Truth Talks With Ohemaa

I'm back from my constant inconsistency, I've been away trying to take care of my self and GIRLAAAAAA we are back and we are better Can i hear a loud AMEEENNNN??? This episode is basically bring awareness to people with a fearful/avoidant abandonment issue. I went years without knowing that was exactly why i couldn't place too much value on one person.

Settling looks different for everyone, before you think you settled, write down the pros and cons of being with your partner. Define what settling is to you and when you have your answers, write down your non-negotiables and the reevaluate your relationship. Is it serving you or a deservice to you? Are you blinded bu love? and what exactly is making you stay? Have you communicated these issues and is the relationship worthh saving? Love is hard fight for it if you have it but also remember to love yourself a little bit more. Enjoy this episode!

Now i know this will ruffle some feathers but GIRLAAAAA yk im right LOL!!  Some relationships were actually very good and healthy until a mistake happens that tears you apart amongst many reasons. This is by NO means an excuse to go back to your ex, leave the past in the past and dwell in the present. Be in it and enjoy every lasting second but don't forget the standards cos you will be unhappy for awhile. This episode to educate don't dilute your brain with bleach and go back Queen. Enjoy!

PERSONALLYY i think no one talks about the late night tears over chips, messy rooms and shit talking about yourself in the healing process. It's okay to go through that though.

Communication is hard when you haven't had that while growing up sometime we might find that internalizing is actually from trauma in my experience childhood trauma. SO be patient with your partner, don't be quick to hit the next button cos we girlies loveeee to skip to our next option, understand why your partner is the way he is and learn to love him /here the right way (also girl leave if it's not worth it lmfao, I know it'[s contradictory). Only if the relationship is worth Saving boo!

Honestly a real conversation with y'all about what's new and just chit chat. 

You deserve way more than you think. Never settle for less when you can get the best!