Marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts, but that doesn’t mean it will always be easy. Two people with different personalities, experiences, expectations, and perspectives learning to become one will inevitably face moments of difficulty. The question isn’t whether challenges will come—it’s how we choose to respond when they do.
In 1 Peter 3, Peter gives practical instruction for relationships within marriage. He points us toward respect, understanding, honor, humility, compassion, and a commitment to respond to one another in a way that reflects Christ. A healthy marriage isn’t built by always getting your way; it’s built when both people continually choose to honor God in the way they love one another.
This message, “Difficulty in Marriage,” challenges us to look beyond what our spouse needs to change and allow God to first work within our own hearts. Sometimes the greatest breakthrough in a marriage begins when we stop asking, “How can I change them?” and start asking, “God, what are You trying to change in me?”