Random Thoughts by Jalani

This month we're talking about generational curses! For this week's episode, we discuss generational curses and what they are, the ones we've experienced, the ones we've broken, and how we plan to break others. This is such an important topic, especially in the Black community, because we don't always understand why we constantly remain in certain cycles. We also decipher between curses and choices, so tune in and tell us what you think!

This is a chill episode about everything music! We discuss the way it can help and hurt us, how it represents us, how it describes us etc. We also get a little personal discussing our own experiences and feelings as artists, and of course, we have a little fun with a specialized game!

We used to have TLC, SWV, Jagged Edge, Donell Jones, Mary J., etc all releasing music around the same time! Think about the artists we have now, do they even compare? Some people don't like the new r&b at all, but others prefer it, where do you stand? In this episode, we're going to discuss our favorite artists, our favorite songs, musical eras, comparisons, genres, who we think fell off and even more! Come vibe with us and share your thoughts!

Double standards are very difficult to get away from, especially at home. Why is the man expected to pay the bills? Why does the son get to date before the daughter? Why is molestation not viewed so harshly when a women does it to a man? Maybe some household double standards are acceptable, so we're going to let you know what we think. Tune in, share your opinions, and call out the double standards you've experienced too!

Why do we have so many double standards in society? It's justified when men cheat, but it's disgusting if a woman does it. It's stupid for a celebrity to take her man back, but it's okay when your friend does. It's funny when the popular kid jokes on someone, but no one laughs when the not-so-popular kid jokes back. On tonight's episode, we're going to discuss double standards, acknowledge times when we've been guilty of judging by double standards, and identify the importance of grace when judging others differently for no real reason. Tune in and you'll find something to relate to as well!

As Black men and women, we sometimes feel self conscious about our hair in public places whether it's because of a style, color, the frizz of our natural, or just because we don't have the confidence to wear it proudly. Sometimes, we make our own people feel insecure about wearing their hair because of how society has influenced us. This episode is about loving our hair, wearing it proudly, and how society views it; so if you've ever questioned your hair or someone else's, you should definitely tune in!

Tonight we're talking about protective styles: natural, bundles, braids, ponytails, a little of everything! We discuss what works for us, what doesn't, protective styles that aren't really protective, why we should love and take care of our hair and more! If you like talking about Black hair, this is the episode for you!

On tonight's episode of Random Thoughts, we're talking about colorism. We discuss the problematic totality of ranking people by shade, stereotypes that come with it, everyday sayings that encourage colorism, and much more! If you have ever experienced or witnessed colorism, this is the perfect episode for you!

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we discuss a topic that is so often avoided— racism. We talk about it's origin, how common it still is in today's time, the long-lasting impact its had on the Black community, how quickly Black people turn against each other and more. If you enjoy discussions about systemic oppression, Black unity, and unpopular opinions (mixed in with a few jokes), this is the episode for you!

In this episode of Random Thoughts, we're diving into girl group chats and the unspoken dynamics behind them. We discuss the roles everyone plays in the chat, how group chats evolve as life gets busier, what actually deserves a spot in the chat, and why these conversations are more than just endless notifications. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the real talk.