We’re not commitment phobic, we’re just making multiple commitments. We’re taught that monogamy is the tradition, and it’s because of programming, but what if that’s not the program that works for you? What if wanting to date more than one person isn’t just a faze and you want to explore alternative relationships? Well Kevin Patterson of “Unf*ck Your Polyamory” gives S&M a deeper insight to being black and polyamorous.