We have a tendency to focus on the negative. If someone does something that hurts you, suddenly all their good characteristics – anything nice they’ve done for you… any kindness they’ve shown, is suddenly forgotten and all you can see is the bad. As Pastor Bill will challenge us in today’s message, brushing that pain under the rug won’t help, but be careful not to let it take center stage in your relationship. Look for the good in them and confront the problems with grace, compassion and love.