Under the Willow Tree

In this episode we dicuss some of the things we've continued to wrestle with in this season and some new perspectives we've gained along the way. This is our last episode for season 1, we will be returning for a season 2 with new content in January. Until then we will continue to post some fun things on Instagram and Facebook, so be sure to follow us @underthwillowtreepodcast.

Elise can be found on Instagram and Facebook as well @eliserjames and Tamara can be found on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
BEMA Discipleship https://www.bemadiscipleship.com
The Bible Binge https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZV7O4SgJVwdBjRFvU04Pf?si=c4725b65289b4c68
The Swipe Up+ Newsletter https://erinhmoon.substack.com/

What does it look like when those around you are dating but you remain single? How do you handle the struggles that come with that? How do you walk in contentedness for where God has you? We discuss this and more in this week's podcast.

Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast.
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook @eliserjames and follow Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
BEMA Discipleship Popcast: https://www.bemadiscipleship.com
"Relationships: A Mess Worth Making" https://www.amazon.com/Relationships-Making-Tim-S-Lane/dp/0977080765/ref

This week we discuss the desire for strong mentorship and what that looks like, what we want it to look like, and what it can be. We also talk about recognizing areas where we can be mentoring others.
Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook at @underthewillowtreepodcast.
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook @eliserjames and follow Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Why CAN'T we be friends?
That's the question we discuss in this week's episode as we talk about friendships with the opposite sex, the way the conservative church seems to view them, and how our views have shifted over time about it.

Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast, follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook @eliserjames, and follow Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
"Handle With Care", https://www.amazon.com/Handle-Care-Jesus-Redeems-Ministry/dp/153596233X/ref

"Why Can't We Be Friends", https://www.amazon.com/Why-Cant-We-Friends-Avoidance/dp/1629954179/ref

"Your Spouse Doesn't Have to Be Your Best Friend" https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/spouse-best-friend/

For this week's episode, we're diving deeper into our experiences of community, the value that we see in coming together with others, and the boldness it takes to just "try" and see what comes out when you do.
Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast.
Follow Elise on both Instagram and Facebook @eliserjames, and follow Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.
Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
https://www.amazon.com/Relational-Soul-Moving-False-Connection/dp/0830835873/ref
Ed Welch GROWING TOGETHER CURRICULUM: Lesson 1: Our Neediness is God’s Gift – Edward T. Welch (38:00)
https://www.ccef.org/curriculum/growing-together-curriculum/

This week we're taking a moment to reflect back on the history of our friendship, how confronting resentment and jealousy helped it to grow stronger, and how we tackle conflict and disagreements.
Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook at @eliserjames and Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks. Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
Ed Welch GROWING TOGETHER CURRICULUM: Lesson 1: Our Neediness is God’s Gift – Edward T. Welch (38:00)
https://www.ccef.org/curriculum/growing-together-curriculum/

Join us this week for a conversation with Sean McCoskey, Pastor of House Church & Connection for Central Community Church where we reminisce about times we've been in community together, the importance and some challenges of community and ministry leadership in the church, as well as the spaces in which God has convicted and grown us when ministry and community seasons shift.

Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook at @eliserjames and Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0830846190/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_Q79TBFX04AJDGVGXTEJB?linkCode=ml2&tag=eliserjames-20

"The 8 Hard Sayings of Jesus", https://theseedchurch.org/2014/05/04/hard-sayings-jesus-1-7/

The Relational Soul: Moving from False Self to Deep Connection
https://amzn.to/3Ewb7u7

The Cost of Discipleship
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0684815001/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_X5NCA46DGPYPDR6DZN96?linkCode=ml2&tag=eliserjames-20
Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love https://amzn.to/3PyJarS

Deep Mentoring: Guiding Others on Their Leadership Journey https://amzn.to/44NUkNQ

Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic Neglect of the Holy Spirit
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1434767957/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_NZ9V25S2GQBRCYHSE2NB?linkCode=ml2&tag=eliserjames-20

Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian in Community
https://amzn.to/3sPRkDC

Psalms: The Prayer Book of the Bible
https://amzn.to/45GQLKI

Liturgical Theology: The Church as Worshiping Community
https://amzn.to/44M1hzb

Loneliness can be a crippling feeling, but how does leaning into our relationship with God show us we're never truly alone? How does that model for us how to lean on the community he places in our lives? We discuss this and more in today's episode.

Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook at @eliserjames and Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
5 Love Languages: Find yours here https://www.5lovelanguages.com/ https://amzn.to/462sm2a
"Praying the Bible" by Donald S. Whitney https://amzn.to/461lD8z
Hope is Alive: https://hopeisalive.net/nightofhope/
"Unfettered: Imagining a Childlike Faith beyond the Baggage of Western Culture" https://amzn.to/3Z9CgfW

We couldn't limit this topic to one episode, so welcome to part 2 of Wrestlemania! In this episode, we are continuing our conversation around wrestling with God and talking about how in those seasons of wrestling, lament can be both healthy and a means for deeper worship of and connection with God.

If you have things you're wrestling with that you would like prayer through/for, we'd love to come alongside and pray with you! You can reach out to us at the socials below, or email us at [email protected].

Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook at @eliserjames and Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode: "A Praying Life" by Paul E. Miller: https://amzn.to/3ExTev2
Sermons in Daniel: Daniel: When Kingdoms Collide, sermon series Pastor Brandon Redic, The Bridge Church Part 1 of Daniel 9 https://youtu.be/HguNpzIybxQ
Part 2 of Daniel 9 https://youtu.be/39PezI7eo3c
Daniel 10 https://youtu.be/bYuzgaRoTf8

Most of us have experience some level of challenge or suffering in our life that feels like a never ending wrestling match. In this episode we remind you and ourselves, that it's okay to wrestle with God, and he invites us into deep relationship with Him which involves asking those questions we don't have answers for and asking for what we want.

If you have things you're wrestling with that you would like prayer through/for, we'd love to come alongside and pray with you! You can reach out to us at the socials below, or email us at [email protected].

Follow the podcast on Instagram and Facebook @underthewillowtreepodcast
Follow Elise on Instagram and Facebook at @eliserjames and Tamara on Instagram @tamarajoyks.

Non-Bible materials mentioned in this episode:
BEMA Discipleship- https://www.bemadiscipleship.com/
"A Praying Life" by Paul E. Miller: https://amzn.to/3ExTev2
Daniel: When Kingdoms Collide, sermon series Pastor Brandon Redic, The Bridge Church (part 1 of Daniel 9 https://youtu.be/HguNpzIybxQ
Part 2 of Daniel 9 https://youtu.be/39PezI7eo3c
Daniel 10 https://youtu.be/bYuzgaRoTf8,
When Life Doesn't Make Sense https://youtu.be/6sQn6hW7Kjc