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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker, a clinical psychologist in New Jersey, explores the world of kink-aware therapy and the psychological perspectives on kinks, fetishes, and paraphilias.

He breaks down what defines a sexual interest as a disorder versus when it remains a consensual lifestyle choice, explaining the importance of context, consent, and safety. From fetishism and voyeurism to BDSM dynamics, Dr. Barker highlights how safe, sane, and consensual practices can be part of healthy relationships, while also addressing when behaviors cross into harmful or addictive patterns.

Listeners will gain insight into why kink-aware professionals matter, how they provide judgment-free support, and why society often misunderstands these topics. This episode balances education, compassion, and real-world examples—helping reduce stigma while creating space for open conversation.

👉 If you have questions, feedback, or suggestions for future topics, please email Dr. Barker at [email protected]

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