Submission is a commandment and not something women can choose or not choose to do. When we don't submit, we are breaking the commandments. We are to submit to our husbands as unto the Lord. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://uneditedbiblicalsubmission.wordpress.com/2021/04/19/why-submission-is-equal-to-life-or-death-for-women/