TSL Podcast

The Sexual Life Podcast!

Nick Rogue – http://samenightseduction.com/

“A life where seduction, lifestyle and personal philosophy all merge – The True Nature of Man” 

In one of the rarest interviews I have done, we break the barriers of Seduction and the true journey of Life.

Nick, gives his perspective of life on the road, and how Seduction and Self-exploration put him on a path of ultimate self-discovery.

Nick is one of the most noted guys in the Seduction Community, and good friend.   He has been living out of his van in Columbia for the last year and a half.  Nick made his mark in Las Vegas.  However, a few years ago he went on a World Adventure, ending up in Columbia.

He started living abroad and set up shop like the Charming Rogue he is.   In the next year Nick has planned to travel in every Country in South America.

If you’re interested in – 

Take a listen and see where this one takes you.  Anybody that’s a kindred spirit will be changed by this Podcast.

Find out more about Nick Rogue –  http://samenightseduction.com/

Being good with women, means being a Better Man…

all those things can conflict, contradict and confuse you.  This is where we really go to school on this TSL Podcast.

There are very few times I am in awe of someone and it happens here on this Podcast.

Grandmaster of Life Terrence C gives this legendary Podcast to Mike B and myself.   I previewed this audio to a 45 guys and the overwhelming response was that this was some of the best recordings ever with Terrence and Myself.

My buddy Mike, one of my Natural friends is on.  Mike is one of the more interesting people I have met, and in future podcasts you will get to hear his amazing story of rags to riches.  But for now, this is a hardcore podcast on Women, Life and how a ‘real man’ lives The Sexual Life!

Recorded – April 25, 2012

If you’re a fan, you know Terrence.  He is by far one of the most badass guys who has done any recordings with me.  I can honestly say Terrence and Jason Savage are the 2 guys who have had the most influence on my perspectives on Seduction and Living the Sexual Life.

In this Podcast Terrence made a special request to talk about Seduction, Sex and Escalation.  I couldn’t say it better myself!

Take a listen and take notes!

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Steve Mayeda

Recorded – April 18, 2012

John McLean is the author of The No-Carb Revolution (and many other books available on Amazon), as well as a healer, extrovert and all around interesting guy.

(Check out the book CLICK HERE)

In my opinion John has one of the more free flowing podcasts we have done. We talk about diet and exercise, but more importantly living the best possible life. How thinking right, acting right and treating your body right is the movement towards happiness.

John has a tremendous amount of life experience, and it overflows through out this podcast.

Recorded – April 11, 2012

Arden Leigh is the author of The New Rules of Attraction and a NYC based Seduction Coach for women. However you really can’t put her in a box. In this podcast we really gain a huge amount of ground talking about the same philosophy (Seduction) from 2 different perspectives (Male/Female).

Arden has some fans call in, ask questions and probe her mind, perspective and overall philosophy. One of the more gratifying interviews I have done in a while. If you are a woman and want to know more about men, listen to this one…

and If you’re a man and want to know what goes on in a woman’s mind also a must listen!

The New Rules of Attraction – http://www.amazon.com/The-New-Rules-Attraction-Keep/dp/1402266529

Arden’s Blog – http://ardenleigh.typepad.com/

Arden’s Facebook – http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000142311144

This week’s Lesson Plan is actually going to be a Special PDF that is Mailed out to my Email List – So GET ON THE LIST!

It will cover Opening to some Heavy Comfort, a really Valuable Document, so get on the List and Reap the Benefits.

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Before I get into this Interview, I wanted to write about a few things that made me want to feature this interview this week.  I have over 20 other ones, but this one was very relevant to my life in fact just doing this interview gives me validation and reinvigorates my purpose and passion for teaching.

So last Tuesday, I ended up having what is now said to be a flurry of mini strokes.  My blood pressure went way up to the point where I needed to make a trip to the Emergency Room.  It was interesting cause I have been not nearly as stressed as I used to be – my lifestyle is pretty great, I get to do everything I want these days.   In so many ways I am at peace.  But one thing is for certian I had been working and traveling almost non-stop for about 6 weeks, putting in at least 12 hours in a day (sometimes 15) everyday of the week.   I guess this on top of some really bad diet accounted for what happened.

