Picking up girls can be fun,  if you look at it as fun.  The problem with most guys is that they're doing it for need.  They need to get girls.  First of all a woman is a human being,  so the idea of picking up girls for fun can actually work because there are plenty of women that just want to have fun.  I've met so many girls throughout the years that just want a casual sexual relationship.  I've also met women who want something serious.  So picking up girls for fun should not be looked down upon.  At the end of the day you're only going to end up having fun with the girls who want to have fun.  The ones who want something different,  you'll quickly find out.  Is important to have good communication,  that is why social coaches exist,  because guys might be clueless in how to go about playing the dating game.  Is why my job can be fun. 

 Anyways that being said,  in the above video I will go over some ways you can get started in your journey to meeting and socializing with women,  lets face it,  things don't just happen -  skills are developed and experiences are gained,  you must take it upon yourself to craft the life you desire  and let all the strong pillars of life hold it all together and bring you a strong dating life.  These pillars are health , wealth and social skills.  Become a master at living the life you love,  and you'll attract the women you love,  who will love you back.  But there is no loving unless you understand and love yourself first.  That is where the journey begins.  In you.

So i came across this very open minded female,  this is funny because there are periods where you approach and actually not much happens for a week or two,  maybe more if luck is not on your side,  but then the universe has a way of lining stuff up for you all in the period of a few days.  Crazy how that works,  nothing is a definite constant.  So anyways this story is about a wave I was ryding where I was coming across females who were down.  This particular female was very open minded and in a very explorative vibe,  she was young wild and free.  So I decided for research purposes to ask her how many guys she had been with and I wasn't going to judge,  i'm having fun myself,  mind you,  I always wear protection this is very important to practice safe sex so that it doesn't go beyond a "fun time".  Specially when you are not going to establish a long term relationship and you don't have patterns with the person you're seeing,  you must be safe to prevent stds and pregnancy.  Anyway I hope you guys enjoy this story and get a little taste of the "party" phase a female may go through.  Don't judge,  people should do what they want,  is a free world,  as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone.  Namaste

Cold approach is undeniably an important aspect of meeting people,  be it warm or cold,  you must make the move and present yourself.  Is making the move everything?  absolutely not.  You must not only learn how to sell yourself but you must also be selling something worth buying.  obviously.  You ever heard the saying looks matter?  well of course they do,  it is part of your smv.  Does that mean that you must look the best in order to get laid?  well it certainly would help but no,  and here's why,  women carry smv also.  SMV is known in the web as sexual market value,  there are things beyond are biology that we look for in order to mate,  for the most part.   These days we've evolved beyond the animalistic instinct and now we are a bit picky.  The good news is ,  this applies to both men and women and is not that hard to put yourself together.  You got to understand most people are average anyways,  so it will not be hard to find yourself an average woman. 

 How above average do you want to be is up to you and factoring in the odds and possibilities.  So most certainly anyone can cold approach,  and with this information in mind you won't be blaming yourself for getting rejected.  That being said,  just because you have equal SMV as the girl doesn't mean she will hook up with you,  this is where destiny comes into play,  she has to be looking for a partner or available.  If this is the case, then you have a fair chance.  All you have to do is not mess up.  See most guys are looking for what to do to get girls.  Instead focus on what you shouldn't do,  for starters, stop trying so hard.

Had a couple thoughts on this subject thought id share,  unfortunately I gotta write a description so this video is about me giving my thoughts on stephiscold and cold approach ,  as if the title wasn't obvious enough.  Not much of the writing type but I don't really manage the youtube,  my boy does and he says this is important.  anyways i don't want to spoil the video so i aint gon say nuthin.  lulzzzzzzz WATCH IT

As you can see , I've had a thread of my most recent videos discussing how each individual coach has helped my dating experiences along.  I will make this video about who I believe to be the best innovator of cold approach in this millenia.  The one and only mike Mehlman.  As I explain in the video,  his confidence is contagious and his disconcert for tactics is spot on.   I love his method of approach because it basically ties in to being yourself,  best self if you want to succeed more and nothing else.   Clean and to the point.  Doesn't float around this misconception that just anyone can learn some "skills" and get results.  IT just leaves you with the idea that if you're confident and believe in yourself you can actually meet women by being straightforward and direct.  Don't be held back by the inevitable notion of rejection and believe in who you are and what you've got to offer, by of course making something of yourself,  and not being afraid of approach.  I leave you with this awesome video.  PEACE OUT

We're back with another video this time talking about my experience doing some of the tom torero style daygame.  Funny enough this is how I met my ex girlfriend who we shared great moments together.   Meeting people doesn't always have to be based solely on hooking up,  you can develop solid relationships from this as was my case, but as you will see in the video things don't always go so well.  But we live and we learn.  This is my story of mastering day approach and an update on where I am now.

