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In this episode of Undeletable Dad, Tracy Poizner sits down with human design expert and author Nina Cuellar-Barry to break down a powerful—but often overlooked—tool for understanding your children on a deeper level.

For divorced and separated dads navigating high-conflict parenting, the traditional tools and approaches are no longer effective. Human Design is a practical framework to understand your child’s emotional wiring, decision-making style, and behavioral patterns—so you can stop guessing and start connecting.

Nina's upcoming book "Parenting with Human Parenting" reveals how small shifts in awareness can dramatically improve communication, reduce conflict, and help you show up as the grounded, magnetic father your kids naturally turn toward.

• Why traditional parenting tools often fail dads after divorce/separation
• How Human Design reveals your child’s emotional and behavioral blueprint
• The difference between emotionally driven vs. instinct-driven children
• How to respond to emotional overwhelm without escalating conflict
• Why some kids absorb and amplify other people’s emotions
• How to guide decision-making based on your child’s natural design
• The hidden reason some kids struggle with time, pressure, and transitions

• [00:00] What “Undeletable Dad” really means in modern fatherhood
• [03:00] Meet Nina Cuellar-Barry and her journey into Human Design
• [06:00] Why blended families need different parenting tools
• [07:30] What Human Design actually is (and why it works)
• [12:00] How Tracy discovered Human Design—and why it clicked
• [16:00] Reading a Human Design chart (simple breakdown for parents)
• [20:00] Emotional vs. non-emotional children explained
• [32:00] How kids absorb and amplify parental emotions
• [34:00] The danger of kids becoming emotional caregivers
• [38:00] Decision-making styles: gut instinct vs. emotional timing
• [40:00] Nina’s book Parenting with Human Design

Nina Cuellar-Barry is a certified Quantum Human Design Family Coach, retired special education teacher, and author of Parenting with Human Design. She helps parents understand their children’s unique energetic blueprint to create more harmony, connection, and ease in family dynamics.

Undeletable Dad, hosted by Tracy Poizner, is built for divorced and separated fathers who refuse to lose their connection with their children. The show delivers practical tools, mindset shifts, and unconventional strategies to help dads step out of survival mode and into confident, intentional fatherhood.

Visit undeletabledad.com for courses and to apply for private mentorship with Tracy.

In this powerful and deeply human episode of The Undeletable Dad Podcast, Tracy Poizner sits down with Ron Platt - serial entrepreneur, foster father, and systems-level advocate for families navigating divorce and parental alienation.

Ron shares the personal journey that led him to create the first divorce insurance product of its kind, alongside a national membership organization designed to support single and divorced families holistically — financially, emotionally, and structurally.

This episode is essential listening for fathers who want to protect their relationship with their children, even when life throws unexpected obstacles in the way.

• Ron’s foster parenting journey
  How becoming a foster father reshaped his understanding of family, permanence, boundaries, and advocacy — and what it taught him about children who’ve experienced trauma and instability.

• Why traditional systems fail divorced families
  From courts to child support enforcement to mental health access, Ron breaks down where the cracks are — and why parents often fall through them.

• The creation of Divorce Insurance (Support Insured)
  A groundbreaking insurance product that ensures child support and alimony payments continue in situations where the paying parent:

  • Dies

  • Becomes disabled

  • Is involuntarily unemployed

  • Declares business bankruptcy

  This protection prevents parents from being labeled “deadbeats” due to circumstances beyond their control — and protects children from sudden financial disruption.

• How Support Insured actually works

  • Affordable annual premiums

  • Coverage tied only to court-ordered support amounts

  • Up to 12 months of continued payments during hardship

  • Available to either parent

• Why this matters for fathers facing high-conflict divorce
  Financial collapse often leads to loss of parenting time, court sanctions, and alienation. This product helps fathers stabilize during crisis — without losing access to their children.