So when everything came to a halt (almost literally) on Tuesday it put a lot of things into perspective.   First off if I am going to be alive, I need to see it as a gift with purpose to fulfill.  I have actually died (technically – heart stopped, but brain did not, when I was 17) and it is not Death I fear.   Sure if someone were to put a gun to my head I would be afraid, but if it stayed their my fear would go away.  Death does not scare me, but the things that I am afraid of are always so minuscule.

When I talk with a guy like Amit it makes me realize what life is about, it makes me realize what being a man is.

Here is a guy that when he was a boy, got cancer and his father passed away.  He grew up with some heavy baggage.  that cancer made him partially blind, he had every excuse to ‘fuck up’ in his life.  He had every excuse to pass judgment and blame, and I am sure that when he was in the midst of it all, he sometimes did do that – but for the most pat he found his life in the solution.   He, like MunichHawk manned up when they didn’t have to…when they were kids.

Imagine having had those things in your life, imagine having to raise your siblings when you were still an adolescent, imagine being physically impaired, and walking out of it all dedicating yourself to being of service.  That is what both Amit and MunichHawk ended up doing.

Last week when I was really sick I felt like I was going to die, literally.  Many of you don’t know this but I have an extended family of Hawaiian, some of which are Kahunas (Hawaiian Priest), one is actually name Pua (LOL).  Tons and tons of ‘New Age’ people are always contacting them, in fact my Aunty Pua actually went on tour with the Dahli Lama last year.   When i talk to them they are just my Aunts and Uncles.  Many of them I consider my parents.   I also know many ‘New Age Gurus’ who are more my friends then ‘New Age Gurus’, mainly cause when they get too ‘New Age’ I want to punch them…it can be really annoying.

I bring these people up cause I spoke with a lot of them last week.  It was really amazing because many of them asked me if I had anything to ‘clear up’, or ‘things I had to forgive people for or be forgiven of’.  I told them all that there were a few, but for the most part I have nothing to feel bad about, for one of the first times in my life I was Free.

I actually talked to my friend Justin (who has also been interviewed) and we talked about the same thing, but this was actually the day I got sick, right before it got really bad.   He was saying that in the past 18 months all these big positive changes happened in my life all happened through the PUA Community, and he was right.

One thing that I have realized in the past 18 months is that you can have everything you would ever want, Money, Success, Fame, Women…all that stuff, and that doesn’t mean shit unless you have some peace and serenity in the space between your ears.  Cause right now whether I have nothing or everything doesn’t matter, I have that peace.

When I get on the phone and do interviews with a student that has overcome so much and walks out with so much success internally and externally I am really proud.  Not cause I did so much to change their life – in fact I did very little – at most I just taught them to hold a mirror up – I am proud to have known them and even though I stimulated change in them, I am always blown away as to how far they take it.

http://theredstack.com/podcast/reviews/Amit-Review-Long.mp3

The Lesson Plan Based on this Interview has been put into a PDF that you can download – it will be based on How to Get and Instant Connection with someone taking you from Opening to some Deep Comfort – based on the method of theREDstack.   The PDF is going to go out to the Email List Thursday Night.   This is a Special PDF Document.

You are going to want to get this document, it will really show you how every other method is a waste of time when you are trying to use plain old routines that are based on someone else.  You can only get so far with them.   Just listen to my interview with Amit – in just 1 Day I was able to teach him the skills that would make someone who had all these things that were supposedly working against him – his father dying at an early age – him getting cancer as a child – him becoming partially blind due to his cancer – and I what I taught him was how to take all those things and show them in the best possible way, and he got results in a week, getting the Lay he was looking for.  Aside from that his success continued on as well.

If you want to learn how to get results like that, then check your email on Thurs and start using a Method that has proven Results, with anyone in any setting.