I wanted to make this cool little video to talk about some of the experiences I've had and what has helped me immensely in dating back then when I starting doing night approach more often in order to sort out and have a better dating life.  Keep in mind I no longer do much night time approaching,  if I want to get dates I achieve that during the daytime and throughout my day I can meet people.   

In this video I dive into one of the mindsets that helped me a lot in south beach Miami nightclubs and bars,  great way to meet people if you try it out yourself and have a lot of fun.  This was during the prime time of the real social dynamics movement led by tyler who was a pioneer when it came to social dynamics and introducing yourself and having a blossoming dating life.  Bottom line is most men really have no clue how to go about meeting people ,  so it is important to have good healthy examples of how to do so.

It's time to dive into another texting break down.  Too many guys asking silly questions like "what should I text her first".  When you ask that question it’s a clear giveaway of your lack of experience and if the answer is anything besides "WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT" then you're also inexperienced as well in anything useful when it comes to dating.  Let me explain why,  you've been fed super gimmicky marketing for the last 10 years about what the right thing to text a girl is,  so your mind is brainwashed.   Is a simple as that.  The blind leading the blind.  Or should I say, the con leading the blind.  Now of course some of these guys giving terrible texting advice don’t know any better.  But let me catch you up on some serious game,  whatever little bs results you were getting with regulating what you say through text will increase tenfold once you understand the concept I break down in the video.  If the concept flies over your head,  

I'm not worried,  you'll be back because this is the way.    If you know anything about star wars,  this is the way lol.   The fearless man who can approach and reap the confidence growth and knows exactly what to expect is the man that will have a successful abundant dating life.  Otherwise you will stay scarce and not have many options.  Don't limit yourself to a pool of 5 women, when you can be swimming in a pool of 5 billion and end up with the best girl suited for you.  Stop thinking small, stop thinking useless gimmicks, and start thinking like a winner.  I don't want to say I told you so.  Start now.

I was browsing around and I saw this video by a guy named dan bacon who gives highly marketed cookie cutter relationship and approach advice.  But anyways is not terrible advice and I found this gem he mentioned in one of his videos.  Now I'm not one to hate but I am very transparent about my opinion and I like what I like,  I've also taken a lot of action myself so I know what success in dating looks like, talks like, and feels like.  Anyways I'm not going to be saying anything negative because I do not know this guy,  might make a more thorough review in the future but for now I'd like to point out this tinder point he made in one of his video which I think you guys will find useful.   

 It basically demonstrates some factual statistics about how 1% of men are getting most of the success, which we kind of know already and some more facts about not all dates leading to hook ups and how the majority of men online are pretty much left for scraps but we all pretty much know that if you're not on top of your social media game and have a decent profile you pretty much won't be going very far.  And even then its still a gamble.  But anyways check the video out for yourself,  educate yourself in this matter and just basically become a social media master,  you owe it to yourself to self improve in all areas might as well have good pics and good style of yourself online.  With that I leave you guys to watch this video breakdown.  PEACE.

Lets get into it 

  I pity the day you show up to my bootcamp wearing clothes fabricated in the 80s with an oversized fit and a fedora with a feather on it.   Expecting me to do magic tricks in order for you to attract women.  Not even a miracle will save you from bad style my friend.  That'll be the day I can just get up from my couch,  throw anything on,  run up out the basement ,  start approaching girls and not expect highly pitiful reactions due to my inability to put a decent outfit together.  Lets save you and me the trouble and hit you with this style guide.    Your style for daygame is basically like your uniform for a basketball or a football game.  You don't run into the field without your uniform.   I want you to educate yourself,  yes,  educate yourself in style.  Sorry buddy,  you cant be out here looking like a bum.  Go cut your hair.  A good start is instagram,  and you probably don't have a solid online presence,  which is a whole nother story we'll get to in another article.  But first we must start with your style.  Go find some celebrities online that look somewhat similar to you,  or some cool trendy stars and see what it is they are wearing and what it is the public is reacting to at the moment.  Then obviously I want you to go to some trendy hip stores out in the mall and put together an outfit you find cool.  But probably you have no taste,  oh I am certain you have no idea what to pick out on your own,  it will ultimately be an upgraded version of the same trash outfit you're already wearing.  So make sure you seek out someone who already "looks cool"  so they can assist you.   

 It is highly recommended you get expert advice.  Fortunately for you I have experience with helping people dress up and feel comfortable on their own skin.  Your own personal style converted into an attractive style will absolutely get your foot in the door and lessen the impact of bad reactions.  Its been proven over and over that presentation is important.  Lets not skip it.  Lets not skip health nutrition and exercise either.  I dive more into that in the video I have up on youtube,  as well as finances and stuff.  Obvious prerequisites to having a super solid dating life without any unnecessary struggles and mental hurdles.  Lets take it one step at a time and not start backwards.  And don’t forget to approach and start meeting people.

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