We often don’t reflect about things we did, choices we made, decisions we took, because that inner discovery is uncomfortable and ugly. It takes time and it takes courage to actually dive deep into who we are and what led us to be us. Reflecting usually takes us to some world we don’t want to get to, feel things we don’t want to feel, and even remember memories we don’t want to remember. However, no matter how complex it is, it is still the first important step to understand ourselves and the people around us.