And don’t forget –

Go out and Practice, apply these things.  Stop living life in front of the Computer and Live Life!

If you didn’t read and listen to Part 1 of this do so by going here –

PART one of RED

In this part 2 of the interview – a little under 10 mins – he talks about the Qualification and Sexual Qualification that he learned from theREDstack.  It is funny cause Danny got crazy results, and we talk a little bit about it here, but SNLs got so easy for him, he talks about it like it was so easy to gain ground sexually with the women he was attracted to.

Now remember this is just the first of my Students I wanted to feature.  I have a bunch more, and they honestly teach me more than I could have ever taught him.

Check out the Second Part of the Interview HERE

CLICK HERE

One thing Danny talks about here is how the better you get with women the better you have to get with yourself.

If you want to have results like that and learn on a path that can cause totally change that isn’t just getting the Best results with the women you want but also grow as a human, then GET ON MY LIST and Apply what I put out here for you.

If you’re interested in taking things up a notch I do have a few workshops coming up, only 3 more till 2010 and if you’re interested checkout what I got going on.

Workshops GO HERE!

Reviews GO HERE!

And if you’re wondering about more reviews, I got more and more being updated onto the site.  I just put up the California Pimp’s (owner of the infamous www.netvideogirls.com) endorsement yesterday.  I am the only PUA Guru he endorses.  He’s a good friend of mine and his interview is pretty badass!

Here is the Second Part of my Article on theREDstack’s form of Qualification.

Get this down practice it cause it is the root of Sexual Qualification that Danny is talking about.

Here is an example of this, and this is one way that theREDstack showcases Qualification Customizing it to your life…

Once you notice you like a girl (should be within 30 seconds to a min) you should start Qualifying her on things that have to do with you.   Why waste time?  Figure out if she is worth talking to and then go from there.

You can do this by interrupting whatever the situation is, and say things like this –

“Wait I gotta ask you….are you someone who is an open minded person”

“Hold on, do you think that you’re someone that will always do the right thing?”

“Let me ask you, do you think that you’re someone who really attracts what you want?”

Ok so those are some pretty general ideas that everyone seems to like.  In this scenario you’re mainly bringing up topics in the early phase of the interaction where you can start driving towards some popular themes that –

1) most women will like to associate with

2) Help you get sexual with her is you choose to go that route, being open-minded, knowing what you want, getting what you want, will all help with transitioning into sexuality

3) These are the sides to women that I like to talk to.  I like to talk to women about all these subjects, and I like talking about all these things myself in ho why are around in my life.

So now here is the kicker…

The secret to customizing is this…

You pretty much take what you’re ‘open-minded’ about, or how ‘you know what you want’ and ask them about it.

I know you must be thinking ….alright Steve…this makes sense, but it really doesn’t…what the fuck are you talking about….

So here is an example.

I  like Open minded women, and women that know what they want, then when I first know I like them (that initial 30 seconds or so) I will ask them those qualifiers listed above, asking them is they are open-minded and know what they want.

I will just fire one out and see if she responds.

She probably will respond.  Like I said they fulfill some popular female identities.

So then lets say immediately or maybe after a few mins, depends on how the set goes –that is something only experience can help you with- you then want to know more about her you want to build off those initial Qualifiers.

So you want to Qualify a little heavier along the same theme.   In this case towards being open-minded and knowing what she wants.

I would say something like this–

“So if you’re really someone who is open-minded and free thinking, how is it that you know what you want when you see it?”

Here is where the genius comes in, and here is how different theREDstack is from the other stuff out there…

She will probably not answer, cause it is a pretty heavy question – and that is a good thing.  You just challenged her, you did so towards frames like being ‘non-judgmental’ and being ‘independent’ enough to know what she wants.  You did this while gaining compliance and you did this while using bait, you are building your plan for seduction based off of some pretty early level qualifiers.

Sounds complex, but study this and try it – then study it again and it will make perfect sense.

