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Compatibility is extremely important when it comes to relationships. Some people force relationships solely off of physical attraction, but things become more complicated once the infatuation dies out. How do you know if you're compatible with someone? What are the things that you should look for? On this episode, Missy and I get into these questions, while also discussing a checklist, the importance of shared interests, and a lot more.

Do you know your attachment style? Or better yet, have you heard of attachment styles? It lowkey might be more important than knowing your partner's love language. If you don't know much about attachment styles, then don't worry because Julia and I have a full episode discussing 3 major attachment styles. We also discuss how knowing your attachment style and your partner's attachment style can benefit the relationship, how to understand a person with a different attachment style, how to possibly become a secure attachment if you are anxious or avoidant, and a lot more.

It starts at home!! We all experience some sort of childhood trauma because no one is perfect or had a perfect situation growing up. On this episode, Jairus and I discuss the importance of dealing with trauma to be a better person in relationships, a better parent, and most importantly, a better person for yourself. We also discuss how undealt with trauma affects adult relationships, why people do not like to deal with their trauma, the importance of going to therapy, especially in the black community, and a lot more. Let's all be on the path to healing our inner child!

More people are becoming more open when it comes to open relationships and polygamy. Carlos and I discuss the possible benefits of having an extra person in the relationship, the purpose of open relationships, possible ways to make a polyamorous relationship successful, and a lot more.

Comfort, safety, and fear are some of the reasons that people settle in relationships. On this episode, David and I discuss how to know if you are settling, why people settle, how much of a role external factors play in settling, and a lot more.

Ahhh, there’s nothing like a good ole situationship. We've all probably been in one at some point in our lives, and if we're being honest, it probably felt hella confusing for at least one person. If you're unsure if you are in one now, then this is the episode to listen to. By the end of it, you'll know what a situationship looks like, how they happen, the chances of them being successful, and a lot more. You'll also figure out that you probably got into the situationship by not communicating. Tune in to hear me, Riss, and Jairus break it all down.

Breakups can be tough, luckily there’s always other fish in the sea. Don't trip on your ex. Move on, glow up, and upgrade. On the season finale, David and I discuss how to navigate life post-breakup.

Jordan and Chris join me to share their opinions on what is considered cheating, if cheating can be a mistake, physical cheating vs emotional cheating, and how being cheated on impacts a man’s ego.

Vulnerability is something that many people struggle with. Allowing and trusting people to fully know you can be scary, but it’s 100% necessary for successful relationships. On this episode, Constantine and I discuss why people struggle with being vulnerable, how your childhood impacts your dating life as an adult, why showing and communicating emotions and feelings looks different between men and women, and a lot more.

When it comes to relationships, we’ve all experienced the involvement or over involvement of friends and family. The input of their thoughts and opinions varies with each person. On this episode, Janee and I discuss having best friends of the opposite sex, what to do if you’re not a fan of your partner’s friends, the importance of actually being best friends with your partner, and a lot more.