In this episode, Ashley Cobb engages with licensed therapist Nikquan Lewis to discuss the profound impact of trauma on relationships, self-esteem, and sexuality. They explore how trauma shapes partner selection, the importance of friendships, and the necessity of reauthoring personal narratives around sex and relationships. Nikquan emphasizes the need for awareness and understanding of one's trauma to foster healthier connections and self-acceptance. The conversation culminates in the announcement of Nikquan's upcoming book, which aims to guide readers in reclaiming their narratives and understanding the cost of trauma in their lives.