Why does God not answer my prayers? Now, that is a painful question. And I know how you're feeling because I've been there. Why are my prayers never answered? I'm glad you're listening because God has an answer for you.
In Isaiah 65, 24. We see God speaking, “before the call. I will answer while they are yet speaking, I will hear." Now, You are probably shaking your head going, "no, that's not been my experience. I've prayed about some things several times and I haven't heard from God and my circumstances have never changed." Right?
It's confusing. But James four, three gives us clarity, "you ask and you do not receive because you ask wrongly." He's very clear about it. This is not an option. This is not a possibility. You ask wrongly to spend it on your passion. Remember Jeremiah 29, 11. "God has a plan for you." And if you trust and believe that God is Almighty God, then you will trust in his plan for you.
If you had a child, and the child was constantly asking you for strawberries and the child said, "I've never had strawberries, I would love to have some strawberries, please get me some strawberries." But you know that the child is allergic to strawberries. Would you still go ahead and buy the child a box of strawberries? You wouldn't do that because you know, that is life threatening to the child.
God knows what is good for you. And it is because of this love that he has for you, that he does not give you whatever you want because that could be dangerous for you. But God has a plan. I want you to remember the words of Jesus in Luke 11, 13. "If you who are sinful and evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Heavenly Father, who is holy and perfect, give you the Holy Spirit if you ask Him."
Now, you're probably asking, does this mean I should only pray for the Holy Spirit? What about my requirements, my other prayer needs? What do I do with all those? Let me tell you something. If you have the Holy Spirit, he will guide you into all the truth, and he will give you wisdom that no one in this world can give you.
Jesus speaks yet again in John, 15, 7, and he says, "If you abide me, and my words abide in you ask for whatever you wish and it will be done." And the only way that you and I are going to abide in God and remember the Word of God and that the Word of God, may abide in us it is through the Holy Spirit.
If we do not have the Holy Spirit, then we cannot live in accordance to the Word of God. And that means our prayers will never be answered. And that's what we are asking, right? Why are my prayers never answered?–– because the Word of God is not in us. So what do I do? What do I do that God will hear my prayers and answer me?
Now, I'm going to give you the answer to it. It's not my word. It's the Word of God. This will change your life forever. But you got to take action from this very moment for the rest of your life. If you would like to turn your life around for the glory of God. 1 Thessalonians. 5, 17, "pray without ceasing". In other words, never stop praying.
Again, you'll probably be asking me, "hey, I have a job, I work, I take care of my house, I need to cook. I have so many other things to do. What do you expect me to do? Keep praying all the time?" Don't misunderstand. What it means is this, maybe you are cooking; and while you're cooking, You could thank the Lord and say, "Father, I thank you for the good blessing that you've given, for the wisdom you have given for your providence to prepare a good meal for my family."
Maybe you have a very bad job, right? And it's easy to complain, but you could say, "Lord, I thank you that you have blessed me with this job. While there are so many people out there desperately hunting to have a job, any job."
There are so many things that you can pray to the Lord while you are going about your life.