In this episode of Random Thoughts, we’re having a real conversation about turn offs—what immediately makes us lose interest, what we might do that turns others off, and how we respond once the vibe shifts.

We’re getting honest about pet peeves, dealbreakers, communication styles, and how quick (or slow) we are to cut someone off when the attraction fades. If you’ve ever gotten the ick or been left on read wondering why… this episode might explain it.