Truth By Bella

Truth By Bella

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Truth By Bella episodes

  • The Truth About "We're Dating"

    What does “we’re dating” actually mean? In this episode, Isabella shares a thoughtful, faith-centered reflection inspired by Single, Dating, Engaged, Married and talks through some of the biggest tensions in modern dating culture. From unspoken expectations and false entitlement to purity, clarity, and the difference between love and lust, this is a conversation about dating with honesty, wisdom, and God at the center.

    In This Episode, We Talk About:
    • Why dating should be a process, not a status to rest in
    • The danger of unspoken expectations and assumption-based relationships
    • Why dating should reveal alignment, not become a space for control
    • Recognizing misalignment and why “good” is not always “right”
    • Why labels do not equal ownership
    • Personal reflections on access, attraction, and being ready to love someone well
    • How purity protects clarity and helps guard discernment
    • The difference between lust and love
    • The hidden cost of staying in relationships that are misaligned
    • Why honesty before God matters in every dating season
      • Key Takeaway

      “Dating should not be a place where we look for ownership. It should be a place where we practice discernment.”

      Bella’s Break Room Moment

      Not every connection is meant to become a covenant. Not every label means safety. Not every spark means substance. Guard your heart, but also guard your clarity.

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      30 min
    • The Soft Return
      After over a year away from the mic, Isabella is back softer, stronger, and more grounded in purpose. In this episode, Isabella opens up about the quiet detours that reshaped her: a big move, health challenges, new community, and a deeper walk with God. She reflects on what it means to return not with noise, but with intention. From finding joy in unexpected friendships to teaching a bold new generation (who somehow found her podcast 👀), this is a heart-to-heart on healing, humility, and honoring where God has placed you now. 💛 If you’ve ever had to start over mid-journey, this one’s for you!
      21 min
    • Green Flags Of Love
      Join Isabella, the heart and soul behind Truth By Bella, in this heartwarming episode filled with love, laughter, and timeless dating wisdom. Isabella's passion for guiding you through the complexities of faith, romance, and relationships shines through as she debunks common dating myths and shares practical tips. Discover the art of spotting 'green flags' and balancing faith in love. A must-listen episode for anyone on a journey to find love while honoring their faith.
      19 min
    • Pushing Yellow To Red

      [00:02:33] It's important to spend time with your partner's friends and observe how they interact. If their friends have different values, it's worth investigating. The Holy Spirit may also guide you if the relationship is not right for you.

      [00:04:54] Respect and healthy boundaries are important in relationships. Avoid those who lack respect and pressure you. Friends and family reflect who you are.

      [00:07:04] Personal story shared about a date

      [00:11:04] Be aware of actions and information given. Notice how someone behaves in different situations. Manipulation and deceit are red flags. Don't make excuses until it's out of control. Hot temper shows lack of self control and emotional-driven behavior.

      [00:14:59] We focus on people liking us rather than being right for us. Fear of rejection and self-doubt make us ignore red flags. Applies to friendships too.

      [00:20:24] Setting boundaries benefits communication, mental health, self-esteem, independence, identity, and filters out toxic relationships. It prevents people from taking advantage of you.

      [00:24:00] Boundaries for clear expectations and treatment. Ignoring red flags indicates unhealed attachment trauma and low self-esteem. Seek guidance and support for healthier relationships.

      [00:27:04] Prayer for guidance, wisdom, and protection from toxic people.

      [00:28:40] Closing

      29 min
    • Single Purpose
      We always and see emphasis on how marriage has a purpose. Have you ever wondered what's the point of singleness or is it just the prelude before getting married? In this episode here, Isabella speaks on the purpose of being single along important things to learn before joining with another person. Hope this episode blesses you.
      19 min
    • Assumptions
      Let's talk about the creep that comes in our various relationships.. Assumptions, it is! Isabella speaks on how it appears into dating situations, romantic relationships, and even marriage. Be prepared to learn some wisdom nuggets on how to dismantle assumptions from ruining your relationships before diving into communication. Hope this episode blesses you!
      15 min
    • Dating Culture Chat Pt. 2
      Truth By Bella is back with a Part 2 of the Dating Culture Chats. In this episode here, Isabella discusses with Emmanuela Rodenberg on the dating culture for Christian singles coming from the perspective of a dating coach. She touches on the importance on knowing how to choose correctly when you're dating. So many gems were dropped in this episode. We pray that it truly blesses you!
      37 min
    • Dating Culture Chat Pt. 1
      We hear about "dating" consistently whether it's courting or mingling with others. What is the culture associated with it? In this episode here, Isabella discusses with Michelle Apples from Canada, a matchmaker, on the dating culture for Christian singles and the importance of investing in yourself when it comes to your relationship with God and dating. Here's the Part 1 of Dating Culture Chats.
      28 min
    • Intentionality
      What does being intentional look like especially when you're in a season of focusing on yourself and understanding what God is doing in your life? In this episode here, Isabella shares how she developed a strong sense of self, being intentionally single, and the importance to knowing what to be mindful when properly in the future.
      28 min
    • Dating Thru Pandemic
      In Season 2 of Truth By Bella, Isabella continues to focus on Relationships. In this episode, Isabella interviews Trish, her special guest, on lessons learned dating during the pandemic. Trish touches on pros and cons of a long distance relationship having been in one. Listen in for more on her experience. We hope this episode truly blesses you!
      48 min

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    Filled with Nothing But The Truth! Truth Talk is the Podcast of Truth By Bella. Discussing topics from being an entrepreneur, life, relationships, and lessons learned in my journey, most importantly…