Two Old Sexperts: Talking Sexuality & Disabilities

Dating continues to evolve as we age. In this episode, we examine how love, attraction, and connection change during midlife and beyond. We discuss redefining partner preferences, adjusting to new routines, managing blended families, health shifts, and the bravery needed to be vulnerable again. Aging provides a fresh perspective on relationships. Through genuine stories and insightful analysis, we explore why dating later in life can be more intentional, stable, and unexpectedly exciting. Whether you’re re-entering the dating scene, already involved, or just curious about how romance changes with age, this discussion offers insights, humor, and hope for the second chapter of love.

This episode includes AI-generated content.

Relationships shape our well‑being, but recognizing when a relationship becomes unhealthy isn’t always straightforward — especially for people with intellectual disabilities, who often receive limited or inconsistent education on boundaries, consent, and safety.In this episode, we break down the early signs of unhealthy or unsafe relationships in a way that is accessible, practical, and empowering. We explore:

• 🚩 Common red flags like control, isolation, manipulation, and disrespect
• 💬 How to teach these concepts using clear language, repetition, and real‑life examples
• 🧩 Why people with intellectual disabilities may be at higher risk for relationship harm
• 🤝 Strategies for supporters — families, staff, educators — to provide education without fear‑based messaging
• 🌱 Tools that build confidence, autonomy, and the ability to seek help

This conversation centers on dignity, respect, and the belief that everyone deserves the skills to build healthy, safe, and fulfilling relationships. It’s an essential listen for caregivers, professionals, and anyone committed to supporting people with intellectual disabilities in navigating relationships with confidence and clarity.

Loneliness can feel different when you live with a disability—and it’s something we don’t often talk about openly. This episode dives into what that loneliness can look like, from social isolation and inaccessible spaces to the quiet ache of feeling misunderstood or left out. We explore how disability, identity, and community overlap, and why loneliness isn’t a personal shortcoming but often a systemic issue. Through real stories, reflection, and practical insights, the conversation makes room for grief, anger, hope, and connection. Whether you’re disabled, care about someone who is, or want to better understand, this episode encourages listening with empathy and curiosity. You’re not alone—and you shouldn’t have to face loneliness on your own.

Hello, Podcast listeners!  This is a quick update on what's happening with the two old sexperts!  We'll be back soon, answering questions and providing tips and information.  If you have any questions about the services provided by Shawn McGill Consulting or to follow our events, please visit www.shawnmcgillmsw.com for more details.  Stay tuned, Sharon and I will be back and chatting with you soon!

Stay well and stay strong!
Shawn

We are sharing questions and answers (or dialogues regarding the questions) to guide and support.  Our shared goal as "Two Old Sexperts" is to provide you, the listener, with education and resources while remaining devoted to supporting those with intellectual, developmental, and neurological differences, mainly related to sexuality, whether it involves healthy sexuality or more complicated issues such as offending behavior.

Today, we delve into gender expression, masturbation, and considerations for supporting individuals with problematic or offending behaviors.  We want to hear from you!  Please send your questions (you can remain anonymous) to us via email at [email protected].

Our nation is facing unprecedented challenges. Democracy and human rights are under attack. This affects all of us, and we need to start caring and thinking more deeply. If we are champions, allies, friends, or supporters of anyone considered a minority (yes, women; that includes you), then the time was long ago, but the urgency is now. Our futures and our lives depend on it. People want us to be fearful. They want us to conform and fit into molds, but therein lies the issue.   Sharon and I will continue our quest until there’s nothing left to try, and we will be those champions. If for no other reason than for each other because love prevails over hate. We hope you will join us or continue to ride along with us.

A brief PSA on service changes in Pennsylvania and a hope for an inspirational boost! ~Shawn

It has been nearly six months since we joined to record a podcast.  This episode is about the union and journey of two friends.  Our serendipitous dinner in Scranton led to the creation of the podcast a few years ago, but, more importantly, our relationship moved from professional acquaintances to friends.  Our relationship propels and inspires us to try to teach others.  Sexuality is broad.  Humanity is complex.  The power to motivate is endless.  Be kind.

In this episode, we (Shawn and Sharon) talk about autism and offense-related issues.  Through the chat, we explore and openly discuss a lot of gaps and missing components that could lead us to better solutions to prevent brushing up on the criminal justice system, at least as it relates to sexual offenses.

Registration for the Sexuality Practitioner Program is now available. We will be starting with two cohorts beginning May 2nd. One option is each Thursday during the 12-1 pm lunch hour, or another option is each Thursday in the evening from 7-8 pm. For more information, please visit www.shawnmcgillmsw.com and click on the events page.