Turnaround Marriage Podcast

In this video, we talk about the trap of hopelessness when a marriage struggles, the 3 potential sins you can slip into if you stay in that hopelessness, and what you can do to bring hope back to your marriage. 

Scott and Rachel Lawry are the co-founders of Turnaround Marriage LLC, a Christian marriage coaching company committed to helping married Christians go from conflict to closeness quickly. 

Our mission is to strengthen the Kingdom of God by coming alongside married Christians to restore trust, resolve conflict, rebuild connection, & reignite intimacy in their covenant marriage.

To learn about and register for our upcoming biblical and practical Marriage Workshop, check out: https://turnaroundmarriage.com/workshop/ 

To watch our free masterclass, “The 5 Simple Shifts Christians Make to Completely Turn Their Marriage Around Quickly, Recover Connection, & Fall Back in Love Again” https://turnaroundmarriage.live 

To learn more about our Signature Program and explore Christian marriage coaching with Turnaround Marriage with a free breakthrough call: https://turnaroundmarriage.com/start/ (application required)

Also, to hear Leslie and Jared's testimony: https://youtu.be/ZzaXad-O0zY?si=x3QxYQMPafhJVrQP

In this video, Rachel shows the descent many couples experience when they go from devoted to done, and how this slow descent can be stopped at any point with a change of heart and mind, and a new perspective. She outlines the biggest lie that stops many married Christians from doing the work to turn things around, and she walks you through how to apply 1 Peter 5:7 to your marriage.

Scott and Rachel Lawry are the co-founders of Turnaround Marriage LLC, a Christian marriage coaching company committed to helping married Christians go from conflict to closeness quickly. Our mission is to strengthen the Kingdom of God by coming alongside married Christians to restore trust, resolve conflict, rebuild connection, & reignite intimacy in their covenant marriage.

To see all the steps to go from Devoted to Done, check out the vault at https://www.turnaroundmarriage.com/the-vault/  and scroll down to the 5 Pillars of the Turnaround Marriage Method.

To watch our free masterclass, “The 5 Simple Shifts Christians Make to Completely Turn Their Marriage Around Quickly, Recover Connection, & Fall Back in Love Again” https://turnaroundmarriage.live

To book a breakthrough call to explore Christian marriage coaching with Turnaround Marriage: https://turnaroundmarriage.com/call/ (application required)

To hear Samuel and Jeanna’s full story: https://youtu.be/2iH05zLdDMo?si=jpdlFUwrU_PqfNh9

To join us at our next Christian marriage workshop: https://turnaroundmarriage.com/workshop/

To book a call and explore working with us to restore and strengthen your marriage: https://turnaroundmarriage.com/call/

Samuel and Jeanna were like many married Christian couples. Both ordinary and extraordinary.

He wanted peace. She wanted connection.

Ordinary because they got tangled up in the same cycle so many find themselves stuck in – what we call the PEACE – CONNECTION STANDOFF.

After years of Samuel feeling punished and paralyzed because of his passivity, and years of Jeanna trying to connect but coming off as controlling and critical, they got to their breaking point.

They are extraordinary, too, because they were courageous enough to try “one more thing” and do the work inside Turnaround Marriage to rebuild their marriage.

On this episode, we break down the pattern they were in, what they tried and why it didn’t work before Turnaround Marriage, the 5 steps they took to rebuild their marriage, and the framework for what helped them rebuild their marriage to “better than it was before” that can help you break out of the PEACE – CONNECTION STANDOFF, too.

This episode is for the married Christian couple who can’t break out of the cycle of conflict.

Husband, you feel beat up, criticized, and frustrated, but you just want peace.

Wife, you feel resentful and unloved because you’re desperately trying to connect.

You want a pathway to heal your marriage that helps you put God first, get your needs met, and create both peace AND connection again.

When a Christian marriage is struggling, most people think they need to fix their communication first. We have found that can’t be the first thing you address.

On this podcast, we’ll dive into the 5 areas that one needs to grow in for a marriage to turn around and heal, and in what order. Just like when making any recipe, if you get things out of order, it won’t turn out the way you had hoped. 

For a workshop, visit www.turnaroundmarriage.com/different/ 

For ongoing workshops, visit www.turnaroundmarriage.com/workshop/

Scott and Rachel unpack why marriage is precious beyond measure, but it's not eternal. They unpack what Jesus said about marriage at the resurrection, why "temporary" makes your marriage MORE urgent, and a word of hope for anyone walking the journey of loss.

Marriage is a priceless gift held in an open hand for this one beautiful life we get. Cherish it fully. Hold it loosely, trusting the Giver.

Can You Really Let Go of the Past? 

It can feel so hard to move past the past...there are the memories, the struggle to forgive, the nervous system responses, and all the history.  Truly, a lot CAN get in the way... and today we dive into why and how it is possible to let go, move forward, and finally find healing (for you and your marriage).

If you and your spouse sometimes don't see eye to eye and it's frustrating to understand each other's point of view, you'll want to listen to this podcast, where we break down 2 of the biggest overlooked differences between husbands and wives that we discover in Genesis chapter 3, and what you can do to bring understanding to your marriage. 

Programming note: this episode was recorded before the Charlie Kirk murder and episode 4 that we released about that subject (we talk about episode 4).

So often, Christians come to us wanting help to resolve their conflict. They think they are arguing about sex, or money, or the children, or time together, but what they don’t know is that they are actually arguing about things much deeper. On today’s episode, we will help you dig deeper and figure out what you are really arguing about, how to hear each other, and finally resolve those issues that you’ve dealt with for years.

A week ago today, we witnessed a horrific, violent, and calculated crime that has left the world changed forever. What does this mean for us as conservative Christians? What can we do in the wake of this divide in America? Listen in for encouragement and practical steps you can take right now. 

Are you fast approaching the empty nest years? Are your kids moving out, going to college, leaving for the military, or starting jobs and life feels very different at home? 

The stress and grief and angst around our children leaving can leave couples feeling confused, upset, and sometimes dreading life with just the two of them. 

If you’ve been growing apart for years, and staying together mostly for the kids, or if you’re just not sure what marriage will look like when the schedules and focus shifts, this episode is for you. 

On this episode, we share how we’ve been preparing for this season, why it’s hard, what encouragement we have from Scripture, as well as some practical things you can do to reconnect. 

Enjoy, 

Scott & Rachel 

P.S. Please share this with your friends and family that are facing this season, and help our podcast get off the ground.