You see, it isn’t a qualification ladder, it isn’t a large hoop,

this ain’t the first grade and none of my students wanted to stay in the first grade either, but that seems to be what everyone else is teaching.

The process and method of theREDstack works a little bit easier.   It all ties in off the next.  It isn’t anything genius cause it is just taking Social Dynamics and making it normal.

I hate to say it but the secrets are really simple, they are just hard to see at first.  I am telling you, go out and try this and you’ll make it work cause everyone of my students who applies what I teach gets results and you will too….then once you see how simply this works, you’ll be like ‘meeting people is easy’ and ‘getting them to be instantly attracted to me is easier’

So here is what we learn from our Audio with Danny and I –

-Qualify towards things that are important to ourselves and them

-It is ok to Qualify about something too heavy for them to answer cause we can answer it with a grounding story.

-And have Qualification based off of you and not some artificial ladder.

Ok this is one long Blog Post with a lot of content so I will stop there.

Part 2 of this Audio I want to put out fairly quick so I can post about other things that might be helpful.

So go out there and take this knowledge and apply it.

The internet is great for many things but when you’re just sitting in front of a computer all day reading about technique on how to meet people and not actually doing it, the internet can suck.

Do go out and make yourself known and make a difference.

Steve

One thing that you may not hear me talk about is how proud I am of my students.

I am convinced at this point that I have the Best Students in the whole Dating-Seduction-PUA community.  There is no doubt in my mind.

In fact I just set up this Review Page to start featuring them and their success stories. I set up this page to Highlight them and how proud and honored I am to have them!

LISTEN TO REVIEWS HERE

I have always had loyal students and in many ways my students have always encouraged me to continue teaching, even at times when I wanted to stop teaching.

So one of the reasons why I am bringing this up now is because every week I want to start highlighting one of my students in a Blog Post.

To put this in perspective – for the past month I have been asking some of my students to do interviews with me.   This experience has been nothing short of profound.    Seriously…Profound.

I feel more than humbled, by all means I am nobody to look up nor should you look up to any person teaching this stuff, but I do look up to my students.

In many ways I am in disbelief that I could have been a part of these huge transformations that they have had.

What I will say is whatever I am doing whether it is theREDstack or it is my live teachings, and in some cases both, I am doing something that is getting results very consistently.

In any case, I don’t want to tell this story, I want my students to do it.  So once a week I am going to feature one of these interviews on my Blog with a lesson plan attached to it that goes over something that we are talking about.

So that all being said I want to get started on my First Interview from one of my Old School Students.

I had to break this one up into two parts, because his interview was too long.

It is a student who I know way back when from the old PUA forums who hired me about 2 years ago for one of the first ever of theREDstacks then later hired me for a 1-on-1.

Sometimes he goes by RED, other times he goes by Smokelion and when he calls me he goes by Danny.

Danny has one of the first of theREDstacks ever made, and he has done a 1-on-1 with me.

He basically exploded into someone who got better and more consistent than pretty much all instructors out there.   He was able to pull off SNL after SNL, and I even saw him get one after talking to a girl for 3 mins.  My buddy Alex and I witnessed this with our own eyes about a year ago in Las Vegas both of us were pretty blown away.

The fact is Danny is an Animal, and he is one of the many students I have had that are insanely good!

More importantly he has truly evolved as a person and seen the community as something to allow him to evolve.  His story is very similar to mine and many other people’s in the community who gain the ability to meet and attract an abundance of women.  Once that happens stuff starts to change for you.  You are force to grow and a human being and as a man.

He started off with desire of wanting the right women in his life, and theREDstack and the 1-on-1 (a lethal combination) got him more than that.

Later he evolved to a point where he found what he really wanted was the skills to be able to find and meet a woman that he could be satisfied with.

He also has a blog which can be found HERE (http://smokelion.blogspot.com/)

So here is part 1 of our Interview, it is a little over 10mins long.  Part 2 will be out in a few days, so listen to this while its HOT!

