Unattainable Podcast Show

Special thanks to Milan for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We get brutally honest with Milan about dating in Los Angeles, where attraction is real, authenticity is rare, and insecurity can wreck a relationship fast. Her bomb shelter story shifts everything toward gratitude, resilience, and the creative routines that keep her grounded in the modeling and acting world.
• dating in LA without chasing money or clout
• why attraction matters and why people lie about it
• the “hot guy phase” and what replaces it long term
• how trauma and near-death moments reset your priorities
• the bomb shelter escape story and what it taught her
• talking about past relationships without disrespecting your partner
• insecurity, possessiveness, and the “where are you” spiral
• being an empath, reading energy, and needing emotional boundaries
• manifestation, Utah “signs,” and landing a first commercial
• why modeling is a skill and not just good looks
• trust issues, rumors, and friendship drama behind the scenes
• bullying, jealousy, and learning not to take it personally
• piano as therapy and the habit that builds confidence
• martial arts discipline and why real human interaction matters
• anxiety triggers, control, and why she chooses not to drink
• a creative coach as therapy and the push to stop doomscrolling
My Instagram is at Milan Chaim, M I L A N C H A I M
My TikTok is I’m Not Milan One

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Special thanks to Brinley for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We sit down with Brinley Walker to unpack why dating apps feel like a Black Mirror loop and how a “go with the flow” mindset can quietly turn into letting someone waste your time. We get honest about situationships, marriage, jealousy, validation, and the difference between being chill and having real boundaries.
• Astrology as an icebreaker and what “Capricorn energy” signals in dating
• Dating app burnout and why first dates start feeling like interviews
• Meeting people while drinking and the gap between nightlife personality and real life
• A Halloween run-in with an ex that triggers the ick
• Ghosting dynamics and the numbers game of high-demand matches
• Clinginess vs expectations and how attachment can show up early
• A four-month situationship and the cost of avoiding hard conversations
• Honesty when dating multiple people and why it protects everyone
• Why a past relationship ended and how distance amplifies incompatibility
• Marriage as a logical commitment and why “the next step” leads to divorce
• Love languages and what a thoughtful first date looks like
• Insecurity, social anxiety, and growing up trained to seek approval
• Submission defined as trust with boundaries, not control
• Open relationships and why possessiveness changes the rules
• Defining cheating and how anger, forgiveness, and accountability collide
• A friend fallout after a traumatic incident and the need for explanations

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Special thanks to Emma for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

Emma shares how she built an OnlyFans career while navigating manipulation, betrayal, and the messy reality of dating inside the creator economy. We talk consent, attachment styles, and what it takes to unlearn the belief that love has to hurt.
• building an OnlyFans business through event planning and creator management skills
• dating a manager and how business control turns into relationship control
• open relationship dynamics that still end in cheating
• content house drama and concerns around consent
• defining free use and why consent must be explicit
• family history trauma and how therapy reshapes boundaries
• abuse cycles including financial control gaslighting and planning an escape
• porn stigma objectification and setting clear dating boundaries
• love languages communication and what a healthy relationship requires
• practical dating safety tips including FaceTime and quick background checks
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Special thanks to Audrey for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We ask why dating in LA feels like abundance without alignment, and Audrey shares how trust, values, and discipline cut through the noise. From “hey girly” DMs to love languages and run clubs, we test what actually builds a lasting bond.

• LA dating culture and Peter Pan tendencies
• stability vs stubbornness in Taurus traits
• why settling down can be joyful, not dull
• long-distance rules and end-date realities
• people pleasing, boundaries, and reciprocity
• love language misalignment and clear asks
• quality time vs quantity time debate
• where to meet value-driven partners
• first-date green flags and dealbreakers

Thank you to all of our listeners. We’ve been getting a ton of growth and engagement over the past few weeks. So we gotta thank you guys out there for that.

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Special thanks to Payton for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We dig into why dating apps reward avoidant patterns, how to balance attraction with values, and why “love is a choice” beats the soulmate myth. Peyton shares a seven-month almost-relationship, a five-girlfriend reveal, and the simple rules that keep trust intact.

• online dating norms in Southern California and app fatigue
• attraction as entry, values and consistency as filters
• avoidant attachment cycles and how to exit them
• the five-girlfriend reveal and verifying red flags
• rejecting soulmates, choosing growth and acceptance
• age gaps, maturity, and avoiding “potential” traps
• first-date formats and managing risk and vibes
• height preferences, double standards, and non-negotiables
• boundaries on cheating, phones, and privacy
• shifting from app churn to intentional screening

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Special thanks to Emma for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We unpack San Diego and LA dating, how blurred boundaries let betrayal repeat, and how trusting ourselves rebuilt confidence. Emma shares how a poetry practice turned pain into meaning and how initiative at work beats waiting for permission.

• San Diego dating realities and red flags
• Meeting on Hinge and trusting alignment
• First love, toxic love and codependency
• Betrayal by friends and gray areas
• Boundaries as self-respect not punishment
• Writing as healing and editing with distance
• Defining cheating, flirting and secrecy
• Fetishes, honesty and consented standards
• Intuition over surveillance and phone checks
• Age gaps, maturity and power dynamics
• First date design and momentum
• Career lessons: action over permission
• Internships, curiosity and being memorable

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Special thanks to Amberlynn for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We trace Amber’s path from ending a relationship at her mom’s baptism to finding calm in ER nursing while untangling grief, faith, and attachment. It’s raw, funny, and grounded in hard-won boundaries about love, sex, and what belief means when life hurts.

• breaking up at a baptism to stop settling
• cheating, stalking, and the moment the switch flipped
• high sex drive, monogamy, and “recycling” partners
• male friendships and where lines hold
• petty revenge, the bedroom interception, and aftermath
• teen pregnancy, absent father, and family fallout
• faith vs atheism, afterlife fears, and grief
• nursing school stress, ER purpose, and anxiety relief
• attachment styles shaping dating choices
• clear dating criteria, kids, and future hopes

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Special thanks to Lindsey for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We trace Lindsay’s leap from pre-professional ballet to broadcast ambitions, and how heartbreak, campus life, and tough boundaries reshaped her view of love, loyalty and growth. Raw takes on cheating, double standards, money, and social media guide a practical playbook for modern dating.

• leaving ballet to protect mental health and identity
• adapting to SDSU after homeschool and a breakup
• how to heal without rebound habits
• defining emotional vs physical cheating and gray zones
• setting digital boundaries on likes, DMs and thirst traps
• money, ambition and expectations for long-term partners
• body count math vs double standards and context
• forgiveness, second chances and trust repair
• first-date paying as a signal of intent
• college ROI, real-world skills and career goals

• Glad to have you with us and hope you continue to be a part of our family for the foreseeable future
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Special thanks to Johanaa for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We welcome Joanna, a realtor who left Amazon and healthcare tracks to build a client-first career, and we test her firm dating standards against modern expectations. The conversation heats up around monogamy, open relationships, and what “respect” really looks like when biology, culture, and commitment collide.

• leaving Amazon and medical assisting for real estate and entrepreneurship
• why clear dating standards beat situationships
• defining cheating across physical, emotional, and digital lines
• chivalry cues and how early behavior predicts patterns
• jealousy, insecurity, and trust without surveillance
• monogamy vs open rules, expectations, and control
• forgiveness after infidelity and when to walk away
• non-negotiables: ambition over looks, respect over vibes

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Special thanks to Destiny for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show 

We talk timelines, boundaries, and the emotional math of love, from first-date sparks to long-term safety. Destiny shares hard lessons from a toxic college relationship, why moving in first is non-negotiable, and how honesty outperforms vibes.

• early hopes for marriage and kids meet adult responsibility
• dating in LA and San Diego as trade-offs with peace and routine
• living together before engagement as a core rule
• toxic relationship patterns, stalking, and recovery
• standards for respect, second chances, and quick exits
• monogamy vs openness, intention vs action, clear lines
• dopamine, intimacy, and safety across relationship stages
• flirting, validation, jealousy, and control debated
• submission, leadership, and shared decision-making
• nightlife lessons on honesty, boundaries, and trust

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