Trust The Process Podcast

Trust The Process Podcast

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  • EP:023 - ASMR, Losing kids in public places, Being a decent human, Myspace & Photobucket, and finding a hairstylist you trust!

    Summary:

    In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss their dislike for ASMR videos and their fascination with watching young girls on social media. They also talk about their experiences with makeup and receiving PR packages. Sav shares her recent experience at a hair salon and Jess talks about her daughter's dental appointments. Sav and Jess discuss their childhood experiences with orthodontists and reminisce about getting braces. They also talk about their children growing up in a different technological era and how they are more advanced than they were at their age. They mention their experiences with MySpace and the difficulty of accessing their old accounts. They then transition to discussing the latest episode of The Bachelorette and share their thoughts on the contestants. They also talk about the TV shows Lost and Heroes. Lastly, they mention getting their hair done and the importance of finding a backup hairstylist. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss the strong connections they form with their clients as hairstylists. They talk about the different phases of life they go through with their clients, from breakups to marriages to pregnancies. They emphasize the importance of trust and the role of a hairstylist as a listener and sometimes even a therapist. They also touch on the topic of child safety and the importance of teaching children to seek help from trustworthy individuals in case they get separated from their parents.


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    1 hr 12 min
  • EP022- He peaked in 2nd Grade, Sex in Relationships, The Bachelorette, & Fiancé Genitalia.

    Summary:

    In this episode, Sav is BACK! Jess and Sav catch up on their lives and discuss various topics, including dental procedures, childhood memories, their experiences with substances, and their fears of jumping out of a plane. They also celebrate Sav's recent award!

    They chat about relationships, amusement park experiences, The Bachelorette, and tampons. They discuss their experiences with relationships and the importance of finding someone who supports and loves them.

    Sav's mom's accidentally sending a screenshot of her fiance's genitalia to the family, the strict rules about dog poop in Sav's friend's apartment complex, and the challenges Sav is facing with her landlord and the lack of privacy in her current living situation. They also touch on the frequency of sex in relationships and the importance of communication and understanding each other's needs.


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    1 hr 11 min
  • EP:021 - Jess & Tim Solo Episode! Why we fell in Love, The Future of our Relationship, Our Biggest Fears and Relationship Triggers.

    *Congrats Sav & Indigo Hair Studio on winning Best of Rhode Island's East Bay Color Specialists! *


    Summary:

    This week, Jess and Tim have a solo episode where they answer relationship-focused questions. They discuss their love for each other, their fears in the relationship, moments of vulnerability, and triggers.

    They talk about trust, personal phone calls, and their future together. They also share their appreciation for each other and talk about their favorite moments in their relationship. The conversation ends with a mention of a local hair studio that they recommend.


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    1 hr 7 min
  • EP:020- OUR best friend's Ex, Skorts, Respecting boundaries, Breakups, Bosses, & Dealing with neighbors.

    Summary:

    In this episode, Sav and Jess catch up on their day and discuss various topics, including family outings, shopping, personal milestones, and annoying neighbors. They also mention upcoming plans, such as a trip to Hershey Park. They chat about political divisions, The Bachelorette, and Love Island and share their thoughts on the show.

    They discuss bosses confessing their love to employees, having sex with exes, and dealing with the aftermath of a breakup, overstimulation, and a discussion about an 'Am I the Asshole' situation involving a Muslim woman asking her friend to take down bachelorette party photos.


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    1 hr 17 min
  • EP:019- Baby daddy texts, A kayak fiasco, Love Island, Meat allergies, Ticks & Finding healing and strength as a single mother.

    Summary:


    ** Trigger warning** There is mention of Sexual Assault in this episode.

    This episode Jess & Sav are going deeper! Finally, the long awaited "Baby Daddy" origin story!

    They discuss Jess's past relationship with her daughter's father, and recalls the night when everything started. Jess reflects on the manipulative and hurtful behavior of her baby daddy and how it has affected her. She also discusses the possibility of him wanting to be involved in their child's life in the future.

    They reflect on the lack of remorse and responsibility shown by the sperm donor and the impact it has had on Jess's life. Despite the trauma, Jess has found healing and strength in her journey as a mother. They also discuss the importance of keeping records and documentation in situations like these. Overall, the conversation highlights the resilience and growth that Jess has experienced throughout her journey.


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    1 hr 27 min
  • EP018- Struggles of living alone, Nick Cannon, OnlyFans, Bridal Showers & Sav's Salon updates.

    Summary:

    In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss various topics including Katie's bridal shower, dental issues, books, music, and upcoming plans. They also talk about the importance of friendships and shared experiences. Sav expresses her gratitude for having her friend Jen back in her life and the joy of experiencing moments with someone else. They also touch on the challenges of introducing their dogs to each other.