• The mission of NASDF (National Association for Single & Divorced Families)
  A first-of-its-kind membership organization offering:

  • Free & discounted mental health support

  • Career and employment resources

  • Childcare and family discounts

  • Advocacy for foster care reform

  • Programs aimed at preventing intergenerational poverty

• Foster care reform & child advocacy
  Ron explains how privatization, instability, and lack of consistent therapeutic care harm foster children — and what systemic changes must happen next.

Divorce doesn’t just separate families — it exposes them to financial, emotional, and institutional risk.

This episode shines a light on practical solutions, not platitudes. Ron Platt isn’t theorizing — he’s building infrastructure that protects parents and children when life doesn’t go according to plan.

If you’re a father navigating:

• Divorce or post-divorce instability

• Child support pressure

• Fear of losing access to your kids

• Systemic unfairness

…this conversation will give you clarity, options, and hope.

• National Association for Single & Divorced Families (NASDF)
  👉 https://nasdf.org

• Support Insured (Divorce Insurance Program)
  👉 Available through NASDF membership

• Undeletable Dad Programs & Mentorship
  👉 https://undeletabledad.com

• Contact Tracy Poizner for video courses and live/Zoom 1:1 mentorship:
  📧 [email protected]

Your relationship with your children should never be collateral damage.

This episode is about protecting fathers, stabilizing families, and building systems that actually work — even in the hardest seasons of life.

Thanks for listening - your kids thank you, too!

In this empowering and insightful episode of the Undeletable Dad Podcast, Tracy sits down with the renowned relationship and business expert, Dr. Gilda Carle. Famously known as the "Love Doctor" from her MTV days, Dr. Gilda brings decades of experience and wisdom into an often-overlooked topic—men’s mental health.

Drawing from her newest, thought-provoking book, "Real Men Don't Go Woke," Dr. Gilda sheds light on the hidden crisis of men's emotional well-being, revealing alarming statistics around depression, loneliness, and suicide rates among men, particularly those facing challenges like parental alienation, divorce, and isolation.

Episode Highlights:

• Men’s Silent Crisis

  • Why men often suffer in silence and the alarming statistic that suicide is the leading cause of death for men under 50.

  • Insightful discussion about celebrities like Howie Mandel, Pete Davidson, Simon Cowell, and Will Smith, highlighting that even seemingly successful men struggle deeply behind the scenes.

• The Book Behind the Conversation

  • Dr. Gilda reveals why major publishers rejected her book due to its provocative title and how she bravely took the publishing journey into her own hands.

  • How this book, described as "a love story for men," has resonated globally, reaching readers who felt isolated and alone in their experiences.

• Understanding the Woke Narrative

  • A deep dive into why "woke" culture poses unique challenges to men's self-esteem and emotional health.

  • Discussion on why society quickly labels men as "toxic," pushing some toward self-denial and despair.

• Strategies for Emotional Mastery

  • Dr. Gilda introduces her powerful three-step approach:
    "Frame it, Claim it, Tame it" to manage anger and emotional overwhelm.

  • Practical examples and communication strategies to foster better understanding in personal and professional relationships.

• Taking Personal Responsibility

  • Why taking responsibility for your emotional state and life circumstances is foundational to healing and personal growth.

  • Real-life anecdotes from Dr. Gilda’s extensive coaching experience, including the critical need to recognize and address one's own role in personal struggles.

• Empowering Women to Support Men

  • How women can create emotionally safe environments for the men in their lives to openly express vulnerability without shame.

  • The importance of genuine listening and compassionate communication, breaking down misconceptions around male vulnerability.

• Transformative Insights for Relationships

  • Dr. Gilda’s direct, no-nonsense advice about avoiding the pitfalls of victimhood, codependency, and "people-pleasing."

  • How authentic self-expression and vulnerability become the foundation for lasting and fulfilling relationships.

About Dr. Gilda Carle:
Dr. Gilda Carle is a celebrated relationship expert, author of 19 books, and former MTV personality known as the “Love Doctor.” She expertly combines relationship and business strategies, helping individuals and corporations communicate effectively, build resilience, and cultivate genuine connections.