CLICK HERE

In this interview Danny talks about his first impressions of theREDstack (he was one of the first 5 to get his.  They were only 8-10 pages long then, now they are 80 – 100 pages long.   He also talks about how I was the only person really teaching Comfort and Seduction back then.  There was a wealth of ‘Attraction’ material, but nothing really beyond that.

He also talks about how most of the PUA-Dating-Seduction Community has evolved very little in the 3 years he has been in it.

Something that he talks about here that I decided to write this Lesson on is a certain type of Qualification.

It is Qualification based on theREDstack and endemic to that unique process of theREDstack.  Below is an Article outlining that.   This is the BEST material out there and I don’t write it just for you to read it, I write it so that you DO IT!

And one last thing there is a lot of material that I am putting out lately, the reason why I am putting this out on my Blog for free is cause there will be better stuff released from my list.   SO GET ON THE LIST, and go out there and Apply these Valuable tools I am putting out there on my Blog for FREE.

People will many times be confused about this idea of Qualification but it is simple, at some point of meeting a woman you want to show your interest in her not by qualifying yourself to her…like showing too much interest – but you want to show you’re interested in her by challenging her to see if she is qualified to talk to you.

In a weird way this is how people get attracted to one another.  I know somehow it doesn’t make sense logically, but this happens all day long.   We want 40 different things throughout the day, we can have urges, ads…whatever jump out at us, but we are attracted to those things that extend a challenge out to us.

You know that girl that we kind of like, we start talking to us and then she pushes us slightly away…all of a sudden she becomes really important.   We start Qualifying ourselves to her, and if she has some experience she plays us like a fiddle.   This is cause the idea of Qualification is a Principal.  It is a Truth.  It works in many ways, not just verbally, but in our Body Language, in our Facial Expressions, in How we interact and so we want to get good at it in all those ways.

theREDstack takes a bit of a different and dynamic look at Qualification.  It has many uses not just one or two.  What Danny and I talk about in his interview is much more than just Qualification but we only have time for one topic, as you will see that I spend a lot of time just chipping away at the fundamentals of one form of Qualification.   What we are talking about is using Qualification to actually get a response that is genuine and useful.  If we get that from Qualification then we have many different directions we can take it.  We can build emotional bonds, we can be sexual, we can also just see if a girl is actually Qualified to talk to us, based off of who we are.

What we want to do is set up a dynamic where if we find someone attractive in any way, we set up a system of Qualification.

Here is an example of my perspective.  From the moment I notice I like a girl I immediately want to see if she is someone I might really like, I want to know more about her.  I want to know the ‘real’ her and not her club persona, or the part of her masked by social fears.

Now this is great cause I can actually see if I like her but also it works somewhat of a tactic that will allow her to be more drawn to me just like in the example I made above about a mediocre girl who pushes us away becoming more attractive to us.

One thing Danny points out that is so vitally important in the interview is that when a girl answers you she needs to answer you with her emotional self it can’t just be a reactionary surface level answer.  In fact she does not even need to answer you verbally, she needs to emotionally invest in thinking about the answer.

An example of this is you asking a woman if she has close friends, and she answers with very little expression “Of course I do, I have Nancy and Tania” she is not really Qualifying herself.

But if she were to stop and think and then say,  “You know what, I am not sure what you’re asking…what do you mean”

She would be Qualifying herself, cause she is investing in what you think of her.

So how does this work…

Number 1 – I am asking her a question about herself not just an empty question to see if she will answer.  I want to ask questions that are really about her.

Number 2 – I want her to really respond to me.  It is not so much her just answering me, it is more about her emotionally investing.  This could mean she doesn’t even answer, but she thinks about what I am asking her.  You want her to care about what you think, rather than answer.  This is a concept that nobody seemed to ever pick up on.  This makes me wonder….no really…it does…

Number 3 – I am asking her a question that will tactically work in this way…I want to ask her about something that I will value in her but I value about myself.

Ok we re going to break here –

In a few Days the rest of this Article will be released as well as well as the second part of the Interview.

