In this episode Matt and Jay talk about fighting, hyper-masculinity, conflict resolution and the need for good boundaries. Episode 9 Show Notes: 3:15 – What is Conflict? 8:15 – The different people we all conflict with 10:30 – Bumper sticker politics 14:00 – Not all conflict can be resolved 16:00 – UFC 229: McGregor vs Khabib 20:30 – Profiting by the promotion of violence 24:00 – Deep in their core all men agree that fighting is cool 25:30 – Hyper-Masculinity vs Beta Males 28:00 – The lack of Masculine, well-rounded Male role models in the media 30:30 – Why strong Men are necessary in times of conflict 32:00 – A fight inside the group at We Are Superior Men 40:00 – In a tough fight, each fighter has a different perspective 44:30 – Fighting unfairly / The result of repression is hyper-aggression 46:30 – What is a boundary? / Making promises and commitments 51:00 – Breaking your commitments means losing faith in yourself 55:00 – It’s better to make no promises than to make a promise you break 58:30 – Make small goals, make the fight manageable 61:00 – Find or create a support group to help you 67:00 – How to tell if you have bad or non-existent boundaries 71:00 – Learning to say “No” 74:30 – Five signs you’re co-dependent Thanks to the great music by: Disconnected by Alex (c) copyright 2016 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/AlexBeroza/55012 Ft: ducket and Super Rich by Alex (c) copyright 2013 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Noncommercial (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/AlexBeroza/43346 Ft: Hans Atom & Faded Millions