Connect with Dr. Gilda:

• Website: drgilda.com

• LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok: @DrGilda

Host Information:
Reach out to Tracy at UndeletableDad.com for support, resources, or coaching on navigating fatherhood, parental alienation, and men’s mental health.

Listen in, share with friends, and join the vital conversation about breaking the silence around men's mental health. It’s time to heal.

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Tammy Cohen, brand messaging consultant and founder of the Women Beyond the Table Business Network is the author of Text Messages To My Kids, a book brimming with inspiration for how you (or your partner) can begin, renew or truly uplevel your connection with kids - especially those who don't live with you or who are in a phase of life where they don't seem open to hearing from you. By going where they are - ie., on their phones - you can meet them in familiar territory and get their attention in a new way. In our conversation, I highlight 10 different strategies Tammy used that any dad (or stepmom) can copy or adapt to suit their own family situation and fill a communication gap with love, attention, security and trust.

Text Messages To My Sons: Connecting Deeply In A World of Devices is a BookFest award winner and Next Generation Indie Book Awards finalist. It's a must read for anyone looking to build a deeper connection with their loved ones!

Contact Tammy at:

www.tcbrandconsulting.com

Instagram: @textmessagestomysons

Facebook.com/Textmessagestomysons

Facebook.com@tammyjcohen

www.linkedin.com/in/tammy-cohen-915815143

[email protected]

Learn to trust your parenting instincts and step into authentic leadership as a father.

Mario Boucher is open to connecting with divorced dads who want to shoot the breeze about raising kids. He can be reached at [email protected]

Visit https://undeletabledad.com to book a free call with me where we can explore different levels of support for journey of post-divorce parenting, from self-paced video programs to the accelerated transformation of VIP 1:1 coaching tailored to your exact needs .

No dad ever thinks it could happen to him but thousands of such cases are brought before the courts every year.

Knowledge is power - protect yourself with the information and preparation strategies to make sure you don't become embroiled in a scheme designed to take you out of the custody equation.

Attorney Charles Jamieson has some free materials with valuable tips - find those at https://cjamiesonlaw.com

Connect with me to learn what you need to stay clear of this kind of ploy and reverse engineer all the evidence you might need one day to clear your name quickly and definitively.

Request a free consultation via my website, https://undeletabledad.com

Reach out for a conversation about personal support, whether to find the best video program for your needs or to inquire about VIP level mentorship around settlement strategies, parenting a hostile teen or shifting your energy from a limiting victim mindset to a true Dark Horse energy.

You can find me at https://undeletabledad.com or https://tracypoizner.com.

Drew Soleyn is a coach, creator of training programs for dads and director of Dad Central Ontario (Canada). Go to dadcentral.ca for loads of free resources and first class support for men to bring the best of themselves to parenting.

Click here to see the infographics about Positive Father Involvement:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1BHVlHmzqhph6EimJicTkaDIIRhfUF5yH?usp=sharing

Connect with Tracy by email at [email protected] to schedule a free 20-minute assessment and strategy session.

It might seem counter-intuitive to invite a women's divorce coach as a guest to this podcast, but Kate Anthony is a voice of reason and a beacon of sanity for divorced mothers everywhere. Hers is a book you can confidently recommend (or gift!) to the mother of your children to help her make the wisest, most compassionate choices for your kids.

Kate is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide and author of "The D-Word: Making The Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage".

Visit kateanthony.com for more information or connect with her on Instagram @thedivorcesurvivalguide.

Reach out to Tracy at undeletabledad.com, or by email at [email protected]

Dr. Leslie Austin is a clinical psychotherapist and nationally recognized expert on personality disorders. She's been featured on numerous network and syndicated TV programs for over 20 years. Visit her website at leslieaustin.com.

Book a complimentary session with Tracy to explore how to get back into contact with your alienated or resistant kids, how to deal effectively with a hostile coparent or how to restore your sense of sovereign fatherhood so your kids are drawn back into your orbit where they belong.

Contact [email protected] to schedule a call.