00.600] – Weston Jolly
When you choose that, you’ll hear words from Source like; “Creator” or “love,” you may bump into the competitive mind, again, coming from the shell or the ego. But in time, this conflict will begin to diminish. In fact, you’ll find yourself moving into, we could use the term a divine state. We could also use the terms a connected state, a unifying state, and even a state of oneness.

[25:29.530] – Weston Jolly
This connected state, is something that’s very consistent, regardless of your background, regardless of where in the world that you’ve come from, regardless of a philosophy that you’ve been exposed to from a condition perspective. This oneness is what brings us together. And this is why this is so important for you to give yourself permission to really see who you are, to get in touch with your Higher Self.

[25:54.320] – Weston Jolly
And you can just ask a question, What is my Higher Self? What does it have to say? In this moment, give consideration to what your Higher Self wants to tell you?

[26:06.740] – Weston Jolly
Or like Hansel and Gretel follow the bread trail leading you to have further personal development of who you are. Be attentive to these things, your personality, your weight, your body type, these pieces, the way you think, the way you process, even the way your mind processes. It’s all beautiful clues.

[26:33.950] – Weston Jolly
Some of what you may find won’t be in spiritual alignment with who you are. This part of the puzzle won’t fit. When that’s happening, instead of trying to force a puzzle piece, we want to observe the fact that I am not thinking the way everyone else is thinking, even though my whole family thinks that way.

[26:43.930] – Weston Jolly
I choose to give myself permission to observe that I’m neurodivergent compared to my family. And that’s okay. That means I’m just thinking differently than my family does. And that’s maybe a good thing. And if we see that you don’t have to fight with that, then we are able to accept who you really are.

[27:04.730] – Weston Jolly
And again, that’s a very key term. So you being in comfortable to accept who you are through this reflection of your Higher Self, that’s what this is all about.

[27:15.950] – Weston Jolly
Put focused attention on you becoming aware of what your Higher Self and what it wants to reflect to you. Be attentive to that. Write it down. Do that now.

[27:26.720] – Weston Jolly
If you’re listening to this in a car, fine. When you get home, take a moment, breathe. Become connected, ask, “What is it that my Higher Self wants to tell me in this particular moment?”

[27:39.310] – Weston Jolly
That’s a question I’m asked often, especially by my family members, because there’s an interest for that reflection to be shown to them again and again. When you’re asking questions like that, and when you’re putting focused attention on seeing your Higher Self, you’ll find that there is a pattern.

[27:53.610] – Weston Jolly
This is when all the puzzle pieces start to come together. This is why I say that it’s easy. Suddenly there’s an a sense of understanding of what you’ve come to express, and that when that coincides with the physical pieces, then your claim your choice to physically express becomes really wonderful and quite easy and fun.

[28:11.280] – Weston Jolly
I hope this has been tremendously beneficial to you to give yourself permission to really know who you are.

[28:16.140] – Weston Jolly
This is the biggest treasure yet undiscovered, and so giving your attention to it is without merit in terms of what it will do for you.

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