There are always pain points that we go through in life. Maybe you have encountered trauma, stress, pain that you would have never chosen for yourself and it has been a burden that you bare for years. In this episode, we share a tool that can help to shift your perspective on those shadowed areas of your life. Life is always happening for you, even when we cannot see it at the time. We both share our stories where we have suffered placed blame on others and how we transformed this into deep gratitude which has allowed us to be free of that experience. We do not need to live in the dark, but it is up to us to make the shift in perspective.