The story is told of a father who gave his daughter an old car as a graduation present. Before handing over the keys for good he instructed her to have it valued at a used car dealership, a pawn shop and a classic car club. The used car dealership offered her £1,000 because it looked very tired. The pawn shop offered just £100 because of its age. But the classic car club offered her £100,000 because it was a very rare and iconic car, much in demand. She returned home and told her father about the different valuations. He told her, ‘the right place values you in the right way. You are about to start out in life. If you are not valued, don’t get angry, just realise that you are in the wrong place. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.’