38. Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey

In this episode I talk about the 12 lessons I have learned in my Polycurious journey.

Be Patient. Go as fast as the slowest person

Find the right time to talk

Check with your partner before making plans with other people

Feeling guilt at first is normal

Don’t sugarcoat. Be honest with your partner

Determine how much you want to share with your partner

Meeting your partner’s partners (metamours) helps with jealousy 

Jealousy and insecurities are likely to decrease with time

You can’t control your feelings for other people

Infatuation and New Relationship Energy can be fleeting

Be careful where you invest your energy

Non-sexual intimacy can be powerful 

Resources discussed in this episode:

Fer & Seth’s episode 

Jessica’ Esfandiary's episode

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Rachel Krantz episode

Dr.Zhana's episode

Mariah & Fer's episode

Tory and Jackson's Monocurious episode

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