Go out and practice this stuff, don’t be lazy with it…go out and apply it and get some results.  I post it for you to learn and have a base, if you want to take things to a level where you can get results sign up for one of my workshops or let’s get on the phone and talk about you changing as a person.

If you’re interested in taking this a step further and getting these kinds of results checkout my upcoming workshops Listed Just below.

REVIEWS CLICK HERE

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I really want to thank everybody who was on the teleseminar I was on…I think we really took some things to a new level here!

I mean I really think that we are starting to REDEFINE Social Dynamics at its core.

One of the ways I would like to encourage you to realize how powerful and positive this stuff can all be, is I want to start featuring my past students on my blog.

This interview is with Scotty from OnTheMat, an MMA Icon. He’s very good friend of mine and also a good friend of my Buddy Alex, who is on the very controversial VH1 show that just got pulled off the Air.

So in this Interview Scotty talks a little bit about his experience in the PUA community, but mainly how I helped him take his already good game and focus it towards dating some of the Hottest Models and Ring Girls in the world.

To get the Whole Interview you gotta be on my Mailing List but here is the Short Version (which is really more like a testimonial for theREDstack, at one time this animal -Scotty- was my Student)

Serious stuff…it is gold so if you’re not on my list GET ON THE LIST!

More importantly, in the Morning I am going to email out some an article that tells you some of the insights on how Scotty got the results he got with those Models and Ring Girls. Now Scotty’s was a bit more Customized, this is the Root!

The Article being emailed out will be on-

-How to Immediately get a model or Hired Gun’s Attention (none of the same old stuff, immediately talk to her real self)

-How to Immediately bring out her Sexual Side

-How to connect so hard that it will make any number STICK.

Now I will be posting some of this stuff on the Blog in a bit, but if you want the areas that specifically helped Scotty get that Intense Connection, make sure you’re on my list and take things to the next level.

-What is interesting about this style of game is it is very Translatable to any Style of Game. I got some Stripper Game stuff in the works and this is pretty much the root of it.-

Alright…talk soon…

Talk more about that later!

Steve

All I gotta say is my buddy Gina Carano is Gonna Kick Cyborg’s Ass! Watch the Fights tomorrow!

Also Jason Savage’s ( http://gonesavage.blogspot.com/ ) Speech from last night for the Austin Lair was one of the best I have seen, Check out him and Justin from the Art of Attraction speaking in Dallas tonight!

As for you Folks on the Teleseminar Here’s another Video-

So this is the last Video in our series, but don’t worry we got way more to come!

Seduction is such a Huge (and Neglected) Portion of Connecting. In fact it is the reason why a lot of us got in this for.

That being said, I can’t believe that NOBODY COVERS it thoroughly. Aside from that no one makes it come from them.

For this Video you will get examples of how you can not only Sexually Frame from your Identity, but you will also learn how to Seduce from being yourself.

Now for the news on the call.

I Made an Abbreviated recording of the first call we made on Aug 12th. If you still wanted to be a part of call 2 where we actually get into a lot of the Specific Customization then you still can.

Just sign up and I will email you the instructions for the Exercises we are doing.

Every Person on this call I will be giving Personalized Custom Training to…

Basically you will be working with me personally to develop these fine tools-

-Customized Qualifiers that will actually connect and ground you to the people you interact with Instantly

-Customized Frames and Sexual Frames, this means you will be able to use your identity to Seduce, and Seduce Quick

-Learn how to take your Identity to Project Sexuality to Effortlessly Attract

-Build a map for a Lifestyle that will allow you to maintain and manifest these tools within your life

Sound like something you’re interested in?

I also made the Price a bit more affordable since you’re getting an abridged call….

97 Big ones, taking you to the next level…

Take a listen to some of the Audio Reviews From People Learning from me Recently!

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Sign up down below and let’s get started! It is easy and the Exercises I have for you will take you to new levels, ones that are easier and simpler than you have ever learned.

Talk to you on Wed!

Thanks

Steve