    They touch on other various topics, including the dominance of dogs, the challenges of living alone, giving cell phones to kids, and famous people joining OnlyFans to sell pictures of their feet. Sav finds herself in a Google search results, business awards, parenting, and nudity around children.

    They express their concerns about the potential consequences of having an OnlyFans account and the impact it could have on their children's lives. They also discuss the challenges and rewards of being self-made business owners. The conversation then shifts to Nick Cannon and his 12 children with multiple women, and the question of how involved he is in their lives. They also touch on the topic of nudity around children and the age at which it becomes inappropriate. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav reflect on their personal growth and the support they've received from their listeners. They discuss their favorite TV shows and plan to share embarrassing dating stories from their audience in the next episode.


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

    00:34 Celebrating Milestones and Making Memories

    06:51 The Power of Friendship

    09:28 Exploring New Music

    15:50 Attending Levitate Music Festival

    21:56 The Importance of Shared Experiences

    22:48 Considering Living Arrangements

    23:15 The Aggression of Female Dogs

    23:18 The Dynamics of Dog Dominance

    25:29 The Challenges of Living Alone

    31:18 Bounce Houses and Family Fun

    33:33 The Controversy of Children and Cell Phones

    44:13 Lily Allen and the Rise of OnlyFans

    45:52 Nick Cannon's Insured Testicles and Co-Parenting Challenges

    54:33 The Controversy of Nudity: Jenna Bush Hager's Perspective

    01:00:18 Parenting Boys vs. Girls: Different Experiences and Challenges

    01:06:41 The Importance of Empathy in Parenting

    01:07:30 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Listener Support

    01:19:29 TV Shows and Documentaries: Recommendations and Discussion

    01:23:17 Calling for Embarrassing Dating Stories from the Audience

    01:27:34 podcast intro1.mp4


    1 hr 28 min
  • EP017: Listener Topics, Root Canals, Co-Parenting & Billing for playdates

    Summary:

    In this episode, Sav was missing due to being a bomb boss working babe, so Tim stepped in as the resident understudy! They discuss various topics, including TV shows, listener topics, step-parent boundaries, root canals, and therapy. They share their thoughts and experiences on each topic, providing insights and personal anecdotes. The conversation touches on the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of communication, and the dynamics of step-parenting. They also discuss the idea of billing for playdates and the pressure of time in relation to having children. Overall, the conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with both Jess and Tim sharing their perspectives. In this conversation, Jess and Seth discuss various topics including boundaries, gender identity, love languages, and overstimulation. They explore the dynamics of their relationship and how they navigate different situations. They also express gratitude for their listeners and encourage them to leave a five-star review and share the podcast with others.


    Takeaways:

    Sweet Tooth on Netflix is recommended as a binge-worthy show

    Step-parent boundaries can be challenging, especially when both parents are involved

    Root canals can be painful and require specialized treatment

    It is important to avoid badmouthing the other parent in front of the child

    Therapy can be beneficial for improving communication and resolving issues

    Billing for playdates can be seen as inappropriate and may strain relationships

    The pressure of time can be felt more by women when it comes to having children Setting and respecting boundaries is important in a relationship

    Understanding and accepting different gender identities is crucial

    Adapting love languages to meet your partner's needs can strengthen the relationship

    Managing overstimulation and finding coping mechanisms is essential

    Expressing gratitude for listeners and encouraging support

    1 hr 8 min
  • EP016-Bachelorette Weekend, Jess's marital status, Societal Expectations & The pressures of Motherhood.

    Summary:

    In this episode Jess and Sav discuss their recent bachelorette party weekend and reflect on their experiences. They talk about recovering from the weekend, their social batteries, and the fun activities they did. They also mention the challenges of being in a predominantly white area and the importance of respecting dress codes. Overall, they had a great time and enjoyed the company of their friends. In this part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss their experience on a boat cruise and their thoughts on the TV show Perfect Match. They also talk about their plans for future cruises and their preferences for cremation over traditional burial. They share their perspectives on the cost of funerals and the idea of affordable afterlife options. The conversation ends with Jess addressing rumors about her marital status. In this conversation, Sav and Jess discuss the different types of moms and the pressures of motherhood. They talk about feeling the need to constantly be in contact with their children and the guilt that comes with being away from them. They also discuss feeling pressured by societal expectations and the added pressure of being a black mother. They share personal experiences and reflect on the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.


    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Recovery

    02:50 Activities: Picnic, Photoshoot, Pool Party, Baywatch Cruise, Bike Ride

    08:01 Challenges in a Predominantly White Area

    15:48 Addressing Inappropriate Behavior

    20:30 Fun Times on a Boat Cruise

    22:20 Binge-Watching Perfect Match

    26:36 Reflections on Father's Day

    28:33 Thoughts on Cremation and Afterlife Options

    32:54 Addressing Marital Status Rumors

    38:00 Different Types of Moms

    44:30 Feeling Pressured by Motherhood

    47:01 The Added Pressure of Being a Black Mother

    49:18 The Fear of Not Doing Enough

    52:04 Proud Moments as a Mom

    56:00 Navigating the Pressures of Business and Personal Life

    01:01:58 Lighthearted Banter and Reminders

    01:02:24 podcast intro1.mp4




    1 hr 3 min
  • EP015-TikTok Cults, Aaron Carter, Reevaluating Dating, and Supporting Gender Identity

    Summary

    In this episode, Jess and Sav catch up on recent events in their lives. Sav shares about her friend's injury and the challenges she's facing at work.

    They talk about Sav's emotional journey after her breakup and her evolving perspective on dating. They emphasize the importance of self-empowerment, setting boundaries in relationships, the vocabulary of high school students, categorizing people as rats or frogs, their busy schedules, and their thoughts on the Aaron Carter documentary.

    They share their experiences and observations, providing insights into their lives and perspectives, conspiracy theories, documentaries, parenting opinions, and school policies regarding gender identity.

    They discuss their skepticism towards certain conspiracy theories and their belief in the authenticity of the documentaries they've watched. They also share their parenting opinions, expressing that they prioritize their children's happiness and well-being over academic achievements.

    They express their support for their children's choices and emphasize the importance of open-mindedness and acceptance. They discuss the importance of prioritizing their children's safety and well-being, the need to allow children to make their own decisions and have their own opinions, even if they differ from their parents'.

    They also touch on the topic of dating and how to let someone down gently.

    The conversation concludes with their excitement for Katie's upcoming bachelorette party and Sav's salon winning a Best of Rhode Island award.


    Takeaways

    • Work emergencies can disrupt schedules and require support from colleagues.
    • Injuries can have a significant impact on individuals and their ability to work and contribute to their households.
    • Attending events after a breakup can bring up mixed emotions, but having supportive friends can help navigate those feelings.
    • Dating after a breakup involves reevaluating what one wants and needs in a partner and being open to new experiences.
    • It's important to communicate expectations and boundaries in relationships to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Setting boundaries, especially in a work setting, can be challenging but is important for personal well-being.
    • Teenagers' language and vocabulary can be frustrating for adults, but it's important to remember generational differences.
    • Categorizing people as rats or frogs based on their appearance can be a humorous way to observe and discuss physical traits.
    • Grocery delivery experiences can be frustrating and may not always go as planned.
    • The start of summer break can be overwhelming for parents, and finding time for self-care is crucial.
    • Pets' health issues can be stressful and require attention and care.
    • The Aaron Carter documentary sheds light on the impact of family dynamics on mental health and the importance of believing survivors of abuse. The speakers express skepticism about certain events and question the nature of humanity.
    • They prioritize passion and effort over academic achievement.
    • They are open-minded and accepting of their children's gender identity and sexual orientation.
    • They have concerns about schools providing medical treatments without parental consent. Respect your children's opinions and allow them to make their own decisions.
    • Teach your children to trust their instincts and set boundaries.
    • Honesty and open communication are important in dating.
    • Celebrate and support your friends' achievements.

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      1 hr 24 min
    • EP014-Adapting to Different Seasons in a Relationship, Being Present and Supportive for Each Other, throuples, polygamy, & Navigating Postpartum Psychosis

      This week Sav had to deal with some business emergencies, so Jess and Tim discuss various topics including, the hardest parts of their relationship, navigating different seasons, postpartum psychosis, and the importance of communication.

      They also talk about their highs and lows of the week and the qualities they value in a partner. Overall, they emphasize the importance of support, understanding, and being present for each other.

      Jess and Tim discuss various topics, including therapy, postpartum psychosis, autism, TV shows, and social media. They touch on the importance of communication in a relationship and the challenges they face. They also talk about the concept of throuples and polygamy. Throughout the conversation, they share personal anecdotes and express their love and support for each other.


      Takeaways

      • Postpartum psychosis can be a challenging experience for mothers, and it's important to seek support and understanding.
      • Communication is key in a relationship, and it's important to provide feedback and support to each other.
      • Navigating different seasons in a relationship requires flexibility and understanding.
      • Being present and supportive for each other during difficult times is crucial.
      • The qualities of support, understanding, and being present are valued in a partner. Communication is key in a relationship, and therapy can help strengthen the bond between couples.
      • Postpartum psychosis is a serious condition that requires support and understanding from partners.
      • Autism is a complex spectrum, and it's important to approach it with empathy and acceptance.
      • TV shows like 'The Umbrella Academy' and '90 Day Fiancé' can be binge-worthy and provide entertainment.
      • Social media can create a false sense of familiarity with someone, leading to misconceptions and judgments.
      • The concept of throuples and polygamy raises questions about personal boundaries and individual preferences.
      • 1 hr 7 min

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