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Tuning the Bow episodes

  • Psalm 3 – Protector and Provider

    There are passages that speak directly to parenting, but there are many passages that can be applied to parenting. In this episode, Tim and Matt talk about how God gives us the protection we need and the provision to live a life that brings Him praise, glory, and honor. Though the opposing voices are loud and the societal pressures are great, our God gives us what we need when we need it. Trust in Him, the provider of every good and perfect gift.

    Passage – Psalm 3:1-4

    As of posting, baby Rose has not made her debut yet. Please continue to pray for Tim and Mary as they wait just a little longer.

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    30 min
  • The Toughest Stance

    Joshua 24:15 is not a verse just for decorative ornaments or cute pictures. It might be the toughest stance you take for your family. In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about why this stance needs to be made by believing parents. True leadership sets a vison and works to attain it, whether or not everyone is in agreement. The goal of biblical parenting is to raise kids in Bible-believing homes, but the outcome differs from house to house. Do not worry because the God of all creation is with those who love and obey Him.

    Passage – Joshua 24:14-28

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    35 min
  • Sacred vs. Secular

    "Nothing is sacred anymore." You've probably heard or said this phrase recently. As discussed in the last episode, Matt and Tim said that many believers do not have a biblically accurate understanding of what "being holy" is, so in this episode, our hosts work this out for parents. Though not a more practical episode, an understanding of believers needing to be different from the world sets up their families to be biblically informed and practically sound. Be holy as God is holy.

    Passages – Leviticus 19:1-2; Ephesians 5:15-17; 1 Peter 2:13-19

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    37 min
  • Against Mysticism

    For believers, the Bible is clear that we are to be different than the world, but how far does that difference extend to? In this episode, Tim and Matt break down what Christian mysticism means and how it is harmful to your families. The Bible lays out clear and plain instructions on how to live and what to understand, so going beyond those boundaries leads to misunderstanding and even unbelief if not corrected. TL;DR – Be biblical, not spiritual.

    Passages – Psalm 8:1-4; Jeremiah 29:13; John 4:21-24; Colossians 2:8-10; 1 John 4:1

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    35 min
  • When They Walk Away

    Every Christian parent wants to see their children accept Christ at an early age, mature in their faith and their life, and have families that do the same. However, that is not always the case (nor is it a majority, either). In this episode, Matt and Tim walk through two passages that talk about people walking away from the Christian faith and discuss how parents should respond. Include Jesus in your everyday conversations, continue to pray for your children, and see how God uses your faithfulness for the good of your families.

    Passages – Matthew 28:18-20; Hebrews 6:1-8; 1 John 2:18-23

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    35 min
  • Fruit of the Spirit – With Accountability (Self-control)

    Tim and Matt wrap up their study on parenting with the fruit of the Spirit. In this episode, they talk about the one thing a lot of people struggle with (our hosts included). Self-control is a necessary part of the Christian life, and without it, the rest of the fruit become unattainable according to the standard of God's Word. With humility and accountability, staying on the path Scripture sets out becomes more accessible and desirable.

    Passage – Galatians 5:22-26

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    32 min
  • Fruit of the Spirit – Lifting Others Up (Faithfulness and Gentleness)

    A lot of people have ideas of faithfulness and gentleness in their minds, but do they line up with the biblical principles? In the penultimate section of our study of the fruit of the Spirit, Matt and Tim talk about what it means to be trustworthy and treat people with dignity. Loving your family leads to treating them with dignity. No matter how un-gentle your actions may seem at first, demonstrating a biblical life shows your kids what they must do to achieve the same.

    Passage – Galatians 5:22-26

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    35 min
  • Fruit of the Spirit – Considerate Parenting (Kindness and Goodness)

    There is a difference between being nice and being kind as well as a difference between being just and being good. A lot of people conflate the terms and create confusion, so in this episode, Tim and Matt want to give examples of the differences between each term and why they are beneficial to biblical parenting. Let God's love influence your kindness, and let that kindness influence your goodness.

    Passages – Luke 15:11-31; Galatians 5:19-26

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    37 min
  • Fruit of the Spirit – Internalizing Truth (Peace and Patience)

    Tim and Matt weathered some storms recently (both literally and figuratively) and had a testing of peace and patience, which is great because that is the topic for this episode. Since believers are supposed to strive for all of the fruit of the Spirit, there needs to be a recognition that this must first take place in the heart. There will not be peace with others if there is no peace with God, and there will be no patience with others if there is no patience with God. Set in your heart to follow and obey Christ for your good, for family's good, and His glory.

    Passages – 2 Samuel 1:1-Matthew 1:25; Galatians 5:22-26; 2 Peter 1:5-7

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    35 min
  • Fruit of the Spirit – The Foundation (Love and Joy)

    The Bible talks a lot about love and joy. The love of God is shown through His mercy and grace, and joy is the outcome of His salvation and deliverance.  In this episode, Matt and Tim talk about how Christian parents are not called to "normal" parenting but that of different, holy parenting. Living without God's love leads to the inability to experience true joy and satisfaction. In a culture of exploring new ways to fulfill your desires, the Bible calls for believers to stand on the truth of who God is and what He calls us to do.

    Passage – Galatians 5:22-26

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    36 min

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Psalm 127:4 says, "Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the sons born in one's youth." A skilled warrior knows how to use his arrow, but children can be difficult to teach at times. The focus…