The most empowering thing you can experience is not to eat by yourself in a restaurant (been there and done that), it's not to go to a movie by yourself (done that as well), and its most certainly not traveling by yourself (people do that on the regular all the time), but instead, try spending New Years Eve by yourself. And I don't mean by yourself in your house watching romantic comedies with a plate full of take out and your cat or your dog beside you. I mean, dress up, look cute and enjoy the New Years festivities by yourself. On the most Hollywood glamorized holidays of the year where the expectation is top spend it at a party with people in hopes you get that New Years kiss, spend it by yourself fully by yourself feeling good with just your own company and presence. Life is happening now and its happening for you, not to you. Fully live this moment and live out your dreams. Don't wait for someone to bring them to you through a New Years kiss and deliver it by mail but really start living presently in the now.
Thats exactly what I did. I have been living and breathing my dream and I didn't come to the realization until my eyes opened to see January 1st on the calendar and my mind went racing... "I live here... I really did it... I live here... no really... what? I live here... I made my dreams